Why is the female always absent in this Somali tradition

[Grigori Rasputin]

on her nikkah day when both of the families, groomsman and the tribes come together to consummate the meher and groom hands money to the male reps of his female purchase why is the female always 50 miles away and on the phone for someone to tell her " you are now a married woman"

Is any of you qaxaabdiin liberal/ corrupt Western leaning ones thinking that you'll be seated when it's your nikkah ? Of course you won't! You qaxaabads love to brag about your liberal views here while entrapped in your Hooyo's traditional Somali when home and near hooyo

 

[Jodeci]

on her nikkah day when both of the families, groomsman and the tribes come together to consummate the meher and groom hands money to the male reps of his female purchase why is the female always 50 miles away and on the phone for someone to tell her " you are now a married woman"

Is any of you qaxaabdiin liberal/ corrupt Western leaning ones thinking that you'll be seated when it's your nikkah ? Of course you won't! You qaxaabads love to brag about your liberal views here while entrapped in your Hooyo's traditional Somali when home and near hooyo

That's weird, I think we need to make new traditions wallahi.

 

[Bohol]

Females don't attend the meher lol. It has always been like that.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

That's weird, I think we need to make new traditions wallahi.

She's forbidden in her our own sale it's like 1745 American southern port as the slave ship comes in. She's sold without any say by her

 

[Boqor]

My sister did this when her husband-to-be came to my house, it was a matter of protective jealousy and no goods before payment saxib.

 

[Jodeci]

She's forbidden in her our own sale it's like 1745 American southern port as the slave ship comes in. She's sold without any say by her

time for us to make new traditions ! I think woman should be in attendance of any decision that impacts their life.

 

[GlitzyCue_]

time for us to make new traditions ! I think woman should be in attendance of any decision that impacts their life.

Why? You agreed to marry him before the mehr
And you know he's out taking care of things lol

It's the guys day to take care of business... leave him be

 

[daacad]

That is because the male are the caretakers in the somali household so in the nikkax the guy she is marrying will make a promise to be her caretaker from now on and to the be responsible for her.

 

[Jodeci]

Why? You agreed to marry him before the mehr
And you know he's out taking care of things lol

It's the guys day to take care of business... leave him be

Nah I have to make sure my moneys right once i get that check then we married

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

I was present in my Nikaah. I sat there and watched my boo agree to the Meher price.

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[Grigori Rasputin]

That is because the male are the caretakers in the somali household so in the nikkax the guy she is marrying will make a promise to be her caretaker from now on and to the be responsible for her.

It's basically what these qaxaabads call "condescending" ...basically it Ian handover where the father of the girl hands over his girl like when the European colonizer handed over Somalia to the Somalis in 1960. He is responsible from there on. She's loaned to him as long as he is married to her.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

It's basically what these qaxaabads call "condescending" ...basically it Ian handover where the father of the girl hands over his girl like when the European colonizer handed over Somalia to the Somalis in 1960. He is responsible from there on. She's loaned to him as long as he is married to her.

Loaned? Women are not your property.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

I was present in my Nikaah. I sat there and watched my boo agree to the Meher price.

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It's the dumb new trend where they stand behind and curtain and sometimes peek throw like they in a ship from Africa in 1745 Savanah, Georgia port

 

[Saar]

Why? You agreed to marry him before the mehr
And you know he's out taking care of things lol

It's the guys day to take care of business... leave him be

Dee maxaa inta kasemeehoosa
@Zailah fiiri naagtu

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Loaned? Women are not your property.

It is not my word it is the way it is. Who are we kidding

 

[Zailah]

Dee maxaa inta kasemeehoosa
@Zailah fiiri naagtu

Wey arartey, bal dey waxey sameyneyso

 

[Saar]

Wey arartey, bal dey waxey sameyneyso

Wee noo taal @Lola_Vonroe

 

[ArchBishopofAtheism]

on her nikkah day when both of the families, groomsman and the tribes come together to consummate the meher

They all consummate the marriage??

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

They all consummate the marriage??
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Why are putting my barely comprehensible English language Uber the microscope

 

[GlitzyCue_]

Wee noo taal @Lola_Vonroe

Wey arartey, bal dey waxey sameyneyso

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