Why I suck at showing my feelings to a girl?

[4head]

I get you

Shooting your shot is indeed an extreme sport.

Good luck sxb

thank you bro

 

[Saalax Bidaar]

I’m talking about western raised Somali men.


Fob men will ask for your number while you’re with your parent let alone friend.

 

[Ramen]

Take her to a small coffee shop and talk about things you have in common.

After about 25 minutes youre supposed to talk about relationships iyo balayo.

After 5 minutes compliment her looks.
Make her laugh and drop the bomb


"Abaayo, je t'aime"

 

[Saalax Bidaar]

How did you miss your shot?
Is she still not around?
I mean you could always take a second crack at it

 

[4head]

Take her to a small coffee shop and talk about things you have in common.

After about 25 minutes youre supposed to talk about relationships iyo balayo.

After 5 minutes compliment her looks.
Make her laugh and drop the bomb


"Abaayo, je t'aime"

it sounds like a movie a beautiful romantic movie

 

[SAD151]

I’m talking about western raised Somali men.


Fob men will ask for your number while you’re with your parent let alone friend.

 

[4head]

How did you miss your shot?
Is she still not around?
I mean you could always take a second crack at it

It was 1 year and 8 month ago, I thought she was joking
I felt insecure and stopped talking to her I grew up a little bit and i think in the future i'll become more and more confident

 

[Saalax Bidaar]

It was 1 year and 8 month ago, I thought she was joking
I felt insecure and stopped talking to her I grew up a little bit and i think in the future i'll become more and more confident

Do you know where she is at now?

 

[4head]

Do you know where she is at now?

No..I don't even try now to date girls, i mean i have a job (and i have two weeks of holidays) and i go to school (i study History and maybe Medecine in 2020) and girls..i just ignore them

 

[Mercury]

Well if you want to show your emotions than you should be Honest and not be afraid to express it

 

[Saalax Bidaar]

No..I don't even try now to date girls, i mean i have a job (and i have two weeks of holidays) and i go to school (i study History and maybe Medecine in 2020) and girls..i just ignore them

The things you can accomplish without significant other keeping you distracted

I think you are better this way. Girls are overrated

 

[TimaJilic]

So you are timid, man up niyaw, oo sidan u hadal:

If you are reer Mudug: 'Baayo Jacayl waa jidhaa waan jidhanahee, kaalay aan jidhaynee!'

If you are reer Xamar 'Fiiri abaayo, ani adiga lee kugu haystaa nooh, wax duxaaya ku dedaal lee dhahaan iyo daba naagood, deynba ha laguu raacee nooh'

If you are Qawdhan: 'Naa inaadeer, naa dee anigu adigaan ku jecelahay oo walaahaya, naayaa, naa dee naa inaader, naa dee bal horta isoo eeg'

If you are Arlaadi: 'Ariirow, far fiid ma dhawaagaase'

If you are Reer Jabuuti: ' Yaakhey galaaseerka korkiisa maad garan, halkaas baan ku kulmaynaa maaha?'

 

[Dalmoor]

I wanna share something with you my brothers and sister.
It was that girl who was into me. I thought she was crazy. Like really crazy and in reality, she was a cute girl who was intelligent and easy to talk to.
But I missed my shot, i'm a retard!
I didn't know how to express my feelings. Since my childhood, i used to hide it and i rather prefer being hurt than exposing my true feelings.

So is there any cure of this case of retardation? Or am I doomed for EVER?
thanks for your help!

There is always a door for repetition

I wanna share something with you my brothers and sister.
It was that girl who was into me. I thought she was crazy. Like really crazy and in reality, she was a cute girl who was intelligent and easy to talk to.
But I missed my shot, i'm a retard!
I didn't know how to express my feelings. Since my childhood, i used to hide it and i rather prefer being hurt than exposing my true feelings.

So is there any cure of this case of retardation? Or am I doomed for EVER?
thanks for your help!

I thought you took a shot, you still didn't? How you expect to get results when you didn't shoot your shot?

Go for this one; shoot your shot

There is no problem if she rejects you. She ain't the only girl in the world I guess or make her jealous by acting damn classy. She's gonna come under your knees

 

[Radical]

Alright guys actual helpful post here...

I advises you to perform an exercise called 'view from above'. This exercise involves us envisioning ourselves from the third person. In this vision, we zoom out while keeping ourselves in the centre. We continue zooming out and contemplating the scale of the universe. For instance, your first zoom might encompass a view of you from above the roof of your house. Increase the magnitude and you might see a view of your street, increase the magnitude and you might see a view of your country. Keep going until you can picture a view of Earth from the stars.

With this scale, you can gain a better perspective on the insignificance of your problems. When compared to the universe and the bigger picture whatever problems that might appear are incredibly trivial.
For instance, if you were feeling down because this girl flaked on you or you're planning to talk to her and show your feelings, try this exercise. It is far easier to overcome the emotional hurdles we experience when we put things into perspective.

 

[Kaiser]

Sp

Alright guys actual helpful post here...

I advises you to perform an exercise called 'view from above'. This exercise involves us envisioning ourselves from the third person. In this vision, we zoom out while keeping ourselves in the centre. We continue zooming out and contemplating the scale of the universe. For instance, your first zoom might encompass a view of you from above the roof of your house. Increase the magnitude and you might see a view of your street, increase the magnitude and you might see a view of your country. Keep going until you can picture a view of Earth from the stars.

With this scale, you can gain a better perspective on the insignificance of your problems. When compared to the universe and the bigger picture whatever problems that might appear are incredibly trivial.
For instance, if you were feeling down because this girl flaked on you or you're planning to talk to her and show your feelings, try this exercise. It is far easier to overcome the emotional hurdles we experience when we put things into perspective.

Who are you, and what have you done to @A man.

 

[Kaiser]

@4head
My one and only advise, is to spend a lot of lonely times with her. Invite her out to places, and have some fun together. If you hang out with her when she is only with her friends, then she will only see you as one of her friends. But if you invite her to hang out, just the two of you, then she might see you in a different light. If it's difficult for you to say your feelings to her, then why not show it with some actions (like hanging out, and watching some movies, make it into a little date) rather then some words.

 

[Inquisitive_]

I wanna share something with you my brothers and sister.
It was that girl who was into me. I thought she was crazy. Like really crazy and in reality, she was a cute girl who was intelligent and easy to talk to.
But I missed my shot, i'm a retard!
I didn't know how to express my feelings. Since my childhood, i used to hide it and i rather prefer being hurt than exposing my true feelings.

So is there any cure of this case of retardation? Or am I doomed for EVER?
thanks for your help!

Sharing or showing feelings are feminine characteristics, it's reprehensible, weak and above all pathetic for males to display.

All you had to do was to steer and lead her since she was already interested in you, she would have followed you to the ends of the earth had you done this.

But instead you failed to lead her, procrastinated, turned totally clueless and she sensed this hence her biological repulsion for you kicked in.

You direct and lead women instead of sharing feelings with them, those that are interested will happily follow you.

Those that don't will make all kinds of excuses which you ignore with a smile and move on from.

 

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

Never show emotional feelings, especially to another woman. They will use it against you at a convenient time for them (or inconvenient time for you).

You ask her if she is interested in talking to you to get to know you. There is no emotions required. Why do you need to show emotions to talk to a woman to get married?

The only controlled emotions you should display are to your GP for any treatment or during a death

 

[Southerner]

Alright guys actual helpful post here...

I advises you to perform an exercise called 'view from above'. This exercise involves us envisioning ourselves from the third person. In this vision, we zoom out while keeping ourselves in the centre. We continue zooming out and contemplating the scale of the universe. For instance, your first zoom might encompass a view of you from above the roof of your house. Increase the magnitude and you might see a view of your street, increase the magnitude and you might see a view of your country. Keep going until you can picture a view of Earth from the stars.

With this scale, you can gain a better perspective on the insignificance of your problems. When compared to the universe and the bigger picture whatever problems that might appear are incredibly trivial.
For instance, if you were feeling down because this girl flaked on you or you're planning to talk to her and show your feelings, try this exercise. It is far easier to overcome the emotional hurdles we experience when we put things into perspective.

All this for a girl

 

[Radical]

All this for a girl

It's not just for a girl lol, you can do this in any tense situation like a job interview or making a public speech etc