why do women get more attracted to men who are married?

[Omar del Sur]

Not you using Muslim male logic on non-muslim west. And the whole “homewrecking” shit is a western concept. You don’t make sense akhi

Male logic? If I say 2 + 2 = 4 is that male math?

I don't think logic has a gender.

My post was just saying that there are differences between men and women. Is that Muslim logic? It is something that every culture on earth has recognized historically. I don't think it's something specific to Muslims or males.

I don't know where you're posting from but I'm living in the West where they are denying differences between men and women to the point that they are pushing men in women's sports and in women's locker rooms and bathrooms. Is that not denying that there are differences in the sexes?

This is a big problem I have with the feminist elements. I wouldn't care so much if they were just into their weird theories and kept them to themselves. But they want to attack you just for saying things as mundane as that there are differences in male and female- which is what the Quran says. It is objective reality- it isn't "Muslim male logic". I don't think facts have a gender.

 

[Omar del Sur]

another thing is why is it so offensive to say that women are different than men? do the feminists perceive womanhood as being something inferior or shameful? considering that their vanguard consists of butch lesbians who want to be men and who reach their logical conclusion in things like Ellen Page trying to change her sex to male... it is does appear that is the feminist underlying view and I think it is anti-woman. I don't think the feminists are legit representatives of women anymore than Fidel Castro is a legit representative of Cubans, Assad of Syrians, blm dykes of African-Americans, etc.

 

[InaShaqalle]

Walaalayaal this is why diinteenaa is wonderful and logical. It's correct for nimanka to have more than one xaas if they so desire but xaaram for naagaha having more than one husband at the same time

 

[solo_man]

Men are attracted to beautiful women regardless of her past. Indicators being symmetric face shape, nice hair whatever the hair type, moisturised skin, favourable hip to waist ratio etc. The reason why guys tend to wife less experienced women is due to there being a higher likelihood of less baggage and preconceptions. The woman tends to have pristine mindset and a more positive outlook if she hasn't been with a lot of fuckboy guys. I don't care for such things as I am a fucked up individual myself so I would wouldn't pursue a pristine woman due to it being unfair... but I tell you men are simple, the thinking woman would probably understand this. Don't f*ck up your future...

difference being attracted and actually wanting to marry a woman you can even be attracted to a hooker and want to bang her 1 time doesnt mean you want her as a wife

 

[Nalaaye floxks]

Jealousy

 

[Encroacher]

difference being attracted and actually wanting to marry a woman you can even be attracted to a hooker and want to bang her 1 time doesnt mean you want her as a wife

But you knowbthe Difference

 

[Sophisticate]

I'm not an alcoholic but i do drink a lot. I'm on antibiotics for sti's funnily enough. But yeah, I am definitely wising up as of lately...

I thought you were trolling.

who said they unavailable especially in islam unless he has 4 wives his open for business

Unavailable, implying he has less to give. Unlike a fully available man, his resources and energies are tied up elsewhere. You cannot compare the two. I don't know one Somali guy born and bred in the west that will actually go through with polygamy. It is logistically challenging. Difficult, if not implausible, to meet the physical, emotional, and even financial needs of multiple women (unless you have the means or are in an impoverished nation it is also out of reach). It's no more than a pipe dream or a fantasy. I will say the tolerance level for polygamy back home would go down if girls were educated and had access to gainful employment. Causing their standards to increase and minimizing the chance of her accepting that sort of arrangement. This type of marriage is normally not out of want but an 'extreme' financial necessity wherein the Deen is misused, and the practice is not engaged correctly. Let's merely look at the UAE, which has seen drastic social changes in the past few decades and a rise in divorce rates.

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A Comparison Study of Psychological, Family Function Marital and Life Satisfactions of Polygamous and Monogamous Women in Jordan - Community Mental Health Journal

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I have provided excerpts from studies from the UAE, Jordan, Turkey, and Ethiopia. It appears that many women, especially senior wives, are not happy about polygamy. And judging from the UAE, most girls do not want to be in a polygamous marriage and share their husbands. Some say it is to their mental and emotional detriment. Alx, I have a father that always believed in monogamy. So I can't imagine what poor Somali women in these arrangements must feel like. My heart goes out to them.

 

[Basra]

Alot of my mates have mentioned this when got married they get more attention from women then when they single what could be the factors?

is it married men exude a certain confidence that females pick up on? or is it a challenge for women to get with married men...........

Well a married man is not desperate for the Vagina. Women can smell a vagina content man and they are offended from the lack of attention. Also women see a married man as a proven to settle, and there is also sinister works-- i want to take him from her

 

[Unbothered]

nope lol you liar once a man finds out a woman is married they dont carry on compared to women of course you will find small minority that will

Yes it’s the truth . Men like unavailable women , they just like what they can’t have.
You like to argue and it is not cute when a man does that

 

[The alchemist]

I can pull up putative explanations about this phenomenon and make an hard-to-argue case.

It is not needed. Let us keep it simple and say "it is what it is" and leave it at that.

 

[Angelina]

but men don't have this same desire to be with a married woman. the male ideal is a virgin rather than a woman who already has been with a husband.

all this points to fundamental differences that the shrieking feminazis would like to shut down discussion and thus understanding of. not only they but liberals at large are at war with and hostile to fundamental objective reality.

If that was the case, the average married man wouldn't have to lie and pretend to be single. The majority of cheating men lie. I even know of cases of men pretending to be single in the beginning in order to marry a 2nd wife.

Jealousy is definitely a thing with women and acknowledging it isn't feminist. There is a reason why polygamy is something a lot of women unfortunately struggle with.

 

[Omar del Sur]

If that was the case, the average married man wouldn't have to lie and pretend to be single. The majority of cheating men lie. I even know of cases of men pretending to be single in the beginning in order to marry a 2nd wife.

Jealousy is definitely a thing with women and acknowledging it isn't feminist. There is a reason why polygamy is something a lot of women unfortunately struggle with.

I don't think all women are more attracted to married men. I think it's just some women.

Then there's being attracted versus willingness to pursue it. There might be a woman who is attracted to a married man but doesn't pursue anything because of her morals (this is putting aside any sort of polygamous arrangement- maybe she's non-Muslim).

I don't think all women are attracted to married men but I think some women are. Different people like different things, in the cases of both sexes.

But I think it's natural that people want what is perceived as unattainable. If you make something more expensive, I might want it more than if you offered it for a lower price because I perceive its value as being higher. Or like toys- a kid might not want to play with a toy but then another child picks it up and suddenly now the first child wants to play with it too. I think it's just natural.

 

[Angelina]

I don't think all women are more attracted to married men. I think it's just some women.

Then there's being attracted versus willingness to pursue it. There might be a woman who is attracted to a married man but doesn't pursue anything because of her morals (this is putting aside any sort of polygamous arrangement- maybe she's non-Muslim).

I don't think all women are attracted to married men but I think some women are. Different people like different things, in the cases of both sexes.

But I think it's natural that people want what is perceived as unattainable. If you make something more expensive, I might want it more than if you offered it for a lower price because I perceive its value as being higher. Or like toys- a kid might not want to play with a toy but then another child picks it up and suddenly now the first child wants to play with it too. I think it's just natural.

There is no denying that some women are. Humans aren't monolithic and attractions vary. Some married men may attract women simply because of who they are, rather than actually being married per say. Example, married men tend to be more economically stable and put together, so therefore women might be attracted to that rather than their martial status.

Also, there is a subsection of women who are soley attracted to the unobtainable as growing up, their father's affection and presence was also unobtainable, hence an emotionally unavailable man is what they see as the norm and familiar.

Also, your assessment that people value what they can't usually get as being seen as more expensive is right as it's common. But with regards to marriage and dating, i've always seen that as more of a masculine mindset that comes with the territory of being pursuers and hunters.

 

[Omar del Sur]

There is no denying that some women are. Humans aren't monolithic and attractions vary. Some married men may attract women simply because of who they are, rather than actually being married per say. Example, married men tend to be more economically stable and put together, so therefore women might be attracted to that rather than their martial status.

Also, there is a subsection of women who are soley attracted to the unobtainable as growing up, their father's affection and presence was also unobtainable, hence an emotionally unavailable man is what they see as the norm and familiar.

Also, your assessment that people value what they can't usually get as being seen as more expensive is right as it's common. But with regards to marriage and dating, i've always seen that as more of a masculine mindset that comes with the territory of being pursuers and hunters.

Another thing I want to mention is if I say something about feminazis or whatever, I'm not referring to you or anyone like you at all. I'm talking about the extreme Western feminists who support things that are obviously at odds with Islam. For example, I remember hearing about Florida banning schools from promoting transgenderism to little kids. Then they showed some liberal woman I think from the show called The View where she said this (Florida banning it) was wrong and she started tying it to racism against African-Americans.

I'm talking about crazy extreme elements who push those kinds of views. I think you're concerned about legitimate issues and actual injustice and I don't think you push anything that's really extreme. There's nothing wrong with being concerned about actual injustice against women.

Even in the time of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), there were clearly Muslim women who were concerned about issues facing women. I'd be crazy to be against that and I have no problem with that. But you have stuff like Malala encouraging zina. They do this bait-and-switch. They talk about "women's rights". Anyone with a heart respects women's rights. But then suddenly they start pushing "sexual liberation" and they equate "women's rights" with things like zina and I've even seen where they promote prostitution in the name of "women's rights". So there has to be a distinction between that kind of sinister extreme ideology and someone just being concerned with legitimate rights of women.