Why are Somali women expected to do everything???

[Halimo-2018]

Somali women have zero power in their own society what sense does it make to blame them for being socialised in a society that treats them like second class citizens from birth? They are victims.

I am referring the once from the west women from back home are waking up themselves.

 

[Lostbox]

@Angelina @Amirah @Desert Flower

Somali women (including the western ones) have set the bar low for their mans behaviour in the relationship. You've accept, these men, husband up, had kids with them and basically built a whole life with men who do not do more then the minimum. So many guys like this in are community are having no trouble getting married.

Like isn't there a huge group of first generation Somali female divorcee who have been warmed you all?

They don't share the house chores and are part time dad's at best. Waking up at night for a crying baby? Nope. Changing diapers? Nope? They might do the dishes, maybe play with the kids for a few hours or take them out time to time and in a rare occasions, when he has really upsets you. Get get you a small present that would make you extra happy since you rarely get any. Forget about romance. Once he courted you. His done his job.

You'll be working while also carrying the

The amount of Somali guys and none-somalis who don't know the school their kids go to is a joke




While you keep rationalize his good because

"At least he doesn't cheat compared to so and so husband or ex"

"At least he still part of the kids life compared to so and so husband or ex"

"At least..."



You have set the standard this low

You either get a full functionality man in the first place, fix your man your with or leave him and find something better

 

[Wervelwind]

@Lostbox that's facts. Most women want to get married, even though they'll most likely do the most work. From that, I can only say they need marriage. In order to not be lonely? I dont know