I had an extensive conversation about this with a good friend of mine and I want to see what the fine (and not so fine) people of SomaliSpot have to say.
Why do so many women have such insecure insecurities that they hinder their ability to have successful relationships?
Every girl I date has some form or another and it's really bothering me, asking them directly, I get answers like "I had a bad experience" and "You intimidate me."
Most men, much like most women, dig confidence. So why is it that the only women I meet that are fun to be around and carry a hefty amount of confidence ALWAYS have one of the following two things?
1) A severe personality disorder
2) insecure and lack of trust
What is it about having at least one of those things causes women to be okay with themselves? How do they validate and why?
Why do so many women have such insecure insecurities that they hinder their ability to have successful relationships?
Every girl I date has some form or another and it's really bothering me, asking them directly, I get answers like "I had a bad experience" and "You intimidate me."
Most men, much like most women, dig confidence. So why is it that the only women I meet that are fun to be around and carry a hefty amount of confidence ALWAYS have one of the following two things?
1) A severe personality disorder
2) insecure and lack of trust
What is it about having at least one of those things causes women to be okay with themselves? How do they validate and why?