What are some red flags

lilmoon

lilmoon

To be honest it differs from person to person. For me, if you are more than 5 years older than me and more than a month younger than me, it's a no. Excessive complimenting gives me the creeps, I just don't like it, especially when the complimenting is extreme. If the person seems like a wishy-washy Muslim "convert," then I am running a marathon away from you. If you start mentioning anything sexual within the first year of me talking to you, especially fetishes (just NO FETISHES, PLEASE), then I am also running. People who can't describe to me their financial or just general living standards or avoid talking about it is a no-go. I he expects me to send him money/gifts all the time and he gives me nothing or gives me less compared to what I give him then no. If he starts to behave controlling, like constantly asking where I am or calling my friends/family to see where I was then I'm also going to run. Just lots really. Also, being too nice (basically almost feminine) really turns me off so no.
 
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Waa-Aniga

lilmoon said:
To be honest it differs from person to person. For me, if you are more than 5 years older than me and more than a month younger than me, it's a no. Excessive complimenting gives me the creeps, I just don't like it, especially when the complimenting is extreme. If the person seems like a wishy-washy Muslim "convert," then I am running a marathon away from you. If you start mentioning anything sexual within the first year of me talking to you, especially fetishes (just NO FETISHES, PLEASE), then I am also running. People who can't describe to me their financial or just general living standards or avoid talking about it is a no-go. I he expects me to send him money/gifts all the time and he gives me nothing or gives me less compared to what I give him then no. If he starts to behave controlling, like constantly asking where I am or calling my friends/family to see where I was then I'm also going to run. Just lots really. Also, being too nice (basically almost feminine) really turns me off so no.
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I never knew being too nice can be seen as feminine! Because I am so explains why I keep getting ghosted lol
 
Ladylike

Ladylike

Red flags are easy to see when you’ve done the work within. When you know yourself well you won’t put up with bs you would know what’s good for the long run all.
 
Cajiib

Cajiib

Waa-Aniga said:
I never knew being too nice can be seen as feminine! Because I am so explains why I keep getting ghosted lol
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Being too nice isn’t seen as a feminine quality to some people. You just don’t want to be someone people can walk all over. That’s what’s unappealing.

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Waa-Aniga

lilmoon said:
To be honest it differs from person to person. For me, if you are more than 5 years older than me and more than a month younger than me, it's a no. Excessive complimenting gives me the creeps, I just don't like it, especially when the complimenting is extreme. If the person seems like a wishy-washy Muslim "convert," then I am running a marathon away from you. If you start mentioning anything sexual within the first year of me talking to you, especially fetishes (just NO FETISHES, PLEASE), then I am also running. People who can't describe to me their financial or just general living standards or avoid talking about it is a no-go. I he expects me to send him money/gifts all the time and he gives me nothing or gives me less compared to what I give him then no. If he starts to behave controlling, like constantly asking where I am or calling my friends/family to see where I was then I'm also going to run. Just lots really. Also, being too nice (basically almost feminine) really turns me off so no.
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Who in their right mind talks about sex in the talking stages.. I think the topic should be approached by a woman not man and lay the grounds of what her expectations are in regards to that topic since it most likely affects her since guys are flexible and can be no issue when it comes to that subject. But if a dude brings that up in the talking stage it's just bit red flag I agree.
 
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Waa-Aniga

Ladylike said:
Red flags are easy to see when you’ve done the work within. When you know yourself well you won’t put up with bs you would know what’s good for the long run all.
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Is it a deal breaker if someone doesn't get along part of his/her family. Does that mean potential baggage coming right into your home or is it over thinking it?
 
Ladylike

Ladylike

Waa-Aniga said:
Is it a deal breaker if someone doesn't get along part of his/her family. Does that mean potential baggage coming right into your home or is it over thinking it?
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Every family has issues and fights. I guess it would depend on how much she brings that up to you and how annoyed you are with it. If it seems like she brings it up too many time then you might want to reconsider but if she handles it privately witching her family then how does that affect you?
 
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Waa-Aniga

Ladylike said:
Every family has issues and fights. I guess it would depend on how much she brings that up to you and how annoyed you are with it. If it seems like she brings it up too many time then you might want to reconsider but if she handles it privately witching her family then how does that affect you?
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It affects if you are dealing with a dysfunctional family they can insert themselves in or he/she might replicate same greavances on to your siblings or your parents. Do tell how to look at it. I was a bit turned off not gonna lie
 
Ladylike

Ladylike

Waa-Aniga said:
It affects if you are dealing with a dysfunctional family they can insert themselves in or he/she might replicate same greavances on to your siblings or your parents. Do tell how to look at it. I was a bit turned off not gonna lie
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Fair enough then bring this to her attention then see what happens from there if not then end it with her respectfully.
 
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