What are my options? lose vs lose vs lose

[I hate internet gangsters]

Wallahi I’m not lying about anything I’m saying right now. So some coward I grew up with posted something on some social media site I don’t know which, that ruined my reputation and livelihood. This coward had an issue with me (over a female) but instead of approaching me directly, he ran to social media with it, knowing I don’t even use social media. I’m pretty sure he posted something that makes me look like a homosexual or something. Because of the amount of people that start fights with me by calling me a homosexual. When ever I see this coward on the street he either runs in his car or avoids me. The worst part is my own relative disowning me over something I didn’t even know about instead of asking me or telling me anything. Wallahi something tells me my own relatives have something to do with it because of how much their protecting this coward because every time I approach this kid, my relatives start calling me to stop me or calm me down. I can’t even find a job without being fired over what everyone except me seen on social media. Most companies don’t need a reason for firing you under 3 months. If I take this cowards life I lose, if I just beat him up I still lose because my whole reputation and character is already ruined.

I live in Canada. I don’t want to post my picture but I’m sure you’ve heard of something about what I’m sayin. Any good advice or help would be good.

 

[Master-chief]

What could he post that is so bad

 

[cawaale]

Was it @shortynextdoor that posted it

 

[Master-chief]

Was it @shortynextdoor that posted it

What did she post

 

[elite1337]

worst case scenario you could always move to a different country

 

[cawaale]

What did she post

She has a history of posting people’s stuff watch out for her

 

[I hate internet gangsters]

worst case scenario you could always move to a different country

What could he post that is so bad

Wallahi i wish i knew! its like the whole country knows or seen it but me.

 

[elite1337]

if you do anything to him youre just gonna f*ck yourself even more
all i can say is stay strong, i have no experience with this kinda stuff luckily. you know who you are and these are false accusations anyways shit happens man. its a big test wallahi just dont lose yourself

 

[Ladylike]

This is your test. Try not to do something stupid. Pray salatul layl at nights. You must have a lot going on for you they’re probably hating on you. You are young in the west you probably have a bright future ahead of you. Let thwm gossip let them ruin your name it will only add to your akhira. Remember people will always believe what they want the minute they see you they already have their biases about you anyway so dont try to prove them wrong. Move away if you can. Focus on your future maybe Allah will test them and thwy could end up begging for help someday, i am not hold a grudge against them what i am saying is live your life pleasing Allah not them. One day Allah will deal with them. Dont ever ruin your life because of other people. I’ve had people in the past dismiss me and over look me then some time later they came asking for help from me i did not look down on them as much i did what i could for them and left it at that I’ve even defended them against other people who were gossiping anout them. control what you can the rest leave it to Allah you’ll have peace this way

 

[I hate internet gangsters]

worst case scenario you could always move to a different country

Thats true but with what livelihood? or support family? Not that im asking for donations or anything.

 

[shortynextdoor]

Wallahi I’m not lying about anything I’m saying right now. So some coward I grew up with posted something on some social media site I don’t know which, that ruined my reputation and livelihood. This coward had an issue with me (over a female) but instead of approaching me directly, he ran to social media with it, knowing I don’t even use social media. I’m pretty sure he posted something that makes me look like a homosexual or something. Because of the amount of people that start fights with me by calling me a homosexual. When ever I see this coward on the street he either runs in his car or avoids me. The worst part is my own relative disowning me over something I didn’t even know about instead of asking me or telling me anything. Wallahi something tells me my own relatives have something to do with it because of how much their protecting this coward because every time I approach this kid, my relatives start calling me to stop me or calm me down. I can’t even find a job without being fired over what everyone except me seen on social media. Most companies don’t need a reason for firing you under 3 months. If I take this cowards life I lose, if I just beat him up I still lose because my whole reputation and character is already ruined.

I live in Canada. I don’t want to post my picture but I’m sure you’ve heard of something about what I’m sayin. Any good advice or help would be good.

Brother I'm not Canadian and half of the people on here are not, so do you mind explaining a little did this person have your picture/pictures video and wrote shit on it?

I personally know a very successful self made somali brother who got accused of rape that his opps and a bitter ex came up with.

He doesn't give a f*** about what people say about him, and in this world if you go after everything said about you, you'll lose yourself.

rumors are created and spread by haters and also accepted by haters.

What you can do is move to a different city if its bothering you that much and go on with your life.

After all its just a rumor and it'll die and become old news before you know it.

 

[Xaruun]

Wallahi i wish i knew! its like the whole country knows or seen it but me.

Ask your relatives to tell you what it’s about. If they’re going to cut you off then they should at least explain why

 

[I hate internet gangsters]

Brother I'm not Canadian and half of the people on here are not, so do you mind explaining a little did this person have your picture/pictures video and wrote shit on it?

I personally know a very successful self made somali brother who got accused of rape that his opps and a bitter ex came up with.

He doesn't give a f*** about what people say about him, and in this world if you go after everything said about you, you'll lose yourself.

rumors are created and spread by haters and also accepted by haters.

What you can do is move to a different city if its bothering you that much and go on with your life.

After all its just a rumor and it'll die and become old news before you know it.

Wallahi allahi is my witness i dont know what was posted or on which social media site. the only people i expected to tell me shit was my relatives and they just chose to believe it or something tells me their behind it or approved of it because of the amount of effort they put into protecting this kid and dismiss it.

 

[shortynextdoor]

Wallahi allahi is my witness i dont know what was posted or on which social media site. the only people i expected to tell me shit was my relatives and they just chose to believe it or something tells me their behind it or approved of it because of the amount of effort they put into protecting this kid and dismiss it.

Bro you don't owe family shit at the end of the day your a person with limits and boundaries and if your boundaries are violated cut them the f*** outa your life .

Don't sit around a table where your not respected!!

You would be shocked if I told you how many family members I walk past in public and deny.

 

[Lostbox]

Why don't you talk to a lawyer? If everything you say is true then you have a case for defamation

 

[elite1337]

Why don't you talk to a lawyer? If everything you say is true then you have a case for defamation

true, the cadaan way might be the best way to beat it

 

[__08]

Wallahi I’m not lying about anything I’m saying right now. So some coward I grew up with posted something on some social media site I don’t know which, that ruined my reputation and livelihood. This coward had an issue with me (over a female) but instead of approaching me directly, he ran to social media with it, knowing I don’t even use social media. I’m pretty sure he posted something that makes me look like a homosexual or something. Because of the amount of people that start fights with me by calling me a homosexual. When ever I see this coward on the street he either runs in his car or avoids me. The worst part is my own relative disowning me over something I didn’t even know about instead of asking me or telling me anything. Wallahi something tells me my own relatives have something to do with it because of how much their protecting this coward because every time I approach this kid, my relatives start calling me to stop me or calm me down. I can’t even find a job without being fired over what everyone except me seen on social media. Most companies don’t need a reason for firing you under 3 months. If I take this cowards life I lose, if I just beat him up I still lose because my whole reputation and character is already ruined.

I live in Canada. I don’t want to post my picture but I’m sure you’ve heard of something about what I’m sayin. Any good advice or help would be good.

Insha Allah your situation gets better.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

If the Canadian legal system is anything like the UK's then trying to get him done for defamation, libel and slander is going to be next to impossible

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[Ladylike]

Wallahi allahi is my witness i dont know what was posted or on which social media site. the only people i expected to tell me shit was my relatives and they just chose to believe it or something tells me their behind it or approved of it because of the amount of effort they put into protecting this kid and dismiss it.

If this is getting you fired from jobs you have rights. You should speak with a lawyer. Blackmail is illegal in your case it is defamation.

 

[Kool-Aid]

This story is not making sense

Your telling you can't find a job in Canada because your being called a homo
Cap better next time