What age should you

[Royalflush]

Move out

I recently turned 21 and I still live with parents. Waa rafaad tho imma move out in the new year.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

The age I get married at. I'm not paying rent in London. Its too expensive. I'd rather save the money and invest it.

 

[Chun Li]

I would like to move out in 2-3 years, so that would make me 19-20 by then

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Move out

I recently turned 21 and I still live with parents. Waa rafaad tho imma move out in the new year.

Living alone is rafaad sxb
Making money paying bills cook clean etc

 

[Chun Li]

Living alone is rafaad sxb
Making money paying bills cook clean etc

That’s not rafaad. It’s independence. It would be very peaceful to have your own space & you can still visit family or invite them over

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

That’s not rafaad. It’s independence. It would be very peaceful to have your own space & you can still visit family or invite them over

But whats then rafaad with living with the parents?

 

[Royalflush]

Living alone is rafaad sxb
Making money paying bills cook clean etc

Wife/ves applications have now opened

 

[Chun Li]

But whats then rafaad with living with the parents?

Well, I wouldn’t know because that’s @adam hassan ’s situation. Some people just don’t like to live with their parents because maybe they are treated as though they are “weaklings” & can’t handle real-life responsibilities alone. Some people have many siblings & maybe they want to have their own place so they could be relaxed

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Wife/ves applications have now opened

Moving out after getting married is probably the right way

 

[Royalflush]

But whats then rafaad with living with the parents?

Fam that’s long. Imagine I was some dude called ciyaalkaxaafada and I tried drink in the house. Automatic karbaash
Fr tho it’s the constant calaacal

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Well, I wouldn’t know because that’s @adam hassan ’s situation. Some people just don’t like to live with their parents because maybe they are treated as though they are “weaklings” & can’t handle real-life responsibilities alone. Some people have many siblings & maybe they want to have their own place so they could be relaxed

I moved out with 18 and it wasnt my best life descicion
Im only sayin

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Fam that’s long. Imagine I was some dude called ciyaalkaxaafada and I tried drink in the house. Automatic karbaash
Fr tho it’s the constant calaacal

I never drank at home
Not in Parents home or my own home
Thats hookah bar Shit sxb

 

[Royalflush]

Well, I wouldn’t know because that’s @adam hassan ’s situation. Some people just don’t like to live with their parents because maybe they are treated as though they are “weaklings” & can’t handle real-life responsibilities alone. Some people have many siblings & maybe they want to have their own place so they could be relaxed

It’s the 6 children and lack of space lol. Plus the weird looks when you come in late at night. It’s like

 

[Chun Li]

I moved out with 18 and it wasnt my best life choice
Im only sayin

Could you tell me your experience? Why wasn’t it the best choice? If you knew what you know now at age 18, what would you do/avoid?

 

[Sumaaya]

I think a man should move out as soon as he is financially able to and I think girls should remain at their parents house until they get married

 

[Chun Li]

It’s the 6 children and lack of space lol. Plus the weird looks when you come in late at night. It’s like

Exactly. I would like to come through the door whenever I want. No questions asked either

 

[Sumaaya]

I moved out with 18 and it wasnt my best life descicion
Im only sayin

Why do you say that? Don’t you think if you were still living at home you would sin less, for example most likely you wouldn’t drink as much because you’d be too ashamed to go home drunk to your parents, no?

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

Why do you say that? Don’t you think if you were still living at home you would sin less, for example most likely you wouldn’t drink as much because you’d be too ashamed to go home drunk to your parents, no?

Read again abayo

 

[Octavian]

u move out when ur ready to take care of ur self and live on ur own only god knowns when u will be ready. I suggest u take the time learn about how's its like to alive alone research where the area u want to live rent prices job availability and so ask around im sure ur older siblings parents and cousins have some advice to give u inshallah the whole process will be smooth and trouble free for u.

 

[Sumaaya]

Read again abayo

You said you don’t drink inside your own home, where do you drink then, at the pub? Wouldn’t it make more sense to drink in your own house where it’s private and your sins are only between you and Allah SWT?