This guy married a girl who was in the second year in uni doing 3 year degree. They agreed to marry and start kids after after she finish uni. As soon as they married he changed his mind and say he want kids now. So I was sent to him to speak to him
I said bro its good if your wife has a degree. Have kids afterwards as you agree. Then she has her degree to fall back on when she wants to work again. He said the deen says you gotta have kids now. I cant wait. We have to have kids now. Ihe was not educated and was told if she gets a degree she will not be controlled as easily. I was there when her own mum asked him about her uni before they got married and he was like we gonna wait abd her education is very important.
They got divorced and remarried to other people. Now she has great job earning close to 4k pound a month while he is jobless in London. All because he felt threatened by her success
I could never be in a relationship where she needs to do things because of control.
Real men are respected by their wife's so their wife will do her duties whilst he does his.
Control shouldn't come into it.