Went to a reer xamar wedding yesterday lmao guess what

[World]

This reer Xamar girl in her mid 20s got married to a madow revert 5 years younger, her family were upset but they accepted it.

But guess what, her daughter wanted to marry an ethnic somali guy (isaaq) 2 years ago who was an engineer, with a degree, a bit older than her, and her family almost disowned her and her brothers went and confronted him and forced him to cut ties with their sister.

Is this normal? Why do reer xamars have so much enmity towards Somalis to the point they prefer their daughters to marry a guy who is much younger, with a gaal family, not educated, over an older educated settled somali? At the wedding the mother looked pissed off some of the groom’s family were drinking alcohol there as well. Mac sonkor.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I kind of get their beef with Somalis.

Somalida waa dad waalan who will ethnically cleanse each other and get married to each other, during these ethnic cleansing campaigns. There is no other ethnic group on earth that murders each other and marries each other, at the same time, at such a rate.

These people, don't take part in these activities and are probably baffled. Plus, they have other dhiig in them and probably don't have the same pull towards Somalis as we do.

 

[Saintz]

When you cut off your nose to spite your face

 

[World]

I kind of get their beef with Somalis.

Somalida waa dad waalan who will ethnically cleanse each other and get married to each other, during these ethnic cleansing campaigns. There is no other ethnic group on earth that murders each other and marries each other, at the same time, at such a rate.

These people, don't take part in these activities and are probably baffled. Plus, they have other dhiig in them and probably don't have the same pull towards Somalis as we do.

I understand but still i think this is ridiculous, it is not like isaaq got any problems with reer xamar. When the girl told her family wallahi they said to her did you bring home another somali? And then they were relieved when she said no. What kind of mindset is this? Why do you prefer your in laws to be drinking alcohol in your daughters wedding over a muslim family that speaks the same language as you?

 

[Angelina]

I kind of get their beef with Somalis.

Somalida waa dad waalan who will ethnically cleanse each other and get married to each other, during these ethnic cleansing campaigns. There is no other ethnic group on earth that murders each other and marries each other, at the same time, at such a rate.

These people, don't take part in these activities and are probably baffled. Plus, they have other dhiig in them and probably don't have the same pull towards Somalis as we do.

They’re very wadaani the ones who I know and sometimes I wonder why. What happened to the ones in Xamar in the early 90s was disgusting. If I was them I’d claim a different group all together.

 

[Angelina]

I understand but still i think this is ridiculous, it is not like isaaq got any problems with reer xamar. When the girl told her family wallahi they said to her did you bring home another somali? And then they were relieved when she said no. But they never threatened to disown her, nor did her brothers try to confront him. What kind of mindset is this? Why do you prefer your in laws to be drinking alcohol in your daughters wedding over a muslim family that speaks the same language as you?

I think it’s because they’ve already played their hand the first time around and went too far and how do we know that she threatened to never speak to them again? They may have accepted due to sheer guilt of destroying the chance she had to marry the first time around who was a man she probably really liked/loved.

Sounds like she’s punishing them. It’s a case of, if you didn’t allow me to marry a fellow Somali, I’m going to marry out all together.

Oh well, the parents can live through the consequences of their actions. As for the bride, I hope she’s happy.

 

[El Nino]

This sounds unbelievable

 

[nomashquul]

This reer Xamar girl in her mid 20s got married to a madow revert 5 years younger, her family were upset but they accepted it.

But guess what, her daughter wanted to marry an ethnic somali guy (isaaq) 2 years ago who was an engineer, with a degree, a bit older than her, and her family almost disowned her and her brothers went and confronted him and forced him to cut ties with their sister.

Is this normal? Why do reer xamars have so much enmity towards Somalis to the point they prefer their daughters to marry a guy who is much younger, with a gaal family, not educated, over an older educated settled somali? At the wedding the mother looked pissed off some of the groom’s family were drinking alcohol there as well. Mac sonkor.

Why do ethnic somalis get upset when banadiri people won't marry you. like you are not the same people. Are you upset because the people you consider the most attractive in somalia look down on you? Does it hurt that much?

 

[attash]

Why do ethnic somalis are upset when banadiri people won't marry you. like you are not the same people. Are you upset because the people you consider the most attractive in somalia look down on you? Does it hurt that much?

Your username is very apt

 

[Riftvalley]

I’ve been to a couple of Isaaq and Benadiri weddings. you sure there was not something personal against this Isaaq guy?

 

[World]

I’ve been to a couple of Isaaq and Benadiri weddings. you sure there was not something personal against this Isaaq guy?

They’re from my local area i know them both very well the families even know each other

 

[Riftvalley]

They’re from my local area i know them both very well the families even know each other

Yeah, it’s strange.. These days most Somali families Jump@ the chance of their daughter marrying another Somali so long as he has a1000 pounds in his bank account and a sujood mark on his forehead.

The disagreements I see are more about girls in their late teens trying to marry and the families don’t think they’re ready……..or it’s about money

 

[Pearl of the Indian Ocean]

Why do ethnic somalis get upset when banadiri people won't marry you. like you are not the same people. Are you upset because the people you consider the most attractive in somalia look down on you? Does it hurt that much?

Who considers them the most attractive?

 

[Killamenace78]

This reer Xamar girl in her mid 20s got married to a madow revert 5 years younger, her family were upset but they accepted it.

But guess what, her daughter wanted to marry an ethnic somali guy (isaaq) 2 years ago who was an engineer, with a degree, a bit older than her, and her family almost disowned her and her brothers went and confronted him and forced him to cut ties with their sister.

Is this normal? Why do reer xamars have so much enmity towards Somalis to the point they prefer their daughters to marry a guy who is much younger, with a gaal family, not educated, over an older educated settled somali? At the wedding the mother looked pissed off some of the groom’s family were drinking alcohol there as well. Mac sonkor.

Yeah it’s nothing new they marry their cousins so they don’t marry ethnic Somalis

 

[Do]

Why do ethnic somalis get upset when banadiri people won't marry you. like you are not the same people. Are you upset because the people you consider the most attractive in somalia look down on you? Does it hurt that much?

I'm starting to think you're a mixed or an entirely non-Somali troll that's desperate to rile up the users here.

 

[World]

I think it’s because they’ve already played their hand the first time around and went too far and how do we know that she threatened to never speak to them again? They may have accepted due to sheer guilt of destroying the chance she had to marry the first time around who was a man she probably really liked/loved.

Sounds like she’s punishing them. It’s a case of, if you didn’t allow me to marry a fellow Somali, I’m going to marry out all together.

Oh well, the parents can live through the consequences of their actions. As for the bride, I hope she’s happy.

They’re very wadaani the ones who I know and sometimes I wonder why. What happened to the ones in Xamar in the early 90s was disgusting. If I was them I’d claim a different group all together.

They are literally integrated in our local somali community though. Surely if you feel like this(wanting to claim a different group), the hooyo wouldn’t have mainly somali friends? And they have even went to mogadishu and mombassa for holiday

 

[El Nino]

They are literally integrated in our local somali community though. Surely if you feel like this(wanting to claim a different group), the hooyo wouldn’t have mainly somali friends? And they have even went to mogadishu and mombassa for holiday

This whole thing gotta be cap or the family has given up on the daughter.

 

[nomashquul]

Who considers them the most attractive?

Ethnic somalis do. That's the truth. No amount of lying will change that.

 

[Moon-]

I'm starting to think you're a mixed or an entirely non-Somali troll that's desperate to rile up the users here.

hes admitted this hes black

 

[Moon-]

Why do ethnic somalis get upset when banadiri people won't marry you. like you are not the same people. Are you upset because the people you consider the most attractive in somalia look down on you? Does it hurt that much?

we really don't see them that way were not the same as y'all anything seeing anything lighter skin creme da le creme even if they're mid