Want to have children but love a private life

[Distant1]

I like children and want to have them, but i also love my pirvate life. Children need attention all the time, after work you basically have to dedicate your time to these little cute creatures. Its the best thing sometimes, but if there is anything millennials are known for is we dont like a stressful life.

So the ideal situation is to see the kids on a few days of the week only, anything else is exhaustive.

 

[Amazonian]

Do it like the AAs
Have kids and have your grandparents watch them

 

[Octavian]

or just make a schedule

 

[Distant1]

or just make a schedule

Or have kids in somalia and let them stay there, seems more attractive now.

 

[gabar_wa_hooyadeed]

So the ideal situation is to see the kids on a few days of the week only, anything else is exhaustive.

Sign up to be a boys scouts volunteer.

 

[Octavian]

Or have kids in somalia and let them stay there, seems more attractive now.

divide ur time in an efficient manner with your husband/wife should be make things easy also don't do that kids who grow up without both parents tend to grow up hating the absent parent from my experience.

 

[Distant1]

divide ur time in an efficient manner with your husband/wife should be make things easy also don't do that kids who grow up without both parents tend to grow up hating the absent parent from my experience.

true , if it was my choice i would probably live with children in my 40s cuz the 30s is a time to spend money and time on yourself

 

[inflorescence]

Have one child and raise them to be Introverted hermits

 

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

My mother and my mother in law watch our baby with my wife Friday night to Monday morning. They are happy to do it and I am happy for my sanity. They are asking for more babies and are happy to help raise them with us.

 

[Bronco]

My mother and my mother in law watch our baby with my wife Friday night to Monday morning. They are happy to do it and I am happy for my sanity. They are asking for more babies and are happy to help raise them with us.

Masha'Allah, nice setup.

 

[Dooyo]

My mother and my mother in law watch our baby with my wife Friday night to Monday morning. They are happy to do it and I am happy for my sanity. They are asking for more babies and are happy to help raise them with us.

Wow. Amazing parents you two have got there.

 

[Guardafui]

Just put them on a boarding school and live your life

 

[Guardafui]

My mother and my mother in law watch our baby with my wife Friday night to Monday morning. They are happy to do it and I am happy for my sanity. They are asking for more babies and are happy to help raise them with us.

You’re lucky MashAllah

 

[Nafiso Qalanjo]

Dont have kids if your not whiling to give them your time. Unless your ok with your children resenting you, or have some sort of complex towards you when they are older.