Verbally abusive older brother

[Princefan]

My oldest brother is verbally abusive to me every chance he gets. He has been verbally abusive ever since I was 3 years old. One of the main reasons that I want to study uni in Somaliland borama is because of his verbal abuse. I mind my business. I could be sitting in the living room and he'll tut at me . Even when I'm in the kitchen making myself something he'll call me an idiot,down,non human. I'm sick and tired of it all.I will actually go mental if I stay here any longer. Hopefully I find a nursery job and I'll work till June or July, then I'll go to Somaliland. He is 23 turning 24.

 

[Hassan mahat]

Telling him to piss off. I am sorry for your situation but try to talk some sense into him.

 

[Princefan]

Telling him to piss off. I am sorry for your situation but try to talk some sense into him.

I can't. Last time I said that he got close to me and said he'll slap me. Plus I'm a female and if I was male he wouldn't bother me.

 

[Milo]

answer back walal
tell him nacas,doqon axmaq
Say anything don’t let think he can get away with it
hes a grown man
tell him to get a life

 

[Milo]

I can't. Last time I said that he got close to me and said he'll slap me. Plus I'm a female and if I was male he wouldn't bother me.

he’s qaleelabdb
I cant stand men that beat women

 

[The Somali Caesar]

Toughen up my nigga

 

[Sumaaya]

Toughen up my nigga

Can you say that with your lisp

 

[Mercury]

I can't. Last time I said that he got close to me and said he'll slap me. Plus I'm a female and if I was male he wouldn't bother me.

does he act this way in front of your parents?

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

Toughen up my nigga

Tht person said she is female

 

[Princefan]

answer back walal
tell him nacas,doqon axmaq
Say anything don’t let think he can get away with it
hes a grown man
tell him to get a life

He'll beat me up. When I was 12, he beat me up for laughing at a comedy.

 

[The Somali Caesar]

Can you say that with your lisp

Nayaa Your obsession with me is unhealthy but carry on if it makes you feel better

 

[Princefan]

does he act this way in front of your parents?

Yes he verbally abuses me in front of my mother and she does nothing about it.

 

[The Somali Caesar]

Tht person said she is female

So a female can’t toughen up. Isn’t that what liberals call sexist nowadays

 

[Abdisamad]

Can you say that with your lisp

 

[Karim]

Yes he verbally abuses me in front of my mother and she does nothing about it.

Tell your parents how you feel. Tell them to talk to him or you'll be forced to move and cut ties with your brother forever. Childhood traumas are almost never forgotten and the perpetrator will always be a bad guy to the victim.

 

[Princefan]

Tell your parents how you feel. Tell them to talk to him or you'll be forced to move and cut ties with your brother forever. Childhood traumas are almost never forgotten and the perpetrator will always be a bad guy to the victim.

I told my mum and she said to just ignore it. I can't move as I'm on a job hunt. Plus there's no relatives I can live with. That's why I'm gonna go to study uni in Somaliland.

 

[Maxaa kaa galay]

Sounds like a narcissist! I might be wrong since he does it in front of your mother, so he cant be a covert narcissist. Was he bullied as a kid? If so he might be taking that frustration out on you.

 

[Mozart]

I told my mum and she said to just ignore it. I can't move as I'm on a job hunt. Plus there's no relatives I can live with. That's why I'm gonna go to study uni in Somaliland.

Do you currently have good grades ? Good enough to go to a good uni wherever you live

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

He'll beat me up. When I was 12, he beat me up for laughing at a comedy.

Why didn't u tell your parents or other siblings don't u have others brothers then him u can tell the police if he threaten your life u can call the police if u live in the west

 

[المهندس]

Buy a poisonous snake as a pet and threaten him with it