Mashallah. Not everyone is the same. If you do that, Somalis will think you’re dooqon and will take advantage of you.It usually a reflection of how they were raised, they probably came from a background of pain and all they know is to hurt. This is why it’s important to show them love, ignore their negative energy and smile at their direction.
my habaryar has a mentally ill woman as a neighbor, all she does is come over and sometimes insult my habaryar the whole time, she uses profanity that is so hurtful but my habaryar welcomes her and lets her vent. Sometimes you don’t have to match their energy but do the opposite. They are crying for help and u are perhaps their last hope