Tbh though, these ajnabis rreally are something else.

[Xoxoxo]

From my own experience I wasnt that serious with any ajnabi, almost had a relationship with only one but broke it off when I found out he was a complete psycho,

But the fact remains, that they genuinely expect a lot off us to lower our standards just because they oh so are ajnabis? Like all off them, they won’t even give you the basic shit we need to get in terms of Islamic rights, let alone in terms of our own culture.


And also looking through that guy’s TikTok and his comments really showcased their idiotic views, “she never loved you” no! She wanted to preserve her Islamic rights, if a Somali guy is expected to get it done, why make excuses for those ajnabis! He was acting as if the approval of his parents were enough lmao

I love the fact that luckily you have sane people among us and Somali women saw through his bullshit:

 

[Xoxoxo]

Like a comment there explained it well:

“Somali men are a lot of things, but they aren’t stingy ”

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

Why do you think that’s the case why do they expect Somali women to lower there standards explain ?

 

[Xoxoxo]

Why do you think that’s the case why do they expect Somali women to lower there standards explain ?

Because they think they are oh so special

 

[El Nino]

Whats with Gen Z somali diaspora turning hypernationalistic on social media, one of the amusing phenomenons I have seen. I think this guy is fishing for views, no way a girl would brake it off because of the cost of wedding, people have weddings at small venues all the time.

 

[Chase]

Why do you think that’s the case why do they expect Somali women to lower there standards explain ?

Because Somali women do and come off as desperate, the minority ruining it for the majority, but let's not act like Muslim Sub-Saharan African males don't simp for Arab girls either.

 

[niggaibnh]

From my own experience I wasnt that serious with any ajnabi, almost had a relationship with only one but broke it off when I found out he was a complete psycho,

But the fact remains, that they genuinely expect a lot off us to lower our standards just because they oh so are ajnabis? Like all off them, they won’t even give you the basic shit we need to get in terms of Islamic rights, let alone in terms of our own culture.


And also looking through that guy’s TikTok and his comments really showcased their idiotic views, “she never loved you” no! She wanted to preserve her Islamic rights, if a Somali guy is expected to get it done, why make excuses for those ajnabis! He was acting as if the approval of his parents were enough lmao

I love the fact that luckily you have sane people among us and Somali women saw through his bullshit:

I can still remember talking to a man at a mosque and telling him that I really wanted to marry a Latina in the future, he persuaded me not too and marry your women because it's easier.

-The marriage would be approved by the parents

-you would be familiar with the culture

-teaching your children your native language

Right now i'm looking to marry xalimo and that's it .

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

Because Somali women do and come off as desperate, the minority ruining it for the majority, but let's not act like Muslim Sub-Saharan African males don't simp for Arab girls either.

you hit the nail on the head both black Muslim men and women are at a disadvantage when trying to marry into other Muslim communities

 

[Angelina]

you hit the nail on the head both black Muslim men and women are at a disadvantage when trying to marry into other Muslim communities

@Chase

Lets not. Somali men and women are most certainly not at a disadvantage. Stop with the pity party takes. We have a community and the vast majority of ajnabis know that we're insular. All the Somali girls and boy i've seen who've married Arabs and Asians had big decent weddings. There was even a Somali girl that married an Egyptian man and he brought Kilos and Kilos of dahab and a lot of money for the soo doonis. Look at this:

TikTok - Make Your Day

Why are you grouping us with black reverts or black Muslim West Africans who might not have a big community to choose from?!

 

[Chase]

@Chase

Lets not. Somali men and women are most certainly not at a disadvantage. Stop with the pity party takes. We have a community and the vast majority of ajnabis know that we're insular. All the Somali girls and boy i've seen who've married Arabs and Asians had big decent weddings. There was even a Somali girl that married an Egyptian man and he brought Kilos and Kilos of dahab and a lot of money for the soo doonis. Look at this:

TikTok - Make Your Day

Why are you grouping us with black reverts or black Muslim West Africans who might not have a big community to choose from?!

Like I said, it's a extreme minority who ruin it for everyone else, regardless Somalis are seen as black Sub-Saharan Africans by the Ummah, it's no surprise some of us (again, a minority of a minority) developed insecurities as a whole, eg. Reer Xamar not claiming Somali, light-skinned Somali boys and girls claiming other ethnic groups, skin bleaching etc.

 

[Angelina]

Like I said, it's a extreme minority who ruin it for everyone else, regardless Somalis are seen as black Sub-Saharan Africans by the Ummah, it's no surprise some of us (again, a minority of a minority) developed insecurities as a whole, eg. Reer Xamar not claiming Somali, light-skinned Somali boys and girls claiming other ethnic groups, skin bleaching etc.

Nah, sorry i've never felt insecurity about being Somali. In the Western world, Somalis are very much at the forefront of the Ummah.

That is most definitely a YOU problem and i've noticed you allude to it. Maybe there is something in the water were you are from. Also, what group within the Ummah look down on Somalis? Never heard such a thing.

I don't blame reer Xamars not claiming Somali. They were treated miserably during war more so than others as they're a small minority that was easy to pick on.

As for the light Somalis who claim others it's usually reer UK ones back in the day who treated badly by non other than madows, NOT light skin Arab or Asians.

So what on earth are you talking about. Also, Somalis have always had natural self-confidence and pride in being Somali. Sad to see that this isn't a thing with you Gen Z. Imagine being insecure against other Muslim groups.

 

[Shimbiris]

@Chase

Lets not. Somali men and women are most certainly not at a disadvantage. Stop with the pity party takes. We have a community and the vast majority of ajnabis know that we're insular. All the Somali girls and boy i've seen who've married Arabs and Asians had big decent weddings. There was even a Somali girl that married an Egyptian man and he brought Kilos and Kilos of dahab and a lot of money for the soo doonis.

1kg of dahab is worth like 55,000 US dollars, walaashay. Unless he's a multi-millionaire no one is throwing around kilos and kilos of the stuff. Even a lot of jewelry like this is not usually more than a kilo:

This whole 22K piece weighs less than 100 grams, if I'm not mistaken, and goes for about 6 thousand US dollars.

 

[Angelina]

1kg of dahab is worth like 55,000 US dollars, walaashay. Unless he's a multi-millionaire no one is throwing around kilos and kilos of the stuff. Even a lot of jewelry like this is not usually more than a kilo:

This whole 22K piece weighs less than 100 grams, if I'm not mistaken, and goes for about 6 thousand US dollars.

No, I meant to say grams of gold. He bought her a big necklace like that which is probably around a 100. A big arm piece. So all in total looked around 150grams.

 

[Chase]

Nah, sorry i've never felt insecurity about being Somali. In the Western world, Somalis are very much at the forefront of the Ummah.

That is most definitely a YOU problem and i've noticed you allude to it. Maybe there is something in the water were you are from. Also, what group within the Ummah look down on Somalis? Never heard such a thing.

I don't blame reer Xamars not claiming Somali. They were treated miserably during war more so than others as they're a small minority that was easy to pick on.

As for the light Somalis who claim others it's usually reer UK ones back in the day who treated badly by non other than madows, NOT light skin Arab or Asians.

So what on earth are you talking about. Also, Somalis have always had natural self-confidence and pride in being Somali. Sad to see that this isn't a thing with you Gen Z. Imagine being insecure against other Muslim groups.

Really? Asian men & women were insecure growing up, MENA's because of 9/11 and the war on terror campaign claimed Mediterranean to ease their hardships. Is it really that hard to believe that Somalis picked on and deemed inferior by most non Sub-Saharan Muslims?

I've never felt insecure about being Somali, it was Somalis who tried to deny my claim because of my non-typical Geeljire appearance.

Reer Xamar never claimed because they LOOKED DOWN on us, I'm gonna have to refuse that explanation ngl

 

[Angelina]

Really? Asian men & women were insecure growing up, MENA's because of 9/11 and the war on terror campaign claimed Mediterranean to ease their hardships. Is it really that hard to believe that Somalis picked on and deemed inferior by most non Sub-Saharan Muslims?

Never seen that. Some Somalis are notoriously racist towards timo Jelics and would often mock their accent when saying Arabic words tbh. They would use their easier pronunciation of words and Quran against them, and act like they're more knowledgeable. As for Arabs, in the UK there isn't a big community. There are Maghrebis which get along with Somalis and the Yemenis who are very culturally similar to us.

I've never felt insecure about being Somali, it was Somalis who tried to deny my claim because of non-typical Geeljire appearance.

Reer Xamar never claimed because they LOOKED DOWN on us, I'm gonna have to refuse that explanation ngl

Reer Xamar looking on down on Somalis? LOL do you even know the history of Reer Xamars during the war? Or even before? Ethnic Somalis looked down on them!

 

[Thebluesomali]

Like I said, it's a extreme minority who ruin it for everyone else, regardless Somalis are seen as black Sub-Saharan Africans by the Ummah, it's no surprise some of us (again, a minority of a minority) developed insecurities as a whole, eg. Reer Xamar not claiming Somali, light-skinned Somali boys and girls claiming other ethnic groups, skin bleaching etc.

Do Reer Xamar actually not claim Somali? My hooyo used to feel bad for them and the bantu cause sometimes would get picked on. If anything it is some Somalis who like to erase their history and say they're not Somali.

 

[Abdisamad]

@Xoxoxo

Whats the meaning of marrying if he can't even afford the wedding costs lol.

 

[Chase]

Never seen that. Some Somalis are notoriously racist towards timo Jelics and would often mock their accent when saying Arabic words tbh. They would use their easier pronunciation of words and Quran against them, and act like they're more knowledgeable. As for Arabs, in the UK there isn't a big community. There are Maghrebis which get along with Somalis and the Yemenis who are very culturally similar to us.

Reer Xamar looking on down on Somalis? LOL do you even know the history of Reer Xamars during the war? Or even before? Ethnic Somalis looked down on them!

I did not know timo Jelics were treated like that by Somalis, interesting. As for the Reer Xamar crew, can't both be true at the same time? We dirtied them back home (let's be real here though, everyone was dirtied), in the diaspora they had the luxary of being somewhat different in looks to the typical Somali, and believe me they took advantage of it, especially when it came to whites and MENA's.

 

[Bundasliga]

She was smart & cautious. Asking for both families approvals is literally the bare minimum, imagine your in laws hating you or are racist. How is he mad at that ?

 

[Chase]

Do Reer Xamar actually not claim Somali? My hooyo used to feel bad for them and the bantu cause sometimes would get picked on. If anything it is some Somalis who like to erase their history and say they're not Somali.

They only claim us after Somalis got some clout/respect nowadays