So in early 2019 my mom wanted me for a pretty but dhagool cousin daughter from my Abti which is her half brother (father side). I was given her whatsapp number and started talking to her to try and get to know her. She was pretty looking and all but she couldn't talk vocally or via video call.
Her and I always chatted in whatsapp via just regular typing Chat. Then one day something made me sense I may not actually chatting with her, I don't remember what made me suspect I wasn't chatting with her, but something did. So I asked her in Whatsapp if I am talking to another person that isn't her, and she responded yes her cousin. She said it was her cousin that was talking for the original Dhagool girl because she couldn't type. I then asked her why didn't she tell me this from the beginning and made me believe I was talking to her? Then she responded "Qof Walbo Sir oo Qabaa". I am like Sir my ass nevermind cancel it all, I am straight not interested in that other girl anymore since you are the one chatting for her on Whatsapp without a heads up notice.
So her "Sir" was making a dude believe she is the person that dude was supposed to be talking to for Shukansi? lol
And then to add insult to injury, the Dhagool girls father started talking crap about me to one of my uncles even though I did nothing wrong and merely just said "No thanks not interested in your daughter and sent him some money for Abti respect" I did everything respectfully but he just disrespected and backbited his own half nephew with an adeer dude of mine he isn't even related to. The Abti and the Adeer are related to me, but they are not related to eachother so what the heck does that Abti dude get out of talking bad about me/backbiting me all because I said "Not interested" to a daughter he wanted me for? Is he pissed I didn't come to Africa for his daughter? Good thing I only sent him $40 and not more, because the other uncle told me he backbite me.
Now I just avoid the relatives. I also heard some of my tribe are the Shabaab terrorists so f*ck that, that Hiiraan region is full of shabaab they said. I don't even know if the bad Shabaab are in my African relatives be it ones I know or relatives I don't know. I don't even look for relatives in africa except ones from US that I know well and are normal.
Her and I always chatted in whatsapp via just regular typing Chat. Then one day something made me sense I may not actually chatting with her, I don't remember what made me suspect I wasn't chatting with her, but something did. So I asked her in Whatsapp if I am talking to another person that isn't her, and she responded yes her cousin. She said it was her cousin that was talking for the original Dhagool girl because she couldn't type. I then asked her why didn't she tell me this from the beginning and made me believe I was talking to her? Then she responded "Qof Walbo Sir oo Qabaa". I am like Sir my ass nevermind cancel it all, I am straight not interested in that other girl anymore since you are the one chatting for her on Whatsapp without a heads up notice.
So her "Sir" was making a dude believe she is the person that dude was supposed to be talking to for Shukansi? lol
And then to add insult to injury, the Dhagool girls father started talking crap about me to one of my uncles even though I did nothing wrong and merely just said "No thanks not interested in your daughter and sent him some money for Abti respect" I did everything respectfully but he just disrespected and backbited his own half nephew with an adeer dude of mine he isn't even related to. The Abti and the Adeer are related to me, but they are not related to eachother so what the heck does that Abti dude get out of talking bad about me/backbiting me all because I said "Not interested" to a daughter he wanted me for? Is he pissed I didn't come to Africa for his daughter? Good thing I only sent him $40 and not more, because the other uncle told me he backbite me.
Now I just avoid the relatives. I also heard some of my tribe are the Shabaab terrorists so f*ck that, that Hiiraan region is full of shabaab they said. I don't even know if the bad Shabaab are in my African relatives be it ones I know or relatives I don't know. I don't even look for relatives in africa except ones from US that I know well and are normal.
