Stick situation

[TheLastWaryaa]

Usually, I wouldn't discuss this with anyone, but I needed to get it off my chest because I had been thinking about it.

So, for the last 3 months, I have been talking to one of my friends from Uni, she's a Somali girl. Hardworking, pretty, and quite independent.

We started flirting and talking about how our lives have turned out since Uni ( we are both in our early 30s). As we were talking recently, she said she wants to have kids, and if it could be with me. The catch was as long as she has a kid, I don't have to be involved, essentially similar to a sperm donor.

On one hand, I am thinking about on the other hand my mind is saying it's a bad idea, essentially conflicted.

Need to get that off my chest

 

[Odious Delirium]

Usually, I wouldn't discuss this with anyone, but I needed to get it off my chest because I had been thinking about it.

So, for the last 3 months, I have been talking to one of my friends from Uni, she's a Somali girl. Hardworking, pretty, and quite independent.

We started flirting and talking about how our lives have turned out since Uni ( we are both in our early 30s). As we were talking recently, she said she wants to have kids, and if it could be with me. The catch was as long as she has a kid, I don't have to be involved, essentially similar to a sperm donor.

On one hand, I am thinking about on the other hand my mind is saying it's a bad idea, essentially conflicted.

Need to get that off my chest

So she's asking you to make a her a single mom voluntarily which is something I have heard before

don't contribute to the statistics and ruin the lives of your kids

 

[Waa dhamatay]

Biological clock turned her coocoo. You should at least do a quick nikah before proceeding and look after the kids. Or maybe don’t preg a crazy woman

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

Sounds like she wants u to kudhufo kadhaaq the halal way.
Once she gets what she wants from u laguu ma baahno banaanka bacda madow lagu dhiga kkkkkkkk.
A future hooyo talking like that waa cabsi cabsi lol
How can she not care about having a father who will be around for her child?

Talow ma kuwiii naag nool chicks la sheegi jiray aka mrs ana iskufilan
Waa xasidnimo waxaas

Every kid deserves to have a hooyo and aabo who are present in their lives.


Don't ku ciyaar your life like thatwa is bahdil if u accept dat shit you would be dispensable as toilet tissue.

Fresh out of jail farax that ain't got his shit together would take this kudhufo ka dhaqaaq halal style deal fast lol


Stand in front of your mirror and say i as a farax lugu baasto deserve better

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

A future ''farax ain't shit'' in the making

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

I wouldn't do that. Not because I lack the desire, but because I don't have it in me to fk up my kids life like that. If you're gonna be a father, be a father man.

 

[Kalsoon]

Usually, I wouldn't discuss this with anyone, but I needed to get it off my chest because I had been thinking about it.

So, for the last 3 months, I have been talking to one of my friends from Uni, she's a Somali girl. Hardworking, pretty, and quite independent.

We started flirting and talking about how our lives have turned out since Uni ( we are both in our early 30s). As we were talking recently, she said she wants to have kids, and if it could be with me. The catch was as long as she has a kid, I don't have to be involved, essentially similar to a sperm donor.

On one hand, I am thinking about on the other hand my mind is saying it's a bad idea, essentially conflicted.

Need to get that off my chest

I thought you said western woman are bad?

 

[Unbothered]

This story sounds fake
No Xalimo wants to marry let alone have children with old sexist , bum .

 

[onthecloud]

early 30s

She's too old. You have options.

 

[Basra]

Usually, I wouldn't discuss this with anyone, but I needed to get it off my chest because I had been thinking about it.

So, for the last 3 months, I have been talking to one of my friends from Uni, she's a Somali girl. Hardworking, pretty, and quite independent.

We started flirting and talking about how our lives have turned out since Uni ( we are both in our early 30s). As we were talking recently, she said she wants to have kids, and if it could be with me. The catch was as long as she has a kid, I don't have to be involved, essentially similar to a sperm donor.

On one hand, I am thinking about on the other hand my mind is saying it's a bad idea, essentially conflicted.

Need to get that off my chest

essentially u r an incel and i am not having this discussion!

 

[Gacmeey]

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

Anagu naga waala lol nigga got bored and thought hey let me make up a story to see how these SS basement dwelling ass niggas respond

 

[Waa dhamatay]

Anagu naga waala lol nigga got bored and thought hey let me make up a story to see how these SS basement dwelling ass niggas respond

Suffering in the basement

 

[Yaraye]

It sounds like you want to hit and run waryaa Xalimos don’t want to be single mothers

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Usually, I wouldn't discuss this with anyone, but I needed to get it off my chest because I had been thinking about it.

So, for the last 3 months, I have been talking to one of my friends from Uni, she's a Somali girl. Hardworking, pretty, and quite independent.

We started flirting and talking about how our lives have turned out since Uni ( we are both in our early 30s). As we were talking recently, she said she wants to have kids, and if it could be with me. The catch was as long as she has a kid, I don't have to be involved, essentially similar to a sperm donor.

On one hand, I am thinking about on the other hand my mind is saying it's a bad idea, essentially conflicted.

Need to get that off my chest

From an Islamic perspective, it is impermissible, but if neither of you is, then here are a couple of questions:
a) Is this done by IV?
b) Or are you to do the deed in-person?

In the West, it is done, and is gaining popularity with Lutis. Again, with neither of you adhering to Islamic tenets, then she is your mate, if you wish to unstuck her. Do as 'gaalo' does. From deed, and thought, you too are no different from 'gaala madow'.

 

[NordicSomali]

This story sounds fake
No Xalimo wants to marry let alone have children with old sexist , bum .

It’s pretty weird, she must be very desperate.

 

[TheLastWaryaa]

I wouldn't do that. Not because I lack the desire, but because I don't have it in me to fk up my kids life like that. If you're gonna be a father, be a father man.

That's been my main concern, my father was never around so I know how that feels.

 

[Unbothered]

It’s pretty weird, she must be very desperate.

Or he could be the disparate one

 

[Febbie]

What if she had a recent medical examination by gynaecology who told her that her fertility prospective in the coming years are limited.

What if she is exploring her options. And also like someone said, a child is involved so not just about your feelings.

 

[HabarSteven12]

This story sounds fake
No Xalimo wants to marry let alone have children with old sexist , bum .

I am saying the same thing. These Delusional Incels keep creating fake stories about Somali women. What world are they living in?. What's next, the Somali girl doesn't mind you physically abusing her when you get angry.