Stay away from women whose fathers abandoned them or divorced their mum.

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SOMALIKNIGHT

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These women have "daddy" issues. You don't want a dysfunctional family and your kids being confused. They are also very emotional and will look to you as their father more than a husband and more than as a mother to your kids. They are not suitable as wives.
 

Puffin Stuff

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These women have "daddy" issues. You don't want a dysfunctional family and your kids being confused. They are also very emotional and will look to you as their father more than a husband and more than as a mother to your kids. They are not suitable as wives.
To say any sane man should stay the hell away from them is an understatement. There are exceptions, but they are relatively uncommon. Just as there are exceptions to divorced men. Some were abusive freaks, or ran off with their secretary or something equally inappropriate.
 

Puffin Stuff

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These women have "daddy" issues. You don't want a dysfunctional family and your kids being confused. They are also very emotional and will look to you as their father more than a husband and more than as a mother to your kids. They are not suitable as wives.
Many guys I know tell me that single mothers try very hard to turn them into a daddy for their kids. Since I make it a point to always be as disreputable as possible, none have tried that tact with me, yet. But I can see where this is a major thing to be careful of and a good reason to enforce a no contact policy with her kids. The worst part of dating a mother is having to endure her constant abuse of her children. The moment you say anything about it, you and her are quits. It’s fucked up.
 

MariaMaria

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Don't always judge people by their family situations, it's very dismissive.

Not everyone turns out like that.
 
My experience is quite the opposite. Women from broken home actually work harder not to have a broken home. While a lot of girls from steady families dont actually appreciate family
 

Puffin Stuff

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when she is with you, she is in no way limiting herself just to you. Another thing to know about before deciding if (a scam) is for you. You never know about it, but she is actively looking for other men the entire time she is with you and goes through a string of men (whether you are married, living together or just dating), the entire time you know her. You can’t let her know you know because she will just deny it and step up her search for your replacement. The moment she finds one, you’re gone.
 
These women have "daddy" issues. You don't want a dysfunctional family and your kids being confused. They are also very emotional and will look to you as their father more than a husband and more than as a mother to your kids. They are not suitable as wives.

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Sophisticate

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Damn. I used to think of Faraxs from broken homes in the same way. :manny: Hooyo or aabo issues perhaps.

I was under the premise they didn't value marriage as much or weren't as committed to it (iyo higher propensity for divorce). Its just a bias so don't take it personally.
 
These women have "daddy" issues. You don't want a dysfunctional family and your kids being confused. They are also very emotional and will look to you as their father more than a husband and more than as a mother to your kids. They are not suitable as wives.
This is so false. Many people in general who come from broken houses, or from a rough childhood/upbringing dont let their past determine their future. Many people aim to go above and beyond what they came from and they achieve a lot in life and have come a long ways to get to where they are in life. Just because a little girl didnt have a father in her life that doesnt mean she will grow up looking for a man to be her father figure rather then a husband. I'm sorry but you need to get out in the real world and meet people who have defeated the odds and are go getters and living an amazing and happy life. Take your ridiculous false facts somewhere else.
 

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People defending people from broken homes are from broken homes themselves. :pachah1:
 
People defending people from broken homes are from broken homes themselves. :pachah1:
No that's not true. I defend what I feel needs to be defended. And this post is not only not true but it demonstrates how much people really know about the subject their even posting about.
 

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No that's not true. I defend what I feel needs to be defended. And this post is not only not true but it demonstrates how much people really know about the subject their even posting about.

Are you still in Germany? When are you crossing the border to the Netherlands? :yacadiim:
 

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These women have "daddy" issues. You don't want a dysfunctional family and your kids being confused. They are also very emotional and will look to you as their father more than a husband and more than as a mother to your kids. They are not suitable as wives.


I wouldnt call it daddy issues they happen to value family life alot and dont want their kids go through what they did so they go above and beyond to make sure theyre kids have what they never did
 
I wouldnt call it daddy issues they happen to value family life alot and dont want their kids go through what they did so they go above and beyond to make sure theyre kids have what they never did
Exactly! I said something similar to what you just wrote.
 

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Exactly! I said something similar to what you just wrote.

I notice that and I agree with what you Said This thread sounds so stupid to me

I know many people who grew up with no father or mother and later on when they got a family of their own they cherish it and put alot of effort into being the best parent they can be to their kids

Its stupid to assume the worst cause everyone arent the same
 

dr.leorio

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Their are few exceptions lakin Mr.SomaliKnight is correct. Stay away from people that come from broken homes. Guys or girls. Sure I sympathize with them but I'm not willing to screw up my own life just to overlook major red flags.
 
There is a lot of caveats to this, it depends what type of broken home we are talking about.

The ones in the west are toxic compared to back home were the children go to the father who remarries a new wife, and the ex-wife remarries with a clean slate.

The Somali broken home in the west is the most toxic of all the Muslim communities because the children that grow up in these homes never get exposed to a male figure while growing up and the divorced women never goes back to her family.

Unlike with Arab's and Asian's were after divorce the female moves back with her family, and she has her father and several brothers as male figures and disciplinarian's whom the children grow up with.

Those children the effects are very minimal if they exist at all.
 
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