Something I’ve noticed about Somali women that marry interracially.

imma be honest I am conventionally ugly (from what I can see in the mirror and the fact noone has ever complemented me about my looks) but at the same time I have had girls literally walk up to me and ask for my number/snap, try to sit next to me in school, come on to me in front of a group of people.
But, I literally am ugly, and ik most girls don't think I am attractive.
So my conclusion is, I am ugly, but some girls think (for some reason) I am attractive.
I still can't explain the behaviour of women, and Idc tbh, thats why I find it so hard when ppl claim to be incels or unable to get a pretty girl, I am an example of a guy who you would think gets no attention from women, but I can get a girl if I wanted, what excuse do these guys have?
You got to post your pic and let us decided otherwise your not conventional ugly 😂

Them coming up to you and talking to is counted as them complimenting you aswell.

As for the hive mind thing it's a womens thing. Like when women say they find married guys or taken guys all of a sudden more attractive. It could be that after one girl gave you attention all the others got stuck in the hive mind or your not ugly.

Anyways guys have it easier when it comes to the whole looks thing and many girls are insecure about there looks so go for less attractive guys aswell so no one really has an excuse unless they are disabled/deformed
 
Then you are not unattractive.

You can't judge how attractive you are just by looking in the mirror for most people. People who think one way or the other just by looking at themselves may just be average.
If you want to find out how attractive you are just judge you interactions with the opposite sex. Men don't really get complemented so that's not a basis.

Not everyone has to find you attractive. Everyone has different tastes but if a good amount of girls are coming onto you then you are attractive to a chunk of girls.
yh but the thing is, I was unpopular in school, and got no attention from girls in school
:cosbyhmm:unless they didn't like me because I was unpopular..............
then that would explain why most girls who were interested in me were either outside school or after I left secondary school and went college
:win:hmm,interesting thought but I find it hard to believe, bc I get 0 compliments from girls ever and girls rarely seem interested in me
:wow1:But if I think about it........... nah I need to be professor X to figure this stuff out, how the flip am I meant to know when I have been kept in secret.

I am still sure I am ugly.
 

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yh but the thing is, I was unpopular in school, and got no attention from girls in school
:cosbyhmm:unless they didn't like me because I was unpopular..............
then that would explain why most girls who were interested in me were either outside school or after I left secondary school and went college
:win:hmm,interesting thought but I find it hard to believe, bc I get 0 compliments from girls ever and girls rarely seem interested in me
:wow1:But if I think about it........... nah I need to be professor X to figure this stuff out, how the flip am I meant to know when I have been kept in secret.

I am still sure I am ugly.
School doesn't matter. I'm gonna be honest and say most people looked stupid at 15 compared to their early adult years where most people peak.

Men as a whole don't get complimented that much. Being approached by a girl and having her all over you is a complement in itself. Actual worded complements are giving to girls not the other way around unless you are really above average.
 
School doesn't matter. I'm gonna be honest and say most people looked stupid at 15 compared to their early adult years where most people peak.

Men as a whole don't get complimented that much. Being approached by a girl and having her all over you is a complement in itself. Actual worded complements are giving to girls not the other way around unless you are really above average.
yh thats true, there was this one nerdy ugly guy in my school who was the most unknown nerd in school, he was a proper werido, almost had a unibrow, came to school non-uniform day in his school uniform
my friend told me when six form hit, this guy got tall, and i assumed his looks got better, and he had girls all over him, I havent seen him myself but yh in school u havent hit ur peak yet
 
The ajnabis that Somali women marry are always so homely and average looking. I see these couples of TikTok and the cadaan guys they marry is always fugly.

I’ve never seen a Somali woman married to a Brad Pitt or Ryan Gosling type of cadaan guy lol. If they’re gonna marry cadaan, why not at least marry a good looking Ryan Gosling type of cadaan? It’s sad.

But I’ve seen so many Somali men married to beautiful 10/10 cadaan, arab, latino women.
Ryan Gosling really? That’s your definition of an attractive cadaan guy.
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When u search ryan goslin up on tiktok this is what u get, i do not believe qeelbax, so many women thirst after him. Ik some girls say they don't like white guys so they don't find the celebrtiy white guys like channing tatum attractive, ur probably one of those girls
Channing Tatum is ugly. How am I supposed to find this box head attractive?
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Some cadaan guys are good looking but others aren’t. Like @Odious Delirium said fame makes them look attractive to some who wouldn’t find them attractive otherwise. Look at how black women gaslighted themselves on social media to find Jonathon majors attractive.
Now this is an example of a good looking cadaan guy. This video comes up after the tiktok you posted. Henry Cavill is fine.
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Channing Tatum is ugly. How am I supposed to find this box head attractive?
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Some cadaan guys are good looking but others aren’t. Like @Odious Delirium said fame makes them look attractive to some who wouldn’t find them attractive otherwise. Look at how black women gaslighted themselves on social media to find Jonathon majors attractive.
Now this is an example of a good looking cadaan guy. This video comes up after the tiktok you posted. Henry Cavill is fine.
:mjswag:
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You know how I found out henry cavill was good looking? I thought he was a normal guy, didn't even think about his looks, while I was watching man of steel in the cinema this scene came up
 

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The most funniest thing is when they married a caadan guy they do a totally traditional somali weddings, puting the guy in macawis and all stuff 😹

Self hatred at the paroxysm
 
Yeah but I’m talking about America. Here most madhow end up with madhow and they aren’t really breeding themselves out, at least not in the UK. A lot of mixed people marry other mixed or black too but yeah they do marry out to cadaan way more than regular madhow do, but again they are cadaan themselves so it makes sense. I dont know how it is in the UK but in America if a black girl is skinny and refined, they’ll say she dates white men, especially if she has her natural hair. These black men are self hating and if they see natural hair they associate it with them dating cadaan men. If you don’t believe me you can check thecoli, lipstickalley and r/blackladies.

In America, when a rich madhow man marries a black women, she is usually light skinned and is clearly not monoracial. But the stereotype is that cadaan men that date madhow, date madhow that look madhow.
Are you a Divestor? Lol, most Cadaan men are repulsed by madow women (so are Cadaan women with madow men, to a lesser extent) and would rather just pin after Asian and Hispanic women when they date out in America, most Cadaan men find them so ugly that they don’t want to see them in Hollywood at all and will only cast them if they are lightskin, and of course most madow women who marry Cadaan men are not lightskin, most madow women are on the darker side of things, that’s like saying becuase most Cadaan women are with madow men that are dark, then that means darkskin men are preferred, when in reality lightskin/biracial men are preferred by all groups of women, including those madow women you seem to cape for, idk why you seem to like them so much, all those threads on lsa pertaining to Somali/Horner women is them dragging Somali people through the mud and calling us overrated and stuff
 

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Channing Tatum is ugly. How am I supposed to find this box head attractive?
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Some cadaan guys are good looking but others aren’t. Like @Odious Delirium said fame makes them look attractive to some who wouldn’t find them attractive otherwise. Look at how black women gaslighted themselves on social media to find Jonathon majors attractive.
Now this is an example of a good looking cadaan guy. This video comes up after the tiktok you posted. Henry Cavill is fine.
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yes I agree channing tatum is definitely unattractive. Henry cavil is handsome but I don't see all the maniacal hype about him
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Cadaans will not gaslight me into believing that this
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Is a face of a handsome man, I hate his whole face especially that witch nose
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It’s true that somalis rarely marry good looking people when they marry out, faraxs included. But I do remember this xalimo that married a good looking white guy like a decade ago. There pictures would come up when you searched somali cadaan couple. Mira Sufis asian husband was cute too.
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Everyone else is hit in the face
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You have to be fair, Brad Pitt kind of cadaan guys are >1%. I know y’all worship cadaans but the brad pitts and angelina jolies are rare. Xalimos aren’t like faraxs flexing their mid cadaan spouses with jewish noses.
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Cadaans overall are held to a lower standard when it comes to attractiveness
 

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Cadaans will not gaslight me into believing that this
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Is a face of a handsome man, I hate his whole face especially that witch nose
:mjpls:
It’s true that somalis rarely marry good looking people when they marry out, faraxs included. But I do remember this xalimo that married a good looking white guy like a decade ago. There pictures would come up when you searched somali cadaan couple. Mira Sufis asian husband was cute too.
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Everyone else is hit in the face
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You have to be fair, Brad Pitt kind of cadaan guys are >1%. I know y’all worship cadaans but the brad pitts and angelina jolies are rare. Xalimos aren’t like faraxs flexing their mid cadaan spouses with jewish noses.
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🧢 Somali women always marry over weight ginger man
 
The harsh truth: in this western society where cadaan are the majority and they are seen as being at the top of the social hierarchy, only the ones that don’t really have options or are otherwise undesirable with other cadaans are gonna marry Africans/black people that are at the bottom of the social hierarchy in the West. This goes for both men and woman. And of course there are exceptions, but that is usually the case

I don’t entertain cadaan men for that reason. I’m not taking Becky’s leftovers
 

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thank you, I thought he was ugly, like i dont need to be gay to know that, then women started saying hes handsome
I thought they were saying that because his body was good though?????????????
no it's because sjw were saying people didnt find him attractive because he has very black features and some black people said he looked like a slave, so they had to defend their kang.
 

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The most funniest thing is when they married a caadan guy they do a totally traditional somali weddings, puting the guy in macawis and all stuff 😹

Self hatred at the paroxysm
I do sometimes find it weird when somalis dress their ajnabi spouse in somali garb, especially if it's 24/7 but if it's a wedding it shouldn't be a problem.
 

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Are you a Divestor? Lol, most Cadaan men are repulsed by madow women (so are Cadaan women with madow men, to a lesser extent) and would rather just pin after Asian and Hispanic women when they date out in America, most Cadaan men find them so ugly that they don’t want to see them in Hollywood at all and will only cast them if they are lightskin, and of course most madow women who marry Cadaan men are not lightskin, most madow women are on the darker side of things, that’s like saying becuase most Cadaan women are with madow men that are dark, then that means darkskin men are preferred, when in reality lightskin/biracial men are preferred by all groups of women, including those madow women you seem to cape for, idk why you seem to like them so much, all those threads on lsa pertaining to Somali/Horner women is them dragging Somali people through the mud and calling us overrated and stuff
repulsed is a strong word and no I'm not a divestor, I'm just hyper aware of the dating culture in black america. You should take some reading lessons because I said multiple times that white men WHO DATE BW go for the opposite of what hood black men usually like. From my experience in the North, most black women are not dark skinned in America, they are brown skinned or maarin, and they aren't skinny either. So no, that wouldnt be the average black women. I'm not sure what your point is?

LSA isn't a good example of black women, it's kinda considered a femcel forum. The black women on other platforms dont like them, they hate them on r//blackladies, but even then, that doesnt mean that everything on that forum is unreliable. Keep in mind that, a lot of the posters arent even black. Your choice of words are rather weird if I'm being honest and I'm not sure why you are so offended by the thought of black american women being found attractive by some cadaans, I mean its a given. Everything you said about hollywood could be applied to other POC women and even men. Theres a Halle Bailey, Lupita, and Angela Bassett for every Zendaya and Halle Berry. You could argue that most of the famous black female singers are light skinned/mixed but most Black actresses aren't. The high number of light skinned/mixed black female singers over dark skinned ones is the fault of the black community and their own anti-blackness.
 
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