Somali women -- how do you express interest in a guy? **serious topic**

[Saar]

I don’t know where you find abdis or xaalimos from. Its so empty where I live or the xaalimos are with abu falafal

where do you live

 

[Saar]

@Kingjames i saw the comment before you deleted it

 

[Zailah]

View attachment 33829 I only see him once a week for now who knows how things are going

Get his social media and build your foundation up from there

 

[daacad]

Can women please vet this advise?

Would much prefer sms. Makes rejection much smoother. I already have my escape hatch:

"oops wrong number" :D

Ardee wac and ask her out don't be shy nin rag ah iska dhig and see what she says it's not like it's the end of the world if she refuses

 

[Kingjames]

@Kingjames i saw the comment before you deleted it

I didn’t want to crush your heart with some facts on how a typical farax thinks.

 

[Saar]

Get his social media and build your foundation up from there

how my ass was so scared i almost fainted when i talked to him

 

[Saar]

I didn’t want to crush your heart with some facts on how a typical farax thinks.

tell me

 

[showme7]

Ardee wac and ask her out don't be shy nin rag ah iska dhig and see what she says it's not like it's the end of the world if she refuses

are you a female??

 

[Zailah]

how my ass was so scared i almost fainted when i talked to him

You: Hey
Him: Hey
You: Do you use snap or are you more of an Instagram
Him: His answer
You: Oh cool, I like that one too. What’s your username

 

[daacad]

are you a female??

NO

Does my advice indicate that I am female

 

[Jjero]

how my ass was so scared i almost fainted when i talked to him

Just ask what his IG is
You gotta look cute when you ask bout it tho
Lipgloss, Mascara, Cute pink khamar, and eyebrows done

He might have some Cadaan girls comment "Damn " under his pics

 

[Saar]

You: Hey
Him: Hey
You: Do you use snap or are you more of an Instagram
Him: His answer
You: Oh cool, I like that one too. What’s your username

 

[Kingjames]

tell me

No Farax is looking for anything halal at your age. Which is 17 right? He is probably going to tell you that you would be a perfect future wife but that he is not ready for that.

 

[XoosBoos]

where do you live

Norway.

 

[Zailah]

View attachment 33831

Sounds good?

 

[showme7]

NO

Does my advice indicate that I am female

nah was just seeing what perspective it was coming from.

calling too much hassle tbh. I'm thinking of keeping with the times and asking for her Snap. if she gives it == interested == win.

 

[Saar]

Just ask what his IG is
You gotta look cute when you ask bout it tho
Lipgloss, Mascara, Cute pink khamar, and eyebrows done

He might have some Cadaan girls comment "Damn " under his pics

cadaan a. gonna go looking cute but i don't put make up on when i go to school

 

[Saar]

No Farax is looking for anything halal at your age. Which is 17 right? He is probably going to tell you that you would be a perfect future wife but that he is not ready for that.

B-but he is older

 

[agnes]

If I like a guy, I avoid him. If he comes up to me and asks for my number, he's not gonna get it. I have a very innocent, approachable face, so guys assume if they keep pushing, I will give in but nope, not me, neverr.

 

[showme7]

One reason is women is 25 and she speaks REALLY good somali. And her mannerisms are very mother like. She may force me to speak somali and i will bumble. It's weird if someone speaks somali to you and you respond english.