Somali women -- how do you express interest in a guy? **serious topic**

[showme7]

I like this girl that I see about 1-2 times a month, we are always friendly and smile. I have her number and she knows, however I only have it due to sheer circumstance (basically via doing some errands for a relative).

My question to the halmos on SS is, if you're interested in a guy, how do you express it, if at all? Or do you just wait for a guy to do everything??? I'm really curious, i've never had a somali girl be direct in her interest. In fact I knew this one girl who told her friends she found her husband (me) and I never had a clue she was that into me. Unfortunately I wasn't digging her that much.....she was kinda cute but too loud and chubby.

I'm a 28 year old guy and still haven't got the memo....

ps guys for once no trolls pls. i don't want to hear any mention of "ashy abdi" or "", not this time.

 

[Xooshdheere]

lacag, sxb lacag

 

[showme7]

lacag, sxb lacag

are you male or female? what do you mean by that?

you show interest in a guy via money?

 

[Tjioux]

 

[Hassan Garguute Buldanana]

Approach her sxb make ur move, its haa ama maya girls are shy

 

[Saar]

in fact i have the same problem

 

[showme7]

Watched first 2 min and it seems nothing there is relevant.

Flipping/Tossing hair?
Fixing clothes, make chest more visible?

cmon man. tell me in your own words

 

[showme7]

Approach her sxb make ur move, its haa ama maya girls are shy

good point. I have her number....I'm gonna text her in 3 days.

"hey how are ya? "
"your super cute mashallah. you wanna get coffee?"

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super cringe i know. but what the hell. i gotta make a move soon or else she'll be taken. she's really banging

my issue is somali women are not like cadaan women. some somali women think a coffee date is an invitation to fornicate. i've had one freak out one time, although i was 19 at the time.

 

[Saar]

good point. I have her number....I'm gonna text her in 3 days.

"hey how are ya? "
"your super cute mashallah. you wanna get coffee?"

-----

super cringe i know. but what the hell. i gotta make a move soon or else she'll be taken. she's really banging

Looolz girls help him @Jjero @yasmin lan @Lola_Vonroe @Zailah :siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Hassan Garguute Buldanana]

good point. I have her number....I'm gonna text her in 3 days.

"hey how are ya? "
"your super cute mashallah. you wanna get coffee?"

-----

super cringe i know. but what the hell. i gotta make a move soon or else she'll be taken. she's really banging

Sxb, she is probably digging you as well but shy. Call her, u got nothing to lose

 

[showme7]

I really feel bad for Somali women. Basically the only guys they ever have a chance with are the ones that express interest in them first? Seems extremely inefficient and limiting. It's like a jobseeker only willing to work for companies that come to recruit first.

 

[showme7]

Looolz girls help him @Jjero @yasmin lan @Lola_Vonroe @Zailah :siilaanyolaugh:

ok mr. Red Pill, what's your genius techniques?

 

[Saar]

ok mr. Red Pill, what's your genius techniques?

i am a girl and don't ask me that's why i mentioned the other girls so that they could help you:siilaanyosmile:

 

[Zailah]

@showme7

If I was the girl, I’d show my interest by talking to you lots. I wouldn’t start the conversation but I’d continue. However, most of the telltale hints would be when we’d meet.

 

[showme7]

@showme7

If I was the girl, I’d show my interest by talking to you lots. I wouldn’t start the conversation but I’d continue. However, most of the telltale hints would be when we’d meet.

Can you mention exactly what those "telltale hints" consist of? More talking?

 

[daacad]

good point. I have her number....I'm gonna text her in 3 days.

"hey how are ya? "
"your super cute mashallah. you wanna get coffee?"

-----
super cringe i know. but what the hell. i gotta make a move soon or else she'll be taken. she's really banging

my issue is somali women are not like cadaan women. some somali women think a coffee date is an invitation to fornicate. i've had one freak out one time, although i was 19 at the time.

You should call her and ask her out instead of asking her out in a massage

 

[Kingjames]

I like this girl that I see about 1-2 times a month, we are always friendly and smile. I have her number and she knows, however I only have it due to sheer circumstance (basically via doing some errands for a relative).

My question to the halmos on SS is, if you're interested in a guy, how do you express it, if at all? Or do you just wait for a guy to do everything??? I'm really curious, i've never had a somali girl be direct in her interest. In fact I knew this one girl who told her friends she found her husband (me) and I never had a clue she was that into me. Unfortunately I wasn't digging her that much.....she was kinda cute but too loud and chubby.

I'm a 28 year old guy and still haven't got the memo....

ps guys for once no trolls pls. i don't want to hear any mention of "ashy abdi" or "", not this time.

Is she outgoing or shy? If she is outgoing then you got to just get straight to the point. If she is shy try to ease in to asking her out.

 

[showme7]

You should call her and ask her out instead of asking her out in a massage

Can women please vet this advise?

Would much prefer sms. Makes rejection much smoother. I already have my escape hatch:

"oops wrong number" :D

 

[4444]

I don't think you guys have enough interaction. But since you are the one who likes her try to see her more often.

 

[XoosBoos]

So this is how I will do shuukansi in a decade? Kkkkkkkkkk :siilaanyolaugh: