Somali Sugar Baby RESPONDS to Somalispot after DELETING her Tumblr in HUMILIATION

[Reign]

Well I can't really judge her. There are girls out here having sex for free. If she wants to sell her vagina it's up to her. Although she's kidding herself telling herself she isn't a prostitute.

 

[VixR]

No one giving anyone 4K per month consistently. Not even full on prostitutes.

Most sex workers live under the poverty line. There's some wierd trend nowadays ever since the recession to glamorize prostitution. It's disturbing to,say the least.

But they do. You have no idea! And usually sex work is supplemental.

Granted, things can be different from area to area and there are sex workers who are under the poverty line, but it differs greatly.

I know this girl is from the hood bc the only 'profession' she compares herself to is drug-dealing, which has potential for fast money in that same way. How many ppl make 4k plus bare incentives in the hood doing what ppl call honest work, like flipping burgers or taking cleaning jobs? They'd have to take on three jobs to reach 4k. It's a dead giveaway.

 

[merka]

There's no work like hoe work

They're mostly $1 bills

 

[John Michael]

But they do. You have no idea! And usually sex work is supplemental.

Granted, things can be different from area to area and there are sex workers who are under the poverty line, but it differs greatly.

I know this girl is from the hood bc the only 'profession' she compares herself to is drug-dealing, which has potential for fast money in that same way. How many ppl make 4k plus bare incentives in the hood doing what ppl call honest work, like flipping burgers or taking cleaning jobs? They'd have to take on three jobs to reach 4k. It's a dead giveaway.

There's way too much competition in the sex industry to make even middle income earnings. Only the type who do niche shit are able to pull decent money. Pretty girls are a dime a dozen.

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[XamarCade]

But they do. You have no idea! And usually sex work is supplemental.

Granted, things can be different from area to area and there are sex workers who are under the poverty line, but it differs greatly.

I know this girl is from the hood bc the only 'profession' she compares herself to is drug-dealing, which has potential for fast money in that same way. How many ppl make 4k plus bare incentives in the hood doing what ppl call honest work, like flipping burgers or taking cleaning jobs? They'd have to take on three jobs to reach 4k. It's a dead giveaway.

Ur a hooker aren'tcha

 

[Codeine]

I don't know what people are on about but 4k a month (presuming she doesn't declare shit and only pays tax) is literally more than 90% of 22-29 year olds earn. She's deluding herself if she thinks she can retire comfortable before her shit expires though. But that would only matter if this wasn't tumblr fiction.

Well I can't really judge her. There are girls out here having sex for free. If she wants to sell her vagina it's up to her. Although she's kidding herself telling herself she isn't a prostitute.

Imagine this, a world where women also enjoy sex, and perhaps sleep with men they have/are looking to build relationships with

But f*ck that, team love don't pay my rent, am I right?

 

[Gojo Satoru]

This girl has no self respect. She fucking guys for only 4k a month? . As to be expected for a hoodlum .

 

[VixR]

There's way too much competition in the sex industry to make even middle income earnings. Only the type who do niche shit are able to pull decent money. Pretty girls are a dime a dozen.

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Persons from disadvantaged backgrounds often react to their poverty in hyper-materialistic ways, and heck even with well off people they get addicted to maintaining a certain lifestyle or can't get enough of what they have. Plenty of others are adventurous or enjoy the work. That's why the sex industry has pull from all kinds of backgrounds. Its not like the third world where 90% were forced, trafficked or succumbed to it to feed their families. It's a fucking side gig here to pay for law school, or get out the Western hood which is reasonably a millionX more comfortable and full of resources for the disadvantaged than the dog eat dog conditions third worlders experience. It's cutthroat and it not worth it for plenty of ppl, but to pretend it's vastly low-incomed, full of fuglies, or that services aren't expensive would be a lie. The sex industry is a million different things, there's levels to it. Its , cam-girling, prostitution, sugardaddying, stripping, etc.

 

[VixR]

Ur a hooker aren'tcha

I know ppl who do. Heck, I knew a couple paid fuckboys in highschool who were underaged screwing older men too. There's plenty where that came from. My only experience has been in being approached.

I don't judge this girl and I don't think there's a reason to feel sorry for her either.

 

[Reign]

I don't know what people are on about but 4k a month (presuming she doesn't declare shit and only pays tax) is literally more than 90% of 22-29 year olds earn. She's deluding herself if she thinks she can retire comfortable before her shit expires though. But that would only matter if this wasn't tumblr fiction.



Imagine this, a world where women also enjoy sex, and perhaps sleep with men they have/are looking to build relationships with

But f*ck that, team love don't pay my rent, am I right?

There are girls having sex in the back of alleyways and girls having one night stands and girls just sleeping around with men they're not exclusive with. Why not show outrage towards them too? Well because they're not charging you for the vagina. If she wants to prostitute herself and chooses to get something out of her vagina instead of give it for free it's her choice.

This is like how s show outrage to Kim K for making a sex tape. When they're out here having sex and sending nudes for free.

I don't condone this behaviour, but idgaf since it's not my friends or family doing it.

 

[Luke]

Plenty of others are adventurous or enjoy the work.

I've met literally dozens if not in the 100's of prostitutes and I'm highly skeptical any of them enjoy their line of work. Many of them are openly miserable for understandable reasons, and the few that aren't always seem off, insincere or overly 'proud'. I specifically remember this one girl. She was pretty cool, didn't seem like a complete fiend, reasonably intelligent and was a final year biology student. Nothing off about her. Seemed healthy and quite attractive actually. She told me SFE wasn't covering her final year, all she received was a £3000 living cost loan and nothing else. So she turned to prostitution and was making quite a bit of money to live, go out and buy drugs with. Months later, at this point I know her fairly well-ish. I'm sitting on her couch playing on her couch playing BO2 waiting for her housemate to come back with cash. She gets call from a client and gets up to answer it. I can hear her negotiate a time slot, she hangs up and the next thing I know she's having a complete breakdown. By the way she talked about what she does and her liberal attitude towards sex work had me convinced she genuinely didn't mind. But in hindsight all that bragging and down talking on her clients was just a front to cope.

Presumptuous, but deep down I think the overwhelming majority of sex workers are not satisfied with their line of work, and it goes beyond the social stigma attached to it.

 

[VixR]

I've met literally dozens if not in the 100's of prostitutes and I'm highly skeptical any of them enjoy their line of work. Many of them are openly miserable for understandable reasons, and the few that aren't always seem off, insincere or overly 'proud'. I specifically remember this one girl. She was pretty cool, didn't seem like a complete fiend, reasonably intelligent and was a final year biology student. Nothing off about her. Seemed healthy and quite attractive actually. She told me SFE wasn't covering her final year, all she received was a £3000 living cost loan and nothing else. So she turned to prostitution and was making quite a bit of money to live, go out and buy drugs with. Months later, at this point I know her fairly well-ish. I'm sitting on her couch playing on her couch playing BO2 waiting for her housemate to come back with cash. She gets call from a client and gets up to answer it. I can hear her negotiate a time slot, she hangs up and the next thing I know she's having a complete breakdown. By the way she talked about what she does and her liberal attitude towards sex work had me convinced she genuinely didn't mind. But in hindsight all that bragging and down talking on her clients was just a front to cope.

Presumptuous, but deep down I think the overwhelming majority of sex workers are not satisfied with their line of work, and it goes beyond the social stigma attached to it.

Absolutely, I would think many of them certainly do it for the money, but I also think there's a huge spectrum when it comes to so-called 'job satisfaction' where they have a certain personality type, or way of thinking that appeals to their type of work, and actually finding it enjoyable. I used to think they were all miserable too, but what I've seen is that there's a lot of nuance, and if her attitudes had you convinced, its more than likely the sudden breakdown could've had to do with the caller or circumstances related to that call rather than a complete reversal of everything you'd observed up to that point. Your best bet probably would've been to ask her point blank.

 

[Luke]

Absolutely, I would think many of them certainly do it for the money, but I also think there's a huge spectrum when it comes to so-called 'job satisfaction' where they have a certain personality type, or way of thinking that appeals to their type of work, and actually finding it enjoyable. I used to think they were all miserable too, but what I've seen is that there's a lot of nuance, and if her attitudes had you convinced, its more than likely the sudden breakdown could've had to do with the caller or circumstances related to that call rather than a complete reversal of everything you'd observed up to that point. Your best bet probably would've been to ask her point blank.

The whole thing was awkward and painful to witness. There was an awful lot of cussing, crying, apologising and a lot of blaming SFE for not providing her a loan pushing her to do this. From context it was fair to assume she saw it as the only way, rather than just another means. I think that's the big difference with sex workers and people working generic jobs. There are definitely women satisfied with their line of work in the sex world sphere, but I think it leans towards the 'online' world, away from prostitutes, escorts, strippers or any other form that requires physical interaction.

 

[VixR]

The whole thing was awkward and painful to witness. There was an awful lot of cussing, crying, apologising and a lot of blaming SFE for not providing her a loan pushing her to do this. From context it was fair to assume she saw it as the only way, rather than just another means. I think that's the big difference with sex workers and people working generic jobs. There are definitely women satisfied with their line of work in the sex world sphere, but I think it leans towards the 'online' world, away from prostitutes, escorts, strippers or any other form that requires physical interaction.

I would've asked a few questions right then if I were in your place.
I really think your last statement is an incredible blind sweep. But moving forward, there's absolutely nothing forcing anyone to do sex work in the West, unless they were victims of the sex trafficking ring that operates in certain hotspots in the country (that actually extends outside the US, and includes certain airports, a prime example of them being the ATL airport) or were forcibly abused into the work, its not something that one can do without enjoying to a significant degree like with other jobs, and once they've accepted entrance into that world, to continue that work day in and day out without a dire need to. Sex workers, in fact, have to choose their line of work and have to have more resolve to do it than the average worker who can hate their job. Plenty of women, in fact the vast majority of us, attending Universities and with degrees to pay for, or who lost scholarships, either stop going, or end up pay dearly through loans and juggling conventional jobs like everyone else. It's nowhere near the only way, for if it were I'd be more sympathetic to your misguided apologist line of thinking that weaves a tale of victimhood for choices that are their own.

 

[Luke]

I would've asked a few questions right then if I were in your place.
I really think your last statement is an incredible blind sweep. But moving forward, there's absolutely nothing forcing anyone to do sex work in the West, unless they were victims of the sex trafficking ring that operates in certain hotspots in the country (that actually extends outside the US, and includes certain airports, a prime example of them being the ATL airport) or were forcibly abused into the work, its not something that one can do without enjoying to a significant degree like with other jobs, and once they've accepted entrance into that world, to continue that work day in and day out without a dire need to. Sex workers, in fact, have to choose their line of work and have to have more resolve to do it than the average worker who can hate their job. Plenty of women, in fact the vast majority of us, attending Universities and with degrees to pay for, or who lost scholarships, either stop going, or end up pay dearly through loans and juggling conventional jobs like everyone else. It's nowhere near the only way, for if it were I'd be more sympathetic to your misguided apologist line of thinking that weaves a tale of victimhood for choices that are their own.

It took me completely off-guard. I was just waiting for my money, and then to go off on my merry way.

Don't get me wrong, I don't really consider the majority of them 'victims' at all. She and many other prostitutes do however consider their line of work a 'last resort'. A full time minimum wage job in the UK could let virtually anyone get by almost anywhere, and I'm talking from experience. What it can't support is baggage and vices which prostitutes often come with. Be it a record or more commonly a nasty drug habit. Very few jobs allow your average prostitute to maintain their lifestyles. It's very relevant to note that I do not think your average Uni girl part time prostituting/sugar baby is representative of the average sex worker. I suppose your right, there is no real pressure for them to be doing it.

I'd bet anything that in the U.S for instance, a married, non-using, non-parent, White, upper class female makes up less than a fraction of sex workers compared to working class single Black mothers with a habit. In fact, simply removing the financial incentive shows that most of them would prefer a generic job over sex work. Very few middle/upper-middle class women working decent jobs decide to turn to sex work. It's not unheard of, but a strong minority. If sex work became a public service paying £7.20 an hour. I imagine 99% of the people working it would consist of those unable to hold other minimum wage jobs. Also, I'm mostly referring to prostitution, escorting etc. not or sugar babying(?) which make up a small segment in comparison.

 

[Zuleikha]

I went to university with bunch of cadaan sugar babies LMAO . I used to wonder how they can afford their expensive lifestyle until I saw older 50 year old odays waiting for them outside after classes.

One of them told me that her sugar daddy wants a companionship only. All she had to do was accompany him to dinners, events and movies etc. She was just like an arm candy he can show off.

 

[Codeine]

There are girls having sex in the back of alleyways and girls having one night stands and girls just sleeping around with men they're not exclusive with. Why not show outrage towards them too? Well because they're not charging you for the vagina. If she wants to prostitute herself and chooses to get something out of her vagina instead of give it for free it's her choice.

Very dumb reasoning

I went to university with bunch of cadaan sugar babies LMAO . I used to wonder how they can afford their expensive lifestyle until I saw older 50 year old odays waiting for them outside after classes.

One of them told me that her sugar daddy wants a companionship only. All she had to do was accompany him to dinners, events and movies etc. She was just like an arm candy he can show off.

You're very naive if you believe that walaalo. Old men are young men with saggy balls. The 'no sex' involved thing is sheeko to save face

 

[VixR]

It took me completely off-guard. I was just waiting for my money, and then to go off on my merry way.

Don't get me wrong, I don't really consider the majority of them 'victims' at all. She and many other prostitutes do however consider their line of work a 'last resort'. A full time minimum wage job in the UK could let virtually anyone get by almost anywhere, and I'm talking from experience. What it can't support is baggage and vices which prostitutes often come with. Be it a record or more commonly a nasty drug habit. Very few jobs allow your average prostitute to maintain their lifestyles. It's very relevant to note that I do not think your average Uni girl part time prostituting/sugar baby is representative of the average sex worker. I suppose your right, there is no real pressure for them to be doing it.

I'd bet anything that in the U.S for instance, a married, non-using, non-parent, White, upper class female makes up less than a fraction of sex workers compared to working class single Black mothers with a habit. In fact, simply removing the financial incentive shows that most of them would prefer a generic job over sex work. Very few middle/upper-middle class women working decent jobs decide to turn to sex work. It's not unheard of, but a strong minority. If sex work became a public service paying £7.20 an hour. I imagine 99% of the people working it would consist of those unable to hold other minimum wage jobs. Also, I'm mostly referring to prostitution, escorting etc. not or sugar babying(?) which make up a small segment in comparison.

Let me ask you a couple of questions, if you will.

1) Have you used sex workers? 2) Was the girl you spoke of earlier a poor, working-class Black woman with a habit, and/or did that make up the majority of the 'hundreds" of sex workers you've met?

 

[Luke]

Let me ask you a couple of questions, if you will.

1) Have you used sex workers? 2) Was the girl you spoke of earlier a poor, working-class Black woman with a habit, and/or did that make up the majority of the 'hundreds" of sex workers you've met?

1) nope
2) This will be inherently flawed, but I'll answer. Mostly White, working class women and the overwhelming majority were drug users. 100% if you want to count weed, but that's silly. 100's might be an exaggeration, but easily 5-6 dozens. I also live in an area with 90%+ White population and South Asians are by far the largest minority group. Very few Black people here.

 

[VixR]

1) nope
2) This will be inherently flawed, but I'll answer. Mostly White, working class women and the overwhelming majority were drug users. 100% if you want to count weed, but that's silly. 100's might be an exaggeration, but easily 5-6 dozens. I also live in an area with 90%+ White population and South Asians are by far the largest minority group. Very few Black people here.

That's what I thought

It's more along the lines of what I've seen than what you posited earlier.

As an aside, I wouldn't count weed as an expensive drug habit that would drive one to sex work, but for sure drug use is a facet many a sex-workers' lifestyle.

Ppl in the West turn to sex-work tend to 1) hold liberal views towards sex and are sexually explorative in nature, and 2) are into the idea of getting more bang out of it per earned buck than they would elsewhere (generic jobs), so to speak. Notice how this isn't a need, but a want. If sex work became a public service paying $7.50/hr, (I actually do believe it'll be legalized and regulated, but I can't imagine this kind of going rate) a fast majority of prostitutes and sex-workers would melt into what the general population is already doing; fucking as many specific ppl as they love to f*ck vs. fucking strangers indiscriminately in exchange for compensation, which is where the incentive comes in. Removing that incentive in a sexualized society with a hook-up culture would have a huge affect except for the ouliers, because no one needs to turn tricks to put food on the table as it is. If it were to become a public service, it would have to keep that earning potential edge to attract workers.