Somali mentality

[Mercury]

I remember when I was back home my uncles wife was heavily pregnant than one day she was taken to the hospital and my uncle was home so I asked him if he's not gonna be there in the delivery room and he said No when the baby is born they will call me than I'll go

I asked some of my cousins if this is normal and they all agreed some of them have this belief if a man is in the delivery room and sees his wife giving birth hes gonna get shocked and its gonna affect their sex life

 

[486th President]

I would be there for her the f*ck pregnancy is life it’s not that scary he needs to grow some “Testies”

 

[Bronco]

Listen abaayo, your cousins have a toxic mindset. Don't let it put you off getting pregnant, I promise you'll have a real man by your side when the time comes.

 

[BobSmoke]

I remember when I was back home my uncles wife was heavily pregnant than one day she was taken to the hospital and my uncle was home so I asked him if he's not gonna be there in the delivery room and he said No when the baby is born they will call me than I'll go

I asked some of my cousins if this is normal and they all agreed some of them have this belief if a man is in the delivery room and sees his wife giving birth hes gonna get shocked and its gonna affect their sex life

What??

 

[486th President]

“Somali Mentality” what was their qabil because this isn’t something that we do fam maybe it’s just your family

 

[Sloane Ranger]

I wasn't aware this mentality existed with the men of today. I know it was unheard for a man in my grandfathers generation to be present at the birth.

 

[486th President]

I wasn't aware this mentality existed with the men of today. I know it was unheard for a man in my grandfathers generation to be present at the birth.

I think maybe your ancestors did it out of maturity... not because of how they would view their sex

 

[Hali]

Your cousin is right
Childbirth is traumatic, I was with my sister when she gave birth. Never again.
Her husband came in after she gave birth and he nearly fainted

 

[Quruxley]

I remember when I was back home my uncles wife was heavily pregnant than one day she was taken to the hospital and my uncle was home so I asked him if he's not gonna be there in the delivery room and he said No when the baby is born they will call me than I'll go

I asked some of my cousins if this is normal and they all agreed some of them have this belief if a man is in the delivery room and sees his wife giving birth hes gonna get shocked and its gonna affect their sex life

Wtf I'm so confused looool

 

[Chun Li]

I would be there for her the f*ck pregnancy is life it’s not that scary he needs to grow some “Testies”

This is very inspiring, coming from you.

 

[486th President]

Your cousin is right
Childbirth is traumatic, I was with my sister when she gave birth. Never again.

I would view my cousin differently than my spouse fam but it is what it is

 

[Chun Li]

Your cousin is right
Childbirth is traumatic, I was with my sister when she gave birth. Never again.

Give us a story time (leave out any details that are too intimate). I know it’s painful, but what’s so traumatising about it?? Did she have a bad experience at the hospital...

 

[486th President]

This is very inspiring, coming from you.

What’s that supposed to mean

 

[Quruxley]

What’s that supposed to mean

Grow a pair.

 

[Mercury]

“Somali Mentality” what was their qabil because this isn’t something that we do fam maybe it’s just your family

This isn't about qabiil just about mentality of some people back home nobody gonna find it odd if the man isn't present when the wife gives birth which is weird to me

The way I see it a man should be present and give his wife emotional support

 

[Mercury]

Wtf I'm so confused looool

they thinking a husband shouldn't see his wife in that state if he sees the baby coming out its gonna make him traumatized

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

not only Somalis but a lot of cultures are also like that. Even whites used to not be with their wife when she is giving birth until whites lost their dignity and want to see everyone naked.


I want my husband to hold my hand but not see that....

 

[Manafesto]

I remember reading "when you are expecting" book with my wife on her first pregnancy and came across a part where it says during the baby pushing part in birth some women shit on themselves and lay Xaar on the delivery table, My dumbass should have tore that page from the book because it really got my EX-Wife stressed asf for whole week,kulahaa I need you to make me a diaper on bag so I don't have to embarras my self and lay Xaar all over the bed.

Back to topic, I don't like to be there during delivery, the pain females goes through and the whole birth is a scene I would rather skip.

 

[Chun Li]

they thinking a husband shouldn't see his wife in that state if he sees the baby coming out its gonna make him traumatized

If that’s how some men feel, they should at least wait in another hospital room or floor even, just in case something goes wrong. The baby might need an emergency surgery & the mother/wife might become unconscious.

What if that’s his wife’s last time of being on Earth & she passes away?? He’s going to feel really guilty after that & most likely be in a depressive state

 

[Revolutionary]

I wouldn't want to see that either, and a lot of women wouldn't want their husbands to see that (didn't say all don't misquote me) the only way I'd be there is if my wife requested it.

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