Somali girls struggling to get married these days

[Wervelwind]

I keep hearing about girls who are struggling to marry
Back in Somalia, men are like wolves and would go after every girl. Is this because of the west?

 

[giire12]

I keep hearing about girls who are struggling to marry
Back in Somalia, men are like wolves and would go after every girl. Is this because of the west?

It's because of feminist movement, somali men like to be the alpha not the sims

 

[mrlog]

I keep hearing about girls who are struggling to marry
Back in Somalia, men are like wolves and would go after every girl. Is this because of the west?

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[techsamatar]

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Kind of agree the standards and also social media ruined it for both genders everyone has high expectation and always looking at what someone else has.

 

[mrlog]

Kind of agree the standards and also social media ruined it for both genders everyone has high expectation and always looking at what someone else has.

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[Basra]

I keep hearing about girls who are struggling to marry
Back in Somalia, men are like wolves and would go after every girl. Is this because of the west?

 

[mohamedismail]

This is usually because the women are delaying marriage. They delay marriage to focus on their career or studies untill they reach their late 20s/early 30s and struggle to find a husband.

It doesn't make it any easier the fact that most Somali guys age shame and think a woman past the age of 25 is expired. So most past 25 will just marry an Ajnabi or stay single praying tahajjud in hopes they find someone.

 

[Basra]

How come Mexicans are very family oriented. Even President Nixon praised the Mexicans and he dissing black americans for not being a two parent family household system. I think it has somethijng to do with our "Africaness"

 

[Abu Hesi]

Bro, all of your posts are about marriage.

Ninyahow is qarxi hal mar.

 

[Wervelwind]

Bro, all of your posts are about marriage.

Ninyahow is qarxi hal mar.

Wallahi it's because despite the threads I make, I've never seen a farax (or xalimo) write down their own experience with marriage so I can see what it's like. I would probably chill out if I saw more posts like that

 

[Nin123]

I keep hearing about girls who are struggling to marry
Back in Somalia, men are like wolves and would go after every girl. Is this because of the west?

All this guy thread is about marriage lol nothing else.

 

[Ozymandias]

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War dhego weyna bahalka, sababtaas bu warka shaqo la'aantan u maqley, wax kasta by maqli kara ba' ayeey

 

[Ozymandias]

Bro, all of your posts are about marriage.

Ninyahow is qarxi hal mar.

Tyler was correct

 

[Abu Hesi]

Wallahi it's because despite the threads I make, I've never seen a farax (or xalimo) write down their own experience with marriage so I can see what it's like. I would probably chill out if I saw more posts like that

You are lucky then, what do you want to know.

 

[TekNiKo]

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The current setup of society today ins unsustainable, when the inevitable societal collapse occurs. None of feminism bullshit ideals will save them. I cant wait to see those who admonish and attack men get devoured

 

[Wervelwind]

You are lucky then, what do you want to know.

Mashallah. What was your life like before and after marriage? How much alone time do you have now vs the time you spend with your wife and how often does your wife get on your nerves? In short, how often does she get emotional and starts to nag you

 

[Macawisley]

This is usually because the women are delaying marriage. They delay marriage to focus on their career or studies untill they reach their late 20s/early 30s and struggle to find a husband.

It doesn't make it any easier the fact that most Somali guys age shame and think a woman past the age of 25 is expired. So most past 25 will just marry an Ajnabi or stay single praying tahajjud in hopes they find someone.

I’m in my early 20s & I wouldn’t mind marrying a woman 25,26 etc. As long as we understand each other sxb. There’s no age shaming.

 

[Sophisticate]

Women don't struggle to marry. The hard part is making decisions regarding the merit of a candidate. Imagine balancing whether someone is worthwhile and being able to tolerate them for a lifetime with limited information and a considerable amount of guesswork or blind faith. If your goal is to wing it merely, and you're cool with starter marriages, which lead to divorce and serial marriages, then it's not hard. It's a matter of just choosing for now. For the perfectionists and overthinkers with plenty of choices, it's mentally taxing, especially if you think of your first marriage being your only marriage and lasting a lifetime in the hopes that the individual has the same worldview and values as you and isn't merely parroting what you want to hear for the moment.

The type of credentials of my suitors have gone up in direct proportion to my own. So, the myth of a worse selection ought to be put to bed, along with the idea that women become desperate. They don't. The owner of Afro Deli proved that Islaan over 30 are still wanted as long as they look good. That extends to single women of the same age and attractiveness with less life experience.

 

[Ozymandias]

Women don't struggle to marry. The hard part is making decisions regarding the merit of a candidate. Imagine balancing whether someone is worthwhile and being able to tolerate them for a lifetime with limited information and a considerable amount of guesswork or blind faith. If your goal is to wing it merely, and you're cool with starter marriages, which lead to divorce and serial marriages, then it's not hard. It's a matter of just choosing for now. For the perfectionists and overthinkers with plenty of choice, it's mentally taxing.

The type of credentials of my suitors have gone up in direct proportion to my own. So, the myth of a worse selection ought to be put to bed, along with the idea that women become desperate. They don't. The owner of Afro Deli proved that Islaan over 30 are still wanted as long as they look good. That extends to single women of the same age and attractiveness with less life experience.

You're right some of us even find hoyooyin in their 40s- 50s attractive, gabdho might have a stepfather younger than them, is ilaaliya ya, wiilasha ixtiraam siiya aabe

 

[Abu Hesi]

Mashallah. What was your life like before and after marriage? How much alone time do you have now vs the time you spend with your wife and how often does your wife get on your nerves? In short, how often does she get emotional and starts to nag you

I like my alone time and I get it here and there. My wife is pretty chill, so no nagging alhamdulilah lol

Bro, there won't be a 'perfect' time to get married. If you got the right girl, some money saved up and you are alright in the psych department, get cuffed up.

I think you like my brother, who is invested in his sports and he thinks his wife will f*ck it up if he gets married.

There is gotta be sacrifice on both sides, otherwise meesha waa lagu kala tagayaa.