Social life?

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  1. SOULSEARCHING

    SOULSEARCHING

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    I realized I have no social life, I work 5 days a week and go University 2 days . I'm full on and I've been doing this since I left school.
    I have no friends either.

    I was wondering how good your social life is?
     
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  2. Libaaxseendheer

    Libaaxseendheer PIM Guul ama geeri

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    I dont have a non-internet social life and neither do most gen z/millenials. We go to work/school and spend the rest of ourtime on the internet/videogames. Before finding sspot i would go weeks even a month not talking to a single person( video game convos not included). To be honest, i liked it.
     
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  3. maestro

    maestro Cultural reformist

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    Basically non existent.
     
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  4. Samaalic Era

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    :mjcry:You guys seem very sociable. I refuse to believe this
     
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  5. SOULSEARCHING

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    There was a time I wasn't leaving the house, I didn't know what i was doing to myself I was bad and I was close to becoming agrophobic
     
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  6. Diaspora ambassador

    Diaspora ambassador Representative of Qandala

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    Wow ya'll ain't got friends? I got social anxiety issues and i still have friends. Find a hobby that you like. And join a club i guess.

    Not talking to a person for a long period is u healthy. Humans need social interactions
     
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  7. SOULSEARCHING

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    They all married now, or have boyfriend's. So I just keep to myself lol and yeah it's depressing now I think of it lol
     
  8. Samaalic Era

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    That's sounds very bad. Read some Qur'an and try to interact with family and other relatives. Invite some cousins over
     
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  9. Diaspora ambassador

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    Find some online friends who you can talk to at times.
     
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  10. riyaale

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    bad idea
     
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  11. World

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    Alhamdulilah i was not born in your generation

    People who are under 21 usually have many friends (20-30).
     
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  12. SOULSEARCHING

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    I'm 21 turning 22 next week.
     
  13. World

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    Older people like you tend to be loners without friends.

    Do you not have social media?
     
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  14. Halimo-2018

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    Not so good either but i like it that way. I have small circle of friends i hang out with once jn a bue moon even they get on my nerve in the end so i need to retreat from them too lol i do love them though and they know it. Social life constantly changes
     
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  15. SOULSEARCHING

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    I have fb and it's dead .
     
  16. Reer-Bari

    Reer-Bari COMMANDER OF THE PUNTLAND DEFENCE TEAM

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    I play basketball every weekend and I go out every night after work to talk politics and chill. Mind you I’m still in my twenties.
     
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  17. Diaspora ambassador

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    Nah if you get to know people it will be an easy convo. You could literally app each other and fill up the social gap that way. (This is a rare scenario one has to try make friends in his/her community first).
     
  18. Waaqo of Punt

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    I've been going gym for about 2 years now. My friend made me join, he's now my gym buddy/rival and we started around the same time. Try working out or find a hobby. Go to events.

    My friend circle is small too but thank God they call me to get out and they're fun, never bored.

    Start helping the situation :)
     
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  19. Samaalic Era

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    How did you get a qashin rating for this comment:chrisfreshhah:
     
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  20. Lostbox

    Lostbox 「Immortal Sage」

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    Don't worry, it's the new norm. So many people locking themselves on their house these days.

    Plus, it all about being proactive. When I was in my room all day playing videos games, watching on stuff streaming and reading books. That time my social life was a it's lowest and my social skills got worse, I got more awkward and the worst part was a my anxiety shot through the roof.

    Later, I just went out. Like going shopping, coffee shop, walking around the park and so on. Then I joined a gym. I become a regular at the gym and met a few people there. Starting joining clubs near me and events, charities and met more people and progress from there. Now, I just get invited to a tons of stuff and have a group of guys that I hangout daily. Be go active it's really that easy.
     
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