Should I be angry?

[Gibiin-Udug]

I overheard my friend's younger brother talking about me. I was minding my own business as per usual (No I wasn't, tbh, let me stop). My friend and her younger brother met up with me, we were having lunch, my friend and I were catching up, and he got a phone call and walked over the table next to us and talked on the phone, I heard him say, yeah she's cool, she got married recently, nah man she's my sister's friend, and then he said she's buuq and balayo fam. Don't let her appearance fool you.


Wtf does that mean?

I was tempted to throw my chai latte on his face.


How the hell am I buuq iyo balayo. I'm maskiin.

 

[Snake]

Should've gave him the punch right there and then

 

[Guts]

I overheard my friend's younger brother talking about me. I was minding my own business as per usual (No I wasn't, tbh, let me stop). My friend and her younger brother met up with me, we were having lunch, my friend and I were catching up, and he got a phone call and walked over the table next to us and talked on the phone, I heard him say, yeah she's cool, she got married recently, nah man she's my sister's friend, and then he said she's buuq and balayo fam. Don't let her appearance fool you.


Wtf does that mean?

I was tempted to throw my chai latte on his face.


How the hell am I buuq iyo balayo. I'm maskiin.

Why would you care? I thought you said you were married, even if you are buuq and balayo there is a nigga that's married to you and he is into that shit

 

[Naissur]

You want to cheat. Be honest.

 

[Gooney112]

If i was you i would use this as time to reflect. If he described you as balaayo iyo buuq it means you are a drama queen and pain in the butt. I doubt its something he came up with and thats how most people probably see you. I think the reason it touched a nerve is you probably know a lot of people see you that way. But its also a common theme when it comes to mj women....they are buuq

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

If i was you i would use this as time to reflect. If he described you as balaayo iyo buuq it means you are a drama queen and pain in the butt. I doubt its something he came up with and thats how most people probably see you. I think the reason it touched a nerve is you probably know a lot of people see you that way. But its also a common theme when it comes to mj women....they are buuq

First of all, just because I'm an independent, educated, good hearted, strong willed, charitable Somali queen doesn't make me a balayo. Somali men make up names whenever they're threatened by a Somali queen.

I don't care how people see me,I care about how I see myself.

I'm a phenomal woman.

***fixes her crown***

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Why would you care? I thought you said you were married, even if you are buuq and balayo there is a nigga that's married to you and he is into that shit

I don't care tbh.

 

[Steamdevolopment]

I don't care tbh.

Dedicating a whole post to showing much you do not care.

 

[Gooney112]

First of all, just because I'm an independent, educated, good hearted, strong willed, charitable Somali queen doesn't make me a balayo. Somali men make up names whenever they're threatened by a Somali queen.

I don't care how people see me,I care about how I see myself.

I'm a phenomal woman.

***fixes her crown***

You do care and its not the first time you heard it somali men hasnt invented that. I hear my mum always call her neighbour balaayo. If he added balaayo and buuq....you must be on some next level drama

 

[VixR]

Your friend’s brothers’ friends are rating you. You can always tell and it’s always awkward. Sounds like the caller said you’re hot, and the guy said nah man she’s married and drama don’t let looks fool you.

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Your friend’s brothers’ friends are rating you. You can always tell and it’s always awkward. Sounds like the caller said you’re hot, and the guy said nah man she’s married and drama don’t let looks fool you.

Bingo!

@Reiko with another lowkey brag thread. I see you

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Dedicating a whole post to showing much you do not care.

I didn't dedicate a whole thread, I simply asked a question.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Bingo!

@Reiko with another lowkey brag thread. I see you

Wallahi I wasn't. I was highly irritated.

Your friend’s brothers’ friends are rating you. You can always tell and it’s always awkward. Sounds like the caller said you’re hot, and the guy said nah man she’s married and drama don’t let looks fool you.

Really? Interesting.

 

[FendiFanatic]

Your friends brothers friend tryna smash and your friends brother bailed you out by saying you weren’t worth the hassle. You should be thanking him

 

[Cumar]

I overheard my friend's younger brother talking about me. I was minding my own business as per usual (No I wasn't, tbh, let me stop). My friend and her younger brother met up with me, we were having lunch, my friend and I were catching up, and he got a phone call and walked over the table next to us and talked on the phone, I heard him say, yeah she's cool, she got married recently, nah man she's my sister's friend, and then he said she's buuq and balayo fam. Don't let her appearance fool you.


Wtf does that mean?

I was tempted to throw my chai latte on his face.


How the hell am I buuq iyo balayo. I'm maskiin.

Like others already said, the other dude was interested in you.

Your friends brother was looking out, told other dude you're taken.

 

[VixR]

Bingo!

@Reiko with another lowkey brag thread. I see you

Bragging is halal and good for the soul fam.

 

[jamal9]

OP, smoke some mj, u will be fine. no need to get angry old lady.

 

[Gooney112]

Like others already said, the other dude was interested in you.

Your friends brother was looking out, told other dude you're taken.

Maybe he shouldnt said that and thats why she is annoyed. Even married people get tempted and want change of scenery every now and then

 

[government]

I overheard my friend's younger brother talking about me. I was minding my own business as per usual (No I wasn't, tbh, let me stop). My friend and her younger brother met up with me, we were having lunch, my friend and I were catching up, and he got a phone call and walked over the table next to us and talked on the phone, I heard him say, yeah she's cool, she got married recently, nah man she's my sister's friend, and then he said she's buuq and balayo fam. Don't let her appearance fool you.


Wtf does that mean?

I was tempted to throw my chai latte on his face.


How the hell am I buuq iyo balayo. I'm maskiin.

I think you already have the answer to your question