She is.....

[Waa-Aniga]

30 but could be older. How do i tell am not interested?

 

[Taij4an]

30 but could be older. How do i tell am not interested?

More information please

 

[Peache]

30 but could be older. How do i tell am not interested?

Are you yourself in your thirties ?
Or are you younger than her?

 

[Badboy4life]

"You're too old"

 

[Sophisticate]

Generally, well-adjusted older women don't like younger men since they have less money. It's not common for an older woman to bother with a financial shortfall. I mean age gap with someone she'd consider a little brother. You'll just end up being hooyoed. Tell her you already have a mom and don't need another.

 

[Omar del Sur]

just say something vague that has nothing to do with her age. "I'm just not sure if I'm ready yet"

 

[Omar del Sur]

ooh: "I just don't think right now is the right time... I need to work on myself"

 

[World]

30 but could be older. How do i tell am not interested?

“I don’t go for women older than 23”

 

[Waa-Aniga]

Are you yourself in your thirties ?
Or are you younger than her?

I am but only just and I don't look like typical early 30 dude. Which is why it is a mismatch I look younger well into mid or early 20s. Girls don't delay marriage because the pool of available never married before men similar to your age in 30s who would wanna marry you is very small I would say. Do not act all tough in your twenties when approached for marriage. Anyway I have to break it to her that am not interested am better of single. Lol

 

[Waa-Aniga]

“I don’t go for women older than 23”

My cut off is 29 at max but open to 30 and above if am 45+

 

[Peache]

I am but only just and I don't look like typical early 30 dude. Which is why it is a mismatch I look younger well into mid or early 20s. Girls don't delay marriage because the pool of available never married before men similar to your age in 30s who would wanna marry you is very small I would say. Do not act all tough in your twenties when approached for marriage. Anyway I have to break it to her that am not interested am better of single. Lol

So your in your thirties and a similar age range to her? But like most men, I’m assuming that’s too old for you ? And you want a girl in her twenties? Which your allowed to do, but your thread came off as if you were this younger guy being approached by this older women, and it turns out your in your thirties as well lol.

 

[Peache]

My cut off is 29 at max but open to 30 and above if am 45+

@Zaamzaam, abaayo macaan, please back me on this.

Sir, I can promise you this… most women in their early thirties ain’t checking out a 45 plus years old man. The women I knew who did that, Wallahi admitted to me that they wished they got with a man in his late thirties at least, and how the man had no “energy” for them if you get what I mean.
They also admitted that they only got with them cause of the finical aspect and that’s it. There was no attraction physical or mental. They ALL told me this.

When I turn 30, no way would I be checking out a 45 plus year old man. They unnatractive to me now in my mid twenties and that won’t change when I’m 30.
I already take care of myslef and would want a fit 30 something when I’m that age inshaAllah.
Most if not every 45 plus year old man I’ve seen don’t take care of themselves.
So word of advice, if you gonna try to get a woman in her early thirties and your 45 plus…

Please work out and maintain yourself. You already view a woman in her early thirties as old but when your reaching 50, she’ll be appearing much younger to you sir.

 

[Waa-Aniga]

@Zaamzaam, abaayo macaan, please back me on this.

Sir, I can promise you this… most women in their early thirties ain’t checking out a 45 plus years old man. The women I knew who did that, Wallahi admitted to me that they wished they got with a man in his late thirties at least, and how the man had no “energy” for them if you get what I mean.
They also admitted that they only got with them cause of the finical aspect and that’s it. There was no attraction physical or mental. They ALL told me this.

When I turn 30, no way would I be checking out a 45 plus year old man. They unnatractive to me now in my mid twenties and that won’t change when I’m 30.
I already take care of myslef and would want a fit 30 something when I’m that age inshaAllah.
Most if not every 45 plus year old man I’ve seen don’t take care of themselves.
So word of advice, if you gonna try to get a woman in her early thirties and your 45 plus…

Please work out and maintain yourself. You already view a woman in her early thirties as old but when your reaching 50, she’ll be appearing much younger to you sir.

So i can't have an age preference? Smh never said I want a teen or 21 year old.

 

[Badboy4life]

So i can't have an age preference? Smh never said I want a teen or 21 year old.

I just came up with a better solution for you, tell her that you want to marry multiple wives. If she says no, your problem is solved, and if she says yes then you can always get someone younger later on.

 

[Waa-Aniga]

@Zaamzaam, abaayo macaan, please back me on this.

Sir, I can promise you this… most women in their early thirties ain’t checking out a 45 plus years old man. The women I knew who did that, Wallahi admitted to me that they wished they got with a man in his late thirties at least, and how the man had no “energy” for them if you get what I mean.
They also admitted that they only got with them cause of the finical aspect and that’s it. There was no attraction physical or mental. They ALL told me this.

When I turn 30, no way would I be checking out a 45 plus year old man. They unnatractive to me now in my mid twenties and that won’t change when I’m 30.
I already take care of myslef and would want a fit 30 something when I’m that age inshaAllah.
Most if not every 45 plus year old man I’ve seen don’t take care of themselves.
So word of advice, if you gonna try to get a woman in her early thirties and your 45 plus…

Please work out and maintain yourself. You already view a woman in her early thirties as old but when your reaching 50, she’ll be appearing much younger to you sir.

Also even though we are in the same age bracket I look 5 to 8 years younger in appearance. To top up that I don't even know if that's her true age given most people who are born early 90s don't have birth records in Somalia therefore she could well into be midthirties it's that unknown factor particularly if you weren't born in the western world where birth records are kept or you don't know her family so you can really ascertain if she is your age or older that paranoia kicks in. We all know most women aren't upfront about their age especially when it comes to dating purposes so it's like a tricky thing.

 

[Izzy77]

Is she atleast attractive or a person with good character

Idk how a person same age as you is a turn off unless she has a child or isnt good looking

 

[Ladylike]

My little brother married a girl who was 30 he was 23. 30 is not old. I would understand if you were in your teens maybe not when you’re well into your 20s It’s all about self confidence and what you want in a person. You seem immature to be dating at all unless you’re dating for the sake of it which is waste of time if yours anyway. You marry a pericn not the age of course within reason like you want to have children I understand if she is way over the child bearing age but 30 is young she can even still have kids in her 40s of Allah wills. If I was you I would work on me first before dating while insecure.

 

[3LetterzMM]

Tell her kick rocks and dats it lol how many times mandem holla at girls and they move onna rude tip for no reason why we gotta be polite