sad reality of the world. marriage / fetishes. etc

[aduunka220]

one sister i met complained that shes scared to get married because in her surroundings in college for example she says alot of people man or woman are have fetish or addiction.

heart breaking part is she told me will she get cursed by angels if she refuses to sleep with her husband that want to engage in those perverted fetishes and acts .


please brothers and sisters please listen. hug islam tight and dont let it go and become more practicing learn more about islam everyday. if your dealing with those corrupted desires plz do everything you can to cure it and control it and conquer it. do brain reboot (nofap noporn for 90 days) for example . its in the brain and the more you leave masturbation to and fetishes the less active those brain receptors get and eventually cease to exist inshaAllah.

plz throw away your phone and computer away for the sake of Allah swt if you have masturbation or addiction

 

[jemappelle]

heart breaking part is she told me will she get cursed by angels if she refuses to sleep with her husband that want to engage in those perverted fetishes and acts .

She defintely will not get cursed for that

 

[aduunka220]

She defintely will not get cursed for that

iknow . the point is modern way of living is both curse and a blessing. forexample electronics they are useful but can also be used for evil . to corrupt onself and his natural desires. by watching something he or she should not have watched.

 

[jemappelle]

iknow . the point is modern way of living is both curse and a blessing. forexample electronics they are useful but can also be used for evil . to corrupt onself and his natural desires.

Yes high risk high reward.

 

[NordicSomali]

Does she think that marriage is an oppressive regime? If the guy truly respects you then he won’t force on anything.

 

[aduunka220]

Does she think that marriage is an oppressive regime? If the guy truly respects you then he won’t force on anything.

no not at but some ppl force fetishes on to others and she scared

 

[Danakiil]

If she scarred don't got married simple as that. Nobody wants to deal with a partner with anxiety over sex of all things

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

If she scarred don't got married simple as that. Nobody wants to deal with a partner with anxiety over sex of all things

You have a narrow minded way of thinking. Maybe she wants companionship and children but does not want to end up with a bad man. That is a completely rational fear.

 

[Danakiil]

You have a narrow minded way of thinking. Maybe she wants companionship and children but does not want to end up with a bad man. That is a completely rational fear.

She can adopt & if she really wants companionship she can grow tf up. Most people aren't into weird kinks hell 56% of college aged men haven't even gotten laid yet in their lives.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

She can adopt & if she really wants companionship she can grow tf up. Most people aren't into weird kinks hell 56% of college aged men haven't even gotten laid yet in their lives.

your head is hollow

 

[NordicSomali]

no not at but some ppl force fetishes on to others and she scared

It’s a weird thing to be concerned about, sex is part of marriage

You have a narrow minded way of thinking. Maybe she wants companionship and children but does not want to end up with a bad man. That is a completely rational fear.

whats a bad man? What exactly is she afraid of?

 

[Danakiil]

It’s a weird thing to be concerned about, sex is part of marriage

whats a bad man? What exactly is she afraid of?

She's probably a closeted khaniis trying to cap her way out of why she's scared of marriage

 

[Basra]

one sister i met complained that shes scared to get married because in her surroundings in college for example she says alot of people man or woman are have fetish or addiction.

heart breaking part is she told me will she get cursed by angels if she refuses to sleep with her husband that want to engage in those perverted fetishes and acts .


please brothers and sisters please listen. hug islam tight and dont let it go and become more practicing learn more about islam everyday. if your dealing with those corrupted desires plz do everything you can to cure it and control it and conquer it. do brain reboot (nofap noporn for 90 days) for example . its in the brain and the more you leave masturbation to and fetishes the less active those brain receptors get and eventually cease to exist inshaAllah.

plz throw away your phone and computer away for the sake of Allah swt if you have masturbation or addiction

Jazak-allaah for advice huuno. Why do u have a crow in your photo profile tho?

 

[aduunka220]

Jazak-allaah for advice huuno. Why do u have a crow in your photo profile tho?

its a somali crow

 

[Kalsoon]

one sister i met complained that shes scared to get married because in her surroundings in college for example she says alot of people man or woman are have fetish or addiction.

heart breaking part is she told me will she get cursed by angels if she refuses to sleep with her husband that want to engage in those perverted fetishes and acts .


please brothers and sisters please listen. hug islam tight and dont let it go and become more practicing learn more about islam everyday. if your dealing with those corrupted desires plz do everything you can to cure it and control it and conquer it. do brain reboot (nofap noporn for 90 days) for example . its in the brain and the more you leave masturbation to and fetishes the less active those brain receptors get and eventually cease to exist inshaAllah.

plz throw away your phone and computer away for the sake of Allah swt if you have masturbation or addiction

I like your message at the end.

Some puzzling things about this story though. How would someone even know those intimate details about others attending the school? And why would she complain to you specifically about that?

She is already assuming she will end up in that negative situation. Why? The best solution is for her to have total reliance, trust in Allah and utilize Dua. She can only control so much.

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

Most shouldn't get married anyway. There's so many broken people out there that will spawn more broken families.

Most men only like vanilla sex and may have a simple fetish like feet. As @Danakiil said, lots of virgin young men exist, and they would be too awkward to do that stuff if given the chance if they even wanted to (which they don't).

 

[_Yusuf_]

one sister i met complained that shes scared to get married because in her surroundings in college for example she says alot of people man or woman are have fetish or addiction.

heart breaking part is she told me will she get cursed by angels if she refuses to sleep with her husband that want to engage in those perverted fetishes and acts .


please brothers and sisters please listen. hug islam tight and dont let it go and become more practicing learn more about islam everyday. if your dealing with those corrupted desires plz do everything you can to cure it and control it and conquer it. do brain reboot (nofap noporn for 90 days) for example . its in the brain and the more you leave masturbation to and fetishes the less active those brain receptors get and eventually cease to exist inshaAllah.

plz throw away your phone and computer away for the sake of Allah swt if you have masturbation or addiction

Is backshots haram?

 

[jemappelle]

Is backshots haram?

anal?

 

[_Yusuf_]

anal?

No like hitting the siil from the back type thing.

 

[jemappelle]

No like hitting the siil from the back type thing.

Good I thought u didn't know what hittiing it from the back meant for a second
Yh that is completely halal. There is even a story about this in the hadith and a Quran verse on this but I don't want to bore you