REtraumatization of somali male masculinity in the age of digitized qawmuluut

[HoodHawiye]

It is no secret to those who know that the masculinity of our males, our somali males, is in a psychosexual crisis. Their longing for the other in many cases has turned its gaze to the mirror and they have emaciated and emasculated themselves in order to become xalimo (see here: https://www.somalispot.com/threads/a-new-transgender-halimo-is-causing-outrage.140039/ )If this is going on with the noble isaaqs then i shudder to think what is going down with, for instance and for example the surre.
we cannot however, and we must not, respond casually or respond laxidasically to this threat. For example the rash response is to adopt 'thug' culture. This is shameful and makes us a curse not a blessing to those around us. (see here the shame it brings us to : )
we as somalis need to embrace HOOD culture wherever we are. HOOD culture is the culture of your HOOD. It is not homogenized or globalized. it is a rededication to investment in the lives of the people around us, in the lives of OUR people, and OUR HOOD. We need to reclaim our masculinity by guiding our xalimos away from foolish tery and by providing them with means and sustenance. we need to be seeking out new hustles in OUR HOOD so that we can build our empires and thrive.

 

[Somalib]

It is no secret to those who know that the masculinity of our males, our somali males, is in a psychosexual crisis. Their longing for the other in many cases has turned its gaze to the mirror and they have emaciated and emasculated themselves in order to become xalimo (see here: https://www.somalispot.com/threads/a-new-transgender-halimo-is-causing-outrage.140039/ )If this is going on with the noble isaaqs then i shudder to think what is going down with, for instance and for example the surre.
we cannot however, and we must not, respond casually or respond laxidasically to this threat. For example the rash response is to adopt 'thug' culture. This is shameful and makes us a curse not a blessing to those around us. (see here the shame it brings us to : )
we as somalis need to embrace HOOD culture wherever we are. HOOD culture is the culture of your HOOD. It is not homogenized or globalized. it is a rededication to investment in the lives of the people around us, in the lives of OUR people, and OUR HOOD. We need to reclaim our masculinity by guiding our xalimos away from foolish tery and by providing them with means and sustenance. we need to be seeking out new hustles in OUR HOOD so that we can build our empires and thrive.

No, Somalis should be separate from the disgusting hood culture. It’s BS like that which keeps African Americans people down, let’s not be like those morons. We should encourage the youth to get education, have good jobs and help back in our country.

 

[HoodHawiye]

No, Somalis should be separate from the disgusting hood culture. It’s BS like that which keeps African Americans people down, let’s not be like those morons. We should encourage the youth to get education, have good jobs and help back in our country.

you didn't read what i said. HOOD just means your local NEIGHBORHOOD. not 'hood' as in 'thug' which i specifically said is bad.

 

[Nikka]

gangs have become the new qabil for qurbojoog

 

[HoodHawiye]

gangs have become the new qabil for qurbojoog

You are correct and it's sad to see. if we reinvest ourselves in our communities, gangs will naturally lose their power because the people will be organized around the deen to resist their nefarious tactics

 

[Siddhartha]

Lay down the pipe homie

 

[HoodHawiye]

Lay down the pipe homie

I don't touch the stuff frankly

 

[Nikka]

Unfortunately walaal gangsters can't be reasoned with. They won't stop until they are hospitalized or put in jail. Just focus on your self and your future family.

 

[HoodHawiye]

Unfortunately walaal gangsters can't be reasoned with. They won't stop until they are hospitalized or put in jail. Just focus on your self and your future family.

can't give up on the people

 

[El Nino]

Just verbal diarrhea

 

[Basra]

It is no secret to those who know that the masculinity of our males, our somali males, is in a psychosexual crisis. Their longing for the other in many cases has turned its gaze to the mirror and they have emaciated and emasculated themselves in order to become xalimo (see here: https://www.somalispot.com/threads/a-new-transgender-halimo-is-causing-outrage.140039/ )If this is going on with the noble isaaqs then i shudder to think what is going down with, for instance and for example the surre.
we cannot however, and we must not, respond casually or respond laxidasically to this threat. For example the rash response is to adopt 'thug' culture. This is shameful and makes us a curse not a blessing to those around us. (see here the shame it brings us to : )
we as somalis need to embrace HOOD culture wherever we are. HOOD culture is the culture of your HOOD. It is not homogenized or globalized. it is a rededication to investment in the lives of the people around us, in the lives of OUR people, and OUR HOOD. We need to reclaim our masculinity by guiding our xalimos away from foolish tery and by providing them with means and sustenance. we need to be seeking out new hustles in OUR HOOD so that we can build our empires and thrive.

I reject your Advice. Who is more "Hood" than African Americans? And the rate of homosexuality in them is astronomical. Due to single mother house hold just like Somalis. Perhaps the better advice is - ALL Farahs must wed and control xalimo before breeding.

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

It's the opposite of qawmuluut but rather hypermasculinity, which will be the downfall or even the destruction of more than half of those boys before 30. It makes me very sad to be honest.

 

[Basra]

It's the opposite of qawmuluut but rather hypermasculinity, which will be the downfall or even the destruction of more than half of those boys before 30. It makes me very sad to be honest.

If only u were a farah

 

[Jamia8790]

Not all of grew up in the hood.