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Relationship advice?

There’s this guy that I’ve been seeing for awhile and I want to get some perspective about our relationship. Please keep it respectful since I am being sincere.

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I really like him and I don’t want to end it over this. If anything I want us to have the vibe that we had before where he seemed genuine. Do you think it’s something I can talk to him about? Can I fix this or is he going to eventually play me?
I guarantee you that he will leave as soon as he gets what he wants. Like a shark in bloody waters the prospects of deflowering a virgin only made his motives be much more clear, he probably thinks you are naive due to your inexperience and therefore needs to hit and dash.
as a fellow dude, leave this man. if he wants to smash not only is it zina, is shows what little deen this man has. respect yourself and go for a better man
Leave him and God will reward you with someone better, who will respect your boundaries. The best of men is one who is afraid to touch you, that shows he respects you and his deen.


Medical specialist in diagnosing Majeerteentitis
This is completely normal. Dating a virgin is like unwrapping a gift. You want to feel the box, shake it a bit to guess what it is, and slowly unwrap surface of the gift. Gently layer for layer until the shape is niticeable. We thank God for this indescribable gift known as virgins.

He's testing whether you are truly a virgin. Seems like you passed his tests. Besides it's normal to see how far he can go with you. If you truly don't want to be kissed or touched by him, don't go on a date with him. It's like getting into water without wanting to get wet. Besides expedite your meher, if you think he's the one. Don't delay marriage and be surprised why he wants some physical activity.