Question for the faraaxs: how do you feel about this saying?

[Danakiil]

Inshallah, when I make up my mind and start looking, I will make ummah. I'll make dua to go to jannah, better my deen, protect my family (parents, siblings....etc) and pray for a happy life long marriage with a rich somali man w/ good deen

Yk if you briden your horizons (shishiyes) you'll have a much larger likelihood of courting a rich man to exploit. Just some food for thought.

 

[Yaraye]

Yk if you briden your horizons (shishiyes) you'll have a much larger likelihood of courting a rich man to exploit.

wanna give me tips?

 

[Danakiil]

wanna give me tips?

LinkedIn rizz

 

[Abdisamad]

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[Yaraye]

Emotional manipulation weyeey

no it not! what's wrong with loving and coaxing my husband?

 

[Yaraye]

LinkedIn rizz

time for me to make one!

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

Inshallah, when I make up my mind and start looking, I will make ummah. I'll make dua to go to jannah, better my deen, protect my family (parents, siblings....etc) and pray for a happy life long marriage with a rich somali man w/ good deen

U actually managed to put rich man in the last part of your sentence now that's progress

 

[AbdiFreedom]

How normal people get married:

- At school, randomly assigned partners for a project.

- Develop liking for each over the month. Date for 2 years. Would take a bullet for each other. Complete each other's sentences.

- Get married and have kids and die old. They are buried next to each other 60 years later.

How Somalis get married:

- Ignore each other until hooyo starts harassing them to find a spouse when they are in their late 20s.

- Get hooyo/friend to get a match for them or join an app to find a guy.

- It feels like a job interview on the first date. Neither or one is not really interested. "Will you be a traditional wife?" and "My money is my money and your money is my money"

- Wedding is demanded within 1-2 months without them knowing each others values and principles and have nothing in common.

- Lady is happy to be married so she can flex and the guy is happy to have sex. Honeymoon period is like ecstasy.

- Chaos after a few weeks and months occurs. She doesn't cook and he doesn't like being around. It may extend for a year or two year. One or both are crazy. They of course don't love each other and they get divorced, probably with a kid or two.

- Lady demands her money he never paid and the guy agrees to a payment plan but reneges.

- Broken household. Repeat cycle for their children as they don't know what a stable household looks like.

 

[Yaraye]

U actually managed to put rich man in the last part of your sentence now that's progress

Allah is who I ask everything for. He is the most reliable to me So far wallahi, all my duas about school has been answered!

 

[empressjamila]

I’m at a second plat thread in one week!!! Let’s goooo

 

[Yaraye]

I’m at a second plat thread in one week!!! Let’s goooo
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[JackieBurkhart]

This is true, it's the role of a man to provide. I don't see the problem. The men of today are too soft if their feelings are hurt by this saying. This is what happens when you let men express their emotions, they start acting like this. It's unnatural.

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

Allah is who I ask everything for. He is the most reliable to me So far wallahi, all my duas about school has been answered!

That's what comes with tawakkulbut don't forget u might be tested with a man with pockets on E there's nothing called easy on this dunya

 

[Yaraye]

That's what comes with tawakkulbut don't forget u might be tested with a man with pockets on E there's nothing called easy on this dunya

You're right. All I can do is make dua, and do my best with what allah decides for me

 

[Odious Delirium]

This is true, it's the role of a man to provide. I don't see the problem. The men of today are too soft if their feelings are hurt by this saying. This is what happens when you let men express their emotions, they start acting like this. It's unnatural.

If a man feels a type of way about providing then that's a red flag simply avoid them

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

You're right. All I can do is make dua, and do my best with what allah decides for me

haahay wa sida

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

I’m currently talking to someone, inshallah things go well. One of the things I find most attractive of her is that she has sharaaf, and you can see it with how she talk to the people around her.
No man or woman wants somebody who talks and moves like begging brute

 

[Odious Delirium]

I’m currently talking to someone, inshallah things go well. One of the things I find most attractive of her is that she has sharaaf, and you can see it with how she talk to the people around her.
No man or woman wants somebody who talks and moves like begging brute

Inshallah that goes well for you brother

 

[Odious Delirium]

You were supposed to take the bait. You're too calm.

I already stated my stance already on this thread you would have know my position and take if you read it.

 

[Yaraye]

I’m currently talking to someone, inshallah things go well. One of the things I find most attractive of her is that she has sharaaf, and you can see it with how she talk to the people around her.
No man or woman wants somebody who talks and moves like begging brute

people don't act irl the same way they act on here