Pick n Choosing Islam (Modern Muslims)

[Amazonian]

I'm dating a girl named Amina, I was bored last night and decided to give her a call. Something I normally dont do. She was surprised, but I think I should've never made that call. Heres why

I may not be a good Muslim myself, I have my flaws and that I can admit, but I do know one thing. The word of Allah cannot be changed. You dont have to like the rules, you just have to obey them. Amina and I have been dating for a good six months. Our relationship Is great, we hardly argue, and we make time for one another depending on our schedules. Everything is solid and theres a great mutual understanding between us. Long story short, I wont write up an essay, therefore let me summarize the important topics in our conversation.

She doesnt believe in Hell. (Hell to her is a place people are living in poverty, paradise is a place everyone is wealthy and owns a swimming pool)
She doesn't believe we have two angels on our shoulders writing our every word.

She doesnt believe in Munkar and Nakīr
(She insinuates we wont be ASKED those famous three questions we've all learned in dugsi.)

She doesnt believe we'll be brought back to life in our own graves and will be able to hear the footsteps of people walking away after they've just finished praying Janazah
(HER:Theres no way someone can stay alive in their grave until the day of judgement)

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[486th President]

Then why the f*ck is she Muslim you can’t be Muslim and ignore what Allah has said the f*ck she is dumbfounded leave her if she doesn’t have that WAP she is a disgrace to her tribe oof disgusting creature what a pagan a fetus minded idiot

 

[Hassan2000]

She probably has a background of innovation like Sufism. Give her dawah sxb

 

[Amazonian]

Then why the f*ck is she Muslim you can’t be Muslim and ignore what Allah has said the f*ck she is dumbfounded leave her if she doesn’t have that WAP she is a disgrace to her tribe oof disgusting creature what a pagan a fetus minded idiot

I told her she cant pick and choose the religion. She said I wasn't a good Muslim myself. I told her, I may be flawed, but I believe in every word from the Lord.

 

[Amazonian]

She probably has a background of innovation like Sufism. Give her dawah sxb

No bro she hates Sufis

 

[486th President]

She doesnt believe we'll be brought back to life in our own graves and will be able to hear the footsteps of people walking away after they've just finished praying Janazah
(HER:Theres no way someone can stay alive in their grave until the day of judgement)

We’re not alive but the Omnipotent the supreme being will revive us on Judgement Day

 

[Villainess]

those people are the most annoying but at least they are just ignorant and not as bad as *cough* some people here. But if she doesn't belive in qiyama and the angels... that is 2/7 of what makes you a Muslim

 

[486th President]

those people are the most annoying but at least they are just ignorant and not as bad as *cough* some people here. But if she doesn't belive in qiyama and the angels... that is 2/7 of what makes you a Muslim

She doesn’t even believe in the after life or that we will be questioned by the two angels

 

[Karim]

I don't call such person Muslim. She's utterly misguided and badly need a teacher. How is she a Muslim if she rejects such basic beliefs of our religion?!!

 

[Amazonian]

those people are the most annoying but at least they are just ignorant and not as bad as *cough* some people here. But if she doesn't belive in qiyama and the angels... that is 2/7 of what makes you a Muslim

Not only that, but I think we literally spoke about hellfire for a good 15mins, I told her people down there are immortal and will burn alive over and over again. But to her God is the all merciful and doesnt believe in burning flesh lol

 

[Villainess]

Not only that, but I think we literally spoke about hellfire for a good 15mins, I told her people down there are immortal and will burn alive over and over again. But to her God is the all merciful and doesnt believe in burning flesh lol

Loool sounds like Judaism is for her, they have no Hell.

 

[Amazonian]

She doesn’t even believe in the after life or that we will be questioned by the two angels

Doesnt believe people will burn in hell
Doesnt believe Munkar and Nakīr will show up to her grave.

 

[Villainess]

Doesnt believe people will burn in hell
Doesnt believe Munkar and Nakīr will show up to her grave.

she sounds ignorant

 

[Amazonian]

I don't call such person Muslim. She's utterly misguided and badly need a teacher. How is she a Muslim if she rejects such basic beliefs of our religion?!!

I agree.
She told me one reason she doesnt believe in hell is because she came across a lot of documentaries about folks having near death experiences and mentions how their stories have opened up her mind. She said people who weren't even Muslim were able to hear Gods voice and could feel a swift breeze emulating from paradise as they laid half dead on their hospital beds. When I asked for more details, I was surprised she didnt know how powerful the sheydhaan was here on Earth. I told her that was satan doing his job, he'll open a gate for you where all you see is Nirvana but in actuality, you would be stepping through and entering Jahanaba

 

[Amazonian]

she sounds ignorant

Shes a really smart woman I believe shes misinformed that's all smh

 

[Karim]

Shes a really smart woman I believe shes misinformed that's all smh

What happened to the Oromo chick?n

 

[Amazonian]

What happened to the Oromo chick?n

Ekrama
Shes turning out to be the best assimilated Halimo in town

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[Sloane Ranger]

@Amazonian ahhh how the tides have turned. You went from writing a manuscript on how to be player to having a crisis. Any day now you will end as an incel.

#Karma

 

[Amazonian]

@Amazonian ahhh how the tides have turned. You went from writing a manuscript on how to be player to having a crisis. Any day now you will end as an incel.

#Karma

I did say these relationships weren't gonna last very long and that has alot to do with me not pursuing anything in the long run. Amina just expressed her opinions, but I posted our conversation because I'm already planning my next moves. What do you think I should do?

 

[Sloane Ranger]

I did say these relationships weren't gonna last very long and that has alot to do with me not pursuing anything in the long run. Amina just expressed her opinions, but I posted our conversation because I'm already planning my next moves. What do you think I should do?

Lol you cracked me up when you said you called her which is something you don't normally do. Does that mean she only calls you or do you guys only text?

Anyways my 2 cents is to for you to have a serious talk with her on the deen and try to guide her. Given what she knows about you she most likely will dismiss you despite your point. If that happens then end it with her.

As for the last woman standing if you have no intention of committing to her and marrying her then stop wasting her time. The following step would be to spend more time at the mosque and remain celibate. Do not even speak to a woman until you sort yourself out.