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[Hali]

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How long ago was the bullying ?

 

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How long ago was the bullying ?

6 years ago, but she did it since I was 8 years old. We knew eachother for long because her family lived close by. She still has attitude at age 23.

 

[Hali]

6 years ago, but she did it since I was 8 years old. We knew eachother for long because her family lived close by. She still has attitude at age 23.

Ewww attitude at 23
She clearly ain’t changed her ways
Is he close to them or live in the same area ?

 

[B A N E]

You won’t give the nigga a chance because of his cousin?

 

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Ewww attitude at 23
She clearly ain’t changed her ways
Is he close to them or live in the same area ?

Yes they are close, they gather during festives , Eid, news years etc.

 

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You won’t give the nigga a chance because of his cousin?

Ofcourse, I don't need drama in my life.
And people in our business. It's better to marry someone from a good family.

 

[Hali]

Yes they are close, they gather during festives , Eid, news years etc.

Not crazy at all then

 

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I would move countries to get away from her if I marry him lol

 

[B A N E]

Ofcourse, I don't need drama in my life.
And people in our business. It's better to marry someone from a good family.

I know but you’re acting like it’s someone hella close to him. His cousin mostly likely can’t control/influence him and you wouldn’t see her on a daily basis.

 

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I know but you’re acting like it’s someone hella close to him. His cousin mostly likely can’t control/influence him and you wouldn’t see her on a daily basis.

I know families that were broken up by others who interfered. It's risky .

 

[BobSmoke]

I would move countries to get away from her if I marry him lol

You already know your answer.

On the surface level, this shouldnt be a problem.
But let's just say you had kids with this nigga, would you want your kids around her in any way?

 

[Geeljire lotus]

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Do you find him attractive ?

 

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You already know your answer.

On the surface level, this shouldnt be a problem.
But let's just say you had kids with this nigga, would you want your kids around her in any way?

Noooooooooooo way my kids will never go near a witch she will give evil eyes to them, but then family reunions you can't avoid those situations....

 

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Do you find him attractive ?

He's average.

 

[Geeljire lotus]

He's average.

not worth the trouble then

 

[BobSmoke]

Noooooooooooo way my kids will never go near a witch she will give evil eyes to them, but then family reunions you can't avoid those situations....

If the guy is really worth it, then go for it.

 

[Wakai]

Just go for it, drama is healthy

 

[Fahma]

Why are Somali women so toxic towards one another? Imagine not marrying someone because of who they are related to

if the guy is worth it since shes not his sister I would say go for it. Just make sure he knows shes not welcome in your home or around any future kids.

 

[Octavian]

just walk away simple