I don't get it, people are too open around me even when we just met. For example years ago this girl at my work would be super open say whatever she wanted around me. She even said she cared about me even though I knew her for like a month its not like I am a talkative guy, I usually let the person do all the talking and I just come in with small responses. Even at my job right now, everyone is coming up to me to air there dirty secrets and tell me all there problems. I thought whites were afraid of Africans? is it cause of my soft facial features? Is it my calm attitude?