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Helios

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Ohhhh the ignorance in this post.

Go search it up saaxib and maybe you'll get a clue of how many people that actually do that.
People do but some unmarried farax it makes sense but for a married man who has access to real life p*ssy why??
 

Mimir

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I believe its true that the internet can somewhat effecf your mental well-being and let's face it, this isn't the most positive of places.

But even if we can do better it would seem pointless as any person who's negatively impacted by a forum would likely to be hurt twice as much in real life anyways so it's not the website that should adjust to your character it's you who needs to be mentally secure enough to handle it.

And how would admin define what's negative without reaching borderline censorship and opening a whole new can of worms.
Walahi this is an eye opening post. Thanks for sharing saaxib
 

Helios

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She fought with every guy on the forum including other atheists, and reached the final boss
Felt like she had a chip on her shoulder almost but alas she's gone now. All the best to her. @admin her calling SSPOT more toxic than reddit made me burst out laughing. You can find porn and extremist groups on reddit lmao that's an insult to SSPOT's dh1lo hunters.
 

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She fought with every guy on the forum including other atheists, and reached the final boss
i wouldn’t have banned her if she didn’t ask for it. im a pacifist. i don’t like confrontation or negativity. i was ready to log off until she asked to be banned. maybe sspot was too negative for her but she didn’t have the willpower to stay away from the forum? in any case i hope she feels better.
 

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just yesterday i had a discussion with a member of this forum who suggested a psychology and philosophy subforum. would anyone else be interested in this? it could be a mental health subforum as well.
 
just yesterday i had a discussion with a member of this forum who suggested a psychology and philosophy subforum. would anyone else be interested in this? it could be a mental health subforum as well.
yeah that would be great.
 

Helios

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just yesterday i had a discussion with a member of this forum who suggested a psychology and philosophy subforum. would anyone else be interested in this? it could be a mental health subforum as well.
Can you separate them because philosophy is pretty broad. Like a philosophy/debate area and then a self help/psychology area
 

Mimir

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just yesterday i had a discussion with a member of this forum who suggested a psychology and philosophy subforum. would anyone else be interested in this? it could be a mental health subforum as well.
Amazing idea!
 

416

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just yesterday i had a discussion with a member of this forum who suggested a psychology and philosophy subforum. would anyone else be interested in this? it could be a mental health subforum as well.
Personal development sub. We come from diverse backgrounds so I’m sure we could help each other in different aspects
 
@admin you need to experiment with improving the culture on here, though it’s definitely tricky, since it’s the members who most facilitate the sort of environment they’re creating.

You have all these depression threads of Somalis in their lives, and this is where they come, the most negative Somali spot they could find, so to speak. It’s such a mismatch.
The OP mentioned "good, smart girl" as a theme. I think forum members/somalis in general can be brute in the topics and comments they make about women. Young people who want to be viewed in a good light, naturally, can struggle with the toxicity.

For some reason theres more of the "good, smart" girl archetype online. So regular people like OP might think they are falling behind when sspot just isn't a fair depiction of reality to begin with.
 
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