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Never chase a woman, chasing is feminine. - Da'wah man.
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mohamedismail
Reewin. Lixda Gobol ee Maayland unii leh!
This tune actually slaps wallahi. I can low-key relate.
Do you understand both Maay and Maxaa tiri
mohamedismail
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Yes. I'm multi lingual.Do you understand both Maay and Maxaa tiri
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True it's become weird these days.
We live in a world of distortion. Topsy turvy.
If we go back in history, since when did women chase? Did your ayeeyo chase your grandfather? Did your great grandmother chase your great grandfather?
Throughout human history, men pursued women, men asked for women, men paid Mehr to women, in our culture, we have stories of men paying a hundred camels to secure a woman’s hand in marriage. It was men knocking on a woman’s door, men asking for a woman. Men having to prove themselves to Walis and the list continues.
The sperm chases the egg. Even biology illustrates that its the other way around.
But Mr Dawah man from 2024, wants to convince us chasing is something women do.
We live in times of great distortion and confusion. Good luck everyone.
If we go back in history, since when did women chase? Did your ayeeyo chase your grandfather? Did your great grandmother chase your great grandfather?
Throughout human history, men pursued women, men asked for women, men paid Mehr to women, in our culture, we have stories of men paying a hundred camels to secure a woman’s hand in marriage. It was men knocking on a woman’s door, men asking for a woman. Men having to prove themselves to Walis and the list continues.
The sperm chases the egg. Even biology illustrates that its the other way around.
But Mr Dawah man from 2024, wants to convince us chasing is something women do.
We live in times of great distortion and confusion. Good luck everyone.
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It’s fine, all the men downvoting me want a woman who asks their father for their hand in marriage.Dumbest shit I've ever heard
Real dudes know only to chase after a woman has given signals
They’re Alpha men you see and hence they’re the one whose hand is sought. Next they’ll ask for Mehr.
I will pursue a woman I like, if she rejects me, I'm off to the next one, I'll only chase my wife and our relationship.
Maybe bag another wife when my bank allows it.
It’s not so simple. Yes men are the ones who pursue but it’s done with a certain technique.
1. Picking a good potential partner is number one priority. A man needs to test a women to see if she’s worth chasing.
2. He needs to know whether she’s actually interested in her which will allow him to chase, in other words he needs to be good at picking up signals a women makes towards a man.
3. The hot and cold technique, which is basically showing that you’re going to chase but only under certain conditions (if she’s worth it) and sometimes you might even ignore a women’s advances/signals if she thinks she has you wrapped around her finger.
It’s important to remember that women compete with other women too, which means that there’s going to be a level of reciprocity in terms of the chase when it comes to men and women or else the women who expects the man to chase her will just get left behind no matter how “high value” she is.
How does a man test a woman? That’s nonsense. You pursue a woman, get to know her and once you realize she isn’t for you, you call it a day. What testing are you talking about? If you like her, you continue pursuing.
In the past, a man’s way of knowing if a woman is worth pursuing is by finding out information and doing background research. Once everything checks out, they go back up to her family.
Men testing women wasn’t a thing. It’s a modern concept found in gaal dating in which a man gets a woman to audition for yrs just to be a wife. The loss of femininity in that set up is why marriages are at an all time low and why cohabitation is high. That’s what happens when men get their way in ‘testing’ women.
That’s a fair point.
Can backfire since quality women that don’t have daddy issues prize consistency. You can’t be consistent if you use the hot and cold method.
How can a woman compete with other women when a man is pursuing a woman? Why would other women be in the equation if a man genuinely wants to get married to a Muslimas? Does he dangle the fact that he’s talking to other women? Like how does that make sense. Why would a woman compete for a man when the man is meant to be the one that pursues her and asks for hand in marriage? It isn’t Islamic or normal at all.
Chasing is not necessary tbh. There are more good women than good men out here in the dating scene.
If your a solid dude just move on if the chick isn't giving you much attention. These chicks will have full fledged rosters and like most of the niggas on them aren't that great.
What do you lot mean by ‘chasing’?
I simply have an issue with the idea of ‘chasing’ being feminine since when we look at marriage and relationships throughout history and how women are socialized chasing has always been something that men were meant to do or did since women were always meant to be pursued. There is a reason why in most cultures including religion it’s men that have to come for a woman and ask for a woman’s hand and had to give her gifts.
We're kind of shielded from the whole "women compete with other women" thing to some extent due to Islam and Somali culture, but it's pretty undeniable in modern dating outside of that context. Being in close promixity to other women gives you a certain level of social proof, ergo "if those women are intently listening to what he says and actively engaging with him, then there might be some merit to what he's saying" etc. That's my guess anyway. It just seems to instantly boost your chances if you have other women vouching for you.
But from a haram-ish standpoint, meeting/being pursued by other women is 1,000,000% easier the moment you get into a relationship. It's like they can almost smell it on you wallahi. But again, I guess that sort comes down to the fact that your actions don't seem as desperate and women they pick up on that subconsciously.
The avg girl is so inundated with attention nowadays that the whole "you need to chase a woman" thing doesn't make sense anymore. You're competing with a dozen other men. All of whom are boarderline groveling for the smallest crumb of acknowledgement, so it'd make sense to take a different approach. You might not agree with it, but there's some validity to what he's saying. Being aloof and playing "hard to get" as a guy is a little retarded and gay. But if it works, it works
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