My wife has FGM, I'm losing my mind

[Diomande]

Been married for 2 months now and after the first few nights I realised something was odd. I was having intercourse with a young woman who didn't react to it
At first I charged it to the game and thought this was due to my lack of experience but after awhile I asked her wasup and she told me
We both grew up in the West so I never suspected this. This shit is killing me, the main reason young guys get married is to have halal sex and now I don't even enjoy doing it.

I love my wife, she's beautiful, has an amazing character, cooks, cleans and doesn't give me too much drama but if I knew she had FGM I would never have married her
This thing kills your bed relationship and slowly crawls to everything else. I now catch myself talking to other xalimos on the street and getting their numbers. I'd say I'm now closer to zina than I was before getting married
I'm developping hate for her parents who had this done to her when she was young and avoid going to their house at all cost. FUCKING BACKWARDS SOMALIS, these reer badiyoow parents just fucked up my first marriage
When I first married her I thought "yes I got myself a practising, lightskin, pretty face big booty wife" but now I barely want to get busy in bed with her. That's what FGM does to a relationship.
I thought about divorcing her early on but I didn't want to be that asshole.

I'm gonna be patient but down the line the only option I see is getting myself a 2nd wife.

 

[Codeine]

Just get your nut off and live life B. If she happy, what's the problem?

 

[cantspeak]

this is another AJ alt account

 

[Codeine]

Also what kinda FGM? There's three types and 2/3 she can still . I suspect that that if it was the worst one, you would know by the way it looks.

Chances are your stroke game is weak fam.

My condolences

 

[anonymous34]

I seriously feel sorry for you

Hope you're not trolling

 

[Diomande]

Just get your nut off and live life B. If she happy, what's the problem?

Bro i tried doig that but us young farahs that been living in the west our whole life have a different view of what intercourse should be.

When you're putting in work and your wife is laying there like a statue SHIT WILL MESS YOUR HEAD eventually.

 

[anonymous34]

Bro i tried doig that but us young farahs that been living in the west our whole life have a different view of what intercourse should be.

When you're putting in work and your wife is laying there like a statue SHIT WILL MESS YOUR HEAD eventually.

Tell her to fake it

She should fake it

 

[Diomande]

Tell her to fake it

She should fake it

I got too much pride for that

So many nice xalimos in town i'm gonna have to bag myself number 2

 

[Codeine]

Tell her to fake it

She should fake it

You're a smart one aint you

 

[anonymous34]

I got too much pride for that

So many nice xalimos in town i'm gonna have to bag myself number 2

I suggest you divorce her instead of getting a number 2

It isn't fair on her.

 

[cantspeak]

I suggest you divorce her instead of getting a number 2

It isn't fair on her.

pretty sad reason to get divorced though. she should visit the gynaecologist, they should know how to repair FGM

 

[Diomande]

I suggest you divorce her instead of getting a number 2

It isn't fair on her.

Why didnt she tell me she had FGM before we married? That wasn't fair on me

 

[cantspeak]

Why didnt she tell me she had FGM before we married? That wasn't fair on me

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she should visit the gynaecologist, they should know how to repair FGM. if that doesnt fix it than you have your right since she lied by omission

 

[Diomande]

pretty sad reason to get divorced though. she should visit the gynaecologist, they should know how to repair FGM

I need more details on this. It could save my marriage

 

[cantspeak]

I need more details on this. It could save my marriage

visit your local doctor. they shoud be able to refer you to a specialist or go private if you want it fixed sooner.

There is no guarnatee she would get full sensation back though

 

[Codeine]

I got too much pride for that

So many nice xalimos in town i'm gonna have to bag myself number 2

Nah B. At least hold on to her for a while juss fukk with her head and then one day pull her into he room and tell her bayo you beautiful, you bae but I'm degenerate homosexual. Then move across the country get married agai n n if she ever calls you on it say you got cured in gay camp

 

[Arman]

Sspot ≠ Shaax Corner

On a more serious note, you should probably research ways to fix this

 

[Lord Flacko]

Do you love her? Then talk to her and work it out


@cantspeak is right there are ways to fix whatever problem you're having through surgery, but most importantly it will be fixed through communication.

 

[anonymous34]

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she should visit the gynaecologist, they should know how to repair FGM. if that doesnt fix it than you have your right since she lied by omission

I need more details on this. It could save my marriage

Yes this is true. They might be able to bring some sensation back.

 

[Bohol]

What kind of idiot doesn't ask his future wife before getting married whether she is sunni or fircooni? those kind of details are important
if you want to know how your sex life will be like.