My parents are very judgemental

[DangerBadan]

They are always finding faults and nagging about any little thing. It's so exhausting. I would rather them beat me than suffer emotional abuse. I got yelled at for not putting my ringtone on silent during salada.

 

[Dualke]

How old are you

 

[Abu Hesi]

All Somali parents are judgemental, wax cusub inoo sheeg ukhti.

 

[Halimo-2018]

Move out.

 

[Rakoon]

She's 14

 

[DangerBadan]

All Somali parents are judgemental, wax cusub inoo sheeg ukhti.

Mine are different. If they are not asking a question or want something, they only speak to me to judge me.

 

[Omar del Sur]

Abu Sa'id and Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (ﷺ) said:
"Never a believer is stricken with a discomfort, an illness, an anxiety, a grief or mental worry or even the pricking of a thorn but Allah will expiate his sins on account of his patience".

[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

Riyad as-Salihin 37 - The Book of Miscellany - كتاب المقدمات - Sunnah.com - Sayings and Teachings of Prophet Muhammad (صلى الله عليه و سلم)

Hadith of the Prophet Muhammad (saws) in English and Arabic

sunnah.com

 

[DangerBadan]

How old are you

My late 20s.

Move out

That's against the deen and my parents will blame me for shaming the family.

 

[Dualke]

My late 20s.



That's against the deen and my parents will blame me for shaming the family.

You sound like you're being infantalized by your parents. You don't have to be treated this way by them lol either tell them to leave you alone or move out

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

Why are you annoying your parents?

 

[Nin123]

They are always finding faults and nagging about any little thing. It's so exhausting. I would rather them beat me than suffer emotional abuse. I got yelled at for not putting my ringtone on silent during salada.

Are you Xalimo or farax?

 

[Abu Hesi]

Mine are different. If they are not asking a question or want something, they only speak to me to judge me.

Sorry sis, make dua for them so Allah can guide them.

 

[Nin123]

Move out.

Authubillahi Mina alshitan alrajim don’t listen to her. Homeless life doesn’t suit Xalimos

 

[Kalsoon]

Is it emotional abuse if they ask you to silence your phone for prayer time?

In shaa Allah you can learn and grow to accept your parents for doing their best for you.

 

[Man with a garuun]

Move out.

If she is not married, she doesn't move out. Plain and simple.

 

[Halimo-2018]

If she is not married, she doesn't move out. Plain and simple.

Yes she can. If she can rent her own apartment that would be an ideal. It’s 2023 we don’t have to live together to survive.

 

[Halimo-2018]

Authubillahi Mina alshitan alrajim don’t listen to her. Homeless life doesn’t suit Xalimos

It isn’t that much. There are homeless shelters for women if need be. She rent her own apartment after she saves money.

 

[Man with a garuun]

Yes she can. If she can rent her own apartment that would be an ideal. It’s 2023 we don’t have to live together to survive.

Hoy, hoy tani waa mid hogaanku u go'ay.

 

[Halimo-2018]

Hoy, hoy tani waa mid hogaanku u go'ay.

Women have autonomy of their life. She is allowed to live alone if she wishes to.

 

[Man with a garuun]

Women have autonomy of their life. She is allowed to live alone if she wishes to.

Hogaanka baa kuu go'ay. That is all I am gonna say.