My miserable reality

[mohammdov]

- what the hell !! How can you be happy waking up at six in the morning with an alarm, jumping out of bed, getting dressed, making breakfast, ،peeing, brushing your teeth and doing your hair, and fighting the traffic jam battle to get to a place where you're basically making a lot of money for someone else? And at the end of the day you are asked to be grateful for the opportunity to do so?
and you do this until you die. Is this just how life is?

 

[Keep it a boqol]

Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, a man may have a rank with Allah that he does not achieve by his good deeds. Thus, Allah continues to put him to trial with what he hates until he reaches the rank destined for him.”

Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Ibn Ḥibbān 575

Grade: Hasan (fair) according to Al-Arna’ut

Jabir reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The people who lived in prosperity will wish on the Day of Resurrection to have the reward of those who were put to trial, even if their skin had been torn away with shears.”

Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 2402

Grade: Hasan (fair) according to Al-Albani

 

[techsamatar]

we all work for someone, is it the work you dislike or the routine?

 

[al-Mu'tamid المعتمد]

It is the way the world works today. To think that it was worse in the past when workers would sometimes have to work 10+ hours per day. It wasn't until royal intervention that it got lowered to around 8 hours in Europe, and the rest of the world largely followed the same route. The issue isn't just the long hours, but also the working environment. Working long hours in a factory doing a mindless job can have a deep effect on someone's mental health.

In contrast, workplaces where you, for example, are an office worker or a teacher—anything that involves active human interaction—can create a nicer work environment, especially if the people you're working with are close associates. This can lead to a more enjoyable workplace, where time might even pass quickly, similar to a school setting to a degree. So, all in all, you should question the place you're working in. I've always wanted mindless jobs to have fewer hours, but alas, corporations are greedy.

 

[Basra]

- what the hell !! How can you be happy waking up at six in the morning with an alarm, jumping out of bed, getting dressed, making breakfast, ،peeing, brushing your teeth and doing your hair, and fighting the traffic jam battle to get to a place where you're basically making a lot of money for someone else? And at the end of the day you are asked to be grateful for the opportunity to do so?
and you do this until you die. Is this just how life is?

Yes.

 

[mohammdov]

It is the way the world works today. To think that it was worse in the past when workers would sometimes have to work 10+ hours per day. It wasn't until royal intervention that it got lowered to around 8 hours in Europe, and the rest of the world largely followed the same route. The issue isn't just the long hours, but also the working environment. Working long hours in a factory doing a mindless job can have a deep effect on someone's mental health.

In contrast, workplaces where you, for example, are an office worker or a teacher—anything that involves active human interaction—can create a nicer work environment, especially if the people you're working with are close associates. This can lead to a more enjoyable workplace, where time might even pass quickly, similar to a school setting to a degree. So, all in all, you should question the place you're working in. I've always wanted mindless jobs to have fewer hours, but alas, corporations are greedy.

I am not in Europe or America, Working hours are 10 hours , and the salary is not enough for 20 days, so how can I getting married and building a house? Marriage may be easy, but home is almost impossible

My ancestors lived as shepherds and translators in the markets. I don't think their lives were very difficult

 

[mohammdov]

we all work for someone, is it the work you dislike or the routine?

The routine and the salary is not fair

 

[techsamatar]

The routine and the salary is not fair

How's the daily work treating you? Life can feel like a repetitive loop, and the thought of just eating and sleeping might cross your mind. But consider this – those successful folks don't stick to a regular 9-to-5. They put in the extra more hours, face more stress, and don't have a safety net to fall back on. It's smart to embrace a routine, getting ready for future plans and picking up new skills along the way. And hey, rising early? It's not just a habit; it's in line with tradition and our way of life.

Invest a few hours after the 9-to-5 grind to master a craft or skill. The sacrifice pays off down the road when that side hustle evolves into your main gig.

 

[Dango]

That is your life and you can change it because its YOUR LIFE

 

[Soul Kaizer]

 

[Three Moons]

Start a side-hustle, and also get into tech by learning a programming language one hour a day. The start and end times are more fluid, and remote options are greater if you dislike commuting. Also stay clear from any job where you have to ask for permission to go to the bathroom or pray.

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

What you are mostly describing is routine and living a structured life. You're the stereotypical, lazy Black guy. lmfao.

 

[Nin123]

- what the hell !! How can you be happy waking up at six in the morning with an alarm, jumping out of bed, getting dressed, making breakfast, ،peeing, brushing your teeth and doing your hair, and fighting the traffic jam battle to get to a place where you're basically making a lot of money for someone else? And at the end of the day you are asked to be grateful for the opportunity to do so?
and you do this until you die. Is this just how life is?

Look ask your relatives back home to give you some camels and goats and become a nomad. No headache no stress and you are you own master.

 

[Abu Hesi]

This reminds me of office space movie lol

 

[aden1812]

- what the hell !! How can you be happy waking up at six in the morning with an alarm, jumping out of bed, getting dressed, making breakfast, ،peeing, brushing your teeth and doing your hair, and fighting the traffic jam battle to get to a place where you're basically making a lot of money for someone else? And at the end of the day you are asked to be grateful for the opportunity to do so?
and you do this until you die. Is this just how life is?

you work for someone so you can learn their business, and work for yourself. No one pays a livable wage anymore, and dont expect them to care about your welbeing. truth of the matter is, if you died today, they will replace you in the afternoon. at the end of the day, you can develop skills and work hard outside of work.

i know guys who work a corporate job in the day and work an 8 hour shift at a gas station at night, just so they can save enough money to invest in a business opportunity.

No job is going to pay you enough to "stop you from working for them"

 

[mohammdov]

Look ask your relatives back home to give you some camels and goats and become a nomad. No headache no stress and you are you own master.

It will be beautiful for two years until a drought year comes And everything dies

 

[mohammdov]

What you are mostly describing is routine and living a structured life. You're the stereotypical, lazy Black guy. lmfao.

You don't know the circumstances I'm going through. If I were lazy, I wouldn't go to work. We can only complain

 

[Nin123]

It will be beautiful for two years until a drought year comes And everything dies

Invest your money on creating water storages for any drought in the near future. Problem solved.

 

[Garaad Hirabu]

It will be beautiful for two years until a drought year comes And everything dies

Waryaa, you might want to try self employment jobs on amazon selling, you don't need experience you can hire pholipina workers in Philippines to sell for you on your amazon acount.

 

[Garaad Hirabu]

I would just hire Philippines workers to work for me on my amazon FBA