My friend is cheating on his wife, I'm contemplating on letting her know

[Cigal Shidaad]

This dude has been married for 8 months and he's already cheating. I came over to their house the other day and i felt bad for miskiinta.. I asked why he cheated on her and dude talks about how he still loves her but it's the nature of men to seek other sexual partners I somehow agreed with him but the reason why i wanted to snitch on him is i wanted to spend some quality time with his wife after they break up because she has amazing body if only you guys would see her walking with that see thru dirac

I don't want the dude to know i snitched, how should I let her know without compromising my friendship with this dude?

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Both of you guys are snakes in this situation

 

[Rorschach]

Long time lurker, first time poster.

My advise would be to not immediately rat him out. Tell him what he's doing is khalad and a fadheexad, and that he should get his shit in order.

All that bollocks on men's nature etc. while having some elements of truth, is a poor excuse to continue fucking around.

BTW, who on earth stares and lusts after their friends wife's body - whether he's cheating or her or not? Allahaga garow walaalkiis, I'm sure you'd choke-slam any guy that would glance at your woman.

If he doesn't fix up, expose his filth to the girl's wali via proxy.

 

[Ferrari]

why is she walking around in see through dirac in front of you?
Why would you snitch on your "friend"?
Why do you think she'd allow you to chat her up even if they divorce?
Why you going over to married couple's house?

 

[Mercury]

First of all Youre friends a scumbag if he really believes that its in the nature of men to cheat than why did he settle Down?

When you agree to be monogamous with someone you are asking them to trust you and take you for your word and when you break that, you are breaking your word

When you do that, it makes it hard, if not impossible, to believe anything that you say

Also @Cigal Shidaad youre a douche for even thinking about taking advantage of the wife youre better of letting them deal with their marriage crisis

 

[Geel]

Get that booty son

 

[Arbe QalanjLa'aan]

If you're gonna snitch, snitch in a anonymous msg or something. But don't think u're gonna be hooking up with anybody bc girls who get cheated on like that rarely hook up again anytime soon.

 

[Kanye]

Are they Muslims? If they aren't, best mind your own business

 

[dhegdheer]

Snitch on him! They've only been married for 8 months, there's still time for her to escape. She shouldn't waste her youth on qashin

You need to behave warya what kind of snake tries to steal his friends wife??? U should still tell ha tho

 

[Inactive]

Most Somali men cheat on their spouses (not my deeply religious family). I have seen more than a dozen and that's just by going out into Somali spaces and observing things.

I have caught married men with POF on their phones, chatting with women suspiciously alone at shisha spots (including underaged girls), etc.

 

[Keo]

Why you looking at other mans wife? You are part of the problem too.

 

[Cigal Shidaad]

Get that booty son

Bet i will, yes sir!

 

[Burhan]

When you have friends like Cigaal Shidaad, who needs an enemy?


Cigaal,


Someone else will do that to you seeing that you are most likely friends with your type anyway. What goes around, comes around sometimes.


Men who prey on vulnerable women are not real men. And you are not smart if you are opportunistic like this.


The right thing to do is to tell him to let the woman go so he can sleep around as he pleases. Then you can try your luck with her when he does that, if he does let her go. I am not sure you want future with her, but some crooks have honor in them left, am hoping you are such stupid crook.

 

[Mckenzie]

Chances are she might forgive her husband and you'll end up losing a friend too. Stay out of other ppls relationships and hang out with singles instead

 

[Reign]

You need to snitch. You will defo have a chance in a bid to get back at her ex. Its a win for you.

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[Burhan]

First of all Youre friends a scumbag if he really believes that its in the nature of men to cheat than why did he settle Down?

When you agree to be monogamous with someone you are asking them to trust you and take you for your word and when you break that, you are breaking your word

When you do that, it makes it hard, if not impossible, to believe anything that you say

Also @Cigal Shidaad youre a douche for even thinking about taking advantage of the wife youre better of letting them deal with their marriage crisis

Bro, would you agree to a monogamous marriage if your wife-to-be asked you to declare that? Cause I am not sure you meant to say a man gives up his right to marry a second when he is marrying his first?


I think I would not agree to such an arrangement even though I am not one to marry more than one wife by personality. To be bound to one is too much hassle. Two would be crazy.

I just don't think a woman has any right to ask a man to forego what is his right to exercise if he wants to.

 

[Kanye]

OP, if you snitch may you be cursed with blue balls for the rest of your life or put down like a sick dog. At least let the man know you're snaking him. Miskeen thought he had a friend but really it was just a titless in disguise all this time

 

[SenseSays]

Bro, would you agree to a monogamous marriage if your wife-to-be asked you to declare that? Cause I am not sure you meant to say a man gives up his right to marry a second when he is marrying his first?


I think I would not agree to such an arrangement even though I am not one to marry more than one wife by personality. To be bound to one is too much hassle. Two would be crazy.

I just don't think a woman has any right to ask a man to forego what is his right to exercise if he wants to.

It all comes down to you and the wife if she wants you to stay loyal and you don't want to then I think that should be a deal-breaker BEFORE marriage.

 

[Burhan]

It all comes down to you and the wife if she wants you to stay loyal and you don't want to then I think that should be a deal-breaker BEFORE marriage.

That would be correct and she is better off not marrying me in the first place. But that is not the message I posted. Mercury made it seem that when a man is marrying, he has to make a vow to not marry another woman, we are talking about legality from religious perspective that a man can marry a second wife later on if he wants to.

As I pointed out, I like less trouble in life and people not to tie up my time too much and be clingy to me, so marrying one is a bit too much already, adding a second is akin to asking me to surrender my sanity because there is no way I can maintain happy relationship with two women and meet their emotional and economic demands.

With that said, I would object if my wife-to-be demands or asks as a condition that I will not marry another woman. We are not talking about cheating, we are talking about what she can ask for and what she can not.

Besides, I rarely see polygamous Somalis. And most men don't marry their first while they plan to marry another one. I would find it offensive if a woman asked me to make a vow like that. The good thing is, before we even get to that point of marriage, she would know my personality. So she won't be stupid to ask what she knows I would loudly object to

In short, I am saying, Love does not TRUMP rights

 

[SenseSays]

@Burhan i see what you mean