My first workplace drama!

[Yaraye]

Alxamdullah I've never had to struggle to get a job in my life. I got all my jobs through connection, either through friends or family. I've managed to built quite the resume all based off jobs I didn't do shit to get.

This cushy job that I started a year ago was also through my usual route of connections. 2 Madow women and an cadaan woman I supervise filed complaints against me. Which isn't true by the way. Luckily one of my bosses was Somali and sent word to me about what these 3 women were plotting.

They were complaining about how I was so condescending, and looking down on them. They feel "Uncomfortable" and feel that I made our workplace "Toxic". I wondered out loud as to why 3 people who were every nice and kind to my face suddenly launched a complaint behind my back. The somali boss laughed and said, "You are a young somali muslim woman in a supervising position that you got through connection. It's jealousy. Gaalos both cadaan and madow have a problem with that."

What's wrong with getting a job through connections? why people gotta be bitter? looooool!

 

[Soul Kaizer]

Mashallah thats what i love to see somalis need to help each other through connections.

 

[Yaraye]

Mashallah thats what i love to see somalis needs to help each other through connections.

alxamdullah. Yep That's Minnesota for you

 

[Khaem]

Moving like Yahuud. Mashallah.

 

[Lahaine]

Alxamdullah I've never had to struggle to get a job in my life. I got all my jobs through connection, either through friends or family. I've managed to built quite the resume

This cushy job that I started a year ago was also through my usual route of connections. 2 Madow women and an cadaan woman I supervise filed complaints against me. Which isn't true by the way. Luckily one of my bosses was Somali and sent word to me about what these 3 women were plotting.

They were complaining about how I was so condescending, and looking down on them. They feel "Uncomfortable" and feel that I made our workplace "Toxic". I wondered out loud as to why 3 people who were every nice and kind to my face suddenly launched a complaint behind my back. The somali boss laughed and said, "You are a young somali muslim woman in a supervising position that you got through connection. It's jealousy. Gaalos both cadaan and madow have a problem with that."

What's wrong with getting a job through connections? why people gotta be bitter? looooool!

Be careful especially from the cadaan lady they will do anything to climb through the ranks. Here's a video that might help you.

TikTok - Make Your Day

 

[Yaraye]

Moving like Yahuud. Mashallah.

Inshallah our somali pop in MN will become the new yahuuds.

 

[Soul Kaizer]

Be careful especially from the cadaan lady they will do anything to climb through the ranks. Here's a video that might help you.

TikTok - Make Your Day

 

[Hodan from HR]

Coworkers are not your friends.
Learnt that the hard way.
Keep it professional..

 

[Yaraye]

Be careful especially from the cadaan lady they will do anything to climb through the ranks. Here's a video that might help you.

TikTok - Make Your Day

yeah the cadaan lady accused a madow executive of sexual harassment, which turned out not to be true. I plan on involving him in the case to liven things up. Knowing his hatered for her and how madow men don't really back up madow women, I gonna watch him crush them. i'm excited for chaos!

 

[Yaraye]

Coworkers are not be your friends.
Learnt that the hard way.
Keep it professional..

I try not to, but i talk too much. Also seeing people 5 days a week will make me develop feelings of friendship. i become attached

 

[Basra]

Alxamdullah I've never had to struggle to get a job in my life. I got all my jobs through connection, either through friends or family. I've managed to built quite the resume all based off jobs I didn't do shit to get.

This cushy job that I started a year ago was also through my usual route of connections. 2 Madow women and an cadaan woman I supervise filed complaints against me. Which isn't true by the way. Luckily one of my bosses was Somali and sent word to me about what these 3 women were plotting.

They were complaining about how I was so condescending, and looking down on them. They feel "Uncomfortable" and feel that I made our workplace "Toxic". I wondered out loud as to why 3 people who were every nice and kind to my face suddenly launched a complaint behind my back. The somali boss laughed and said, "You are a young somali muslim woman in a supervising position that you got through connection. It's jealousy. Gaalos both cadaan and madow have a problem with that."

What's wrong with getting a job through connections? why people gotta be bitter? looooool!

Welcome to Office politcs. Snakes every where. Good on the Somali bosses though- it has been my experience too Somalis bosses or co workers warn me when people are plotting on me, I once quit a job- but gave them sufficient notice. The new Somali boss begged me to stay and i said NO. I was mad at the White previous bosses. Anyway- after 1 month from quiting that job i received $1500 from my old job. I was like what is this? I called the Somali boss and he said-- You are welcome. If u could have waited i would have worked to raise the pay u were requesting, so co workers got a raise. I sent u what u accrued and deserve. I said - thank you-- but blocked him being paranoid he wants something from me. Weird. But the fuulus was more than welcome alhamdhulaahi dear Allaah

 

[Nin123]

Alxamdullah I've never had to struggle to get a job in my life. I got all my jobs through connection, either through friends or family. I've managed to built quite the resume all based off jobs I didn't do shit to get.

This cushy job that I started a year ago was also through my usual route of connections. 2 Madow women and an cadaan woman I supervise filed complaints against me. Which isn't true by the way. Luckily one of my bosses was Somali and sent word to me about what these 3 women were plotting.

They were complaining about how I was so condescending, and looking down on them. They feel "Uncomfortable" and feel that I made our workplace "Toxic". I wondered out loud as to why 3 people who were every nice and kind to my face suddenly launched a complaint behind my back. The somali boss laughed and said, "You are a young somali muslim woman in a supervising position that you got through connection. It's jealousy. Gaalos both cadaan and madow have a problem with that."

What's wrong with getting a job through connections? why people gotta be bitter? looooool!

That’s what I call Somali excellence

 

[Basra]

yeah the cadaan lady accused a madow executive of sexual harassment, which turned out not to be true. I plan on involving him in the case to liven things up. Knowing his hatered for her and how madow men don't really back up madow women, I gonna watch him crush them. i'm excited for chaos!

I think u have a chaos Jiini in you huuno.

 

[Keep it a boqol]

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[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Alxamdullah I've never had to struggle to get a job in my life. I got all my jobs through connection, either through friends or family. I've managed to built quite the resume all based off jobs I didn't do shit to get.

This cushy job that I started a year ago was also through my usual route of connections. 2 Madow women and an cadaan woman I supervise filed complaints against me. Which isn't true by the way. Luckily one of my bosses was Somali and sent word to me about what these 3 women were plotting.

They were complaining about how I was so condescending, and looking down on them. They feel "Uncomfortable" and feel that I made our workplace "Toxic". I wondered out loud as to why 3 people who were every nice and kind to my face suddenly launched a complaint behind my back. The somali boss laughed and said, "You are a young somali muslim woman in a supervising position that you got through connection. It's jealousy. Gaalos both cadaan and madow have a problem with that."

What's wrong with getting a job through connections? why people gotta be bitter? looooool!

You are awfully lucky, if privileged to have been warned, otherwise you would have been sacked had your manager been one of them, bloody creatures gossip, esp in the MidWest, where it is as if they are all related by blood, family connections, or through marriage.

If I were you, I would have confronted them to nip the unpleasantness in the bud at once, but that might be the male approach, and definitely not a Yankee trait. Be more engaging, assertive, and less chatty. Consider taking a class in conflict resolution at the workplace, and how to manoeuvre through the office maze. It works wonders, esp. when dealing with entitled, least educated members of society lacking melanin, most of whom have got jobs by way of connections, and neither on merit nor qualifications.

Never tell them about your qualifications, or good life at home, or that you are content, debt free, and avoid Happy hours, or weekend dos with the female species.

 

[Yaraye]

I think u have a chaos Jiini in you huuno.

I realized that I really enjoy drama wallahi

 

[Yaraye]

That’s what I call Somali excellence

Ain't nothing more excellent than connections

 

[Yaraye]

You are awfully lucky, if privileged to have been warned, otherwise you would have been sacked had your manager been one of them, bloody creatures gossip, esp in the MidWest, where it is as if they are all related by blood, family connections, or through marriage.

It's insane how accurate you are. A lot of people at my work place are that bloody creature gossip who are all related! i got lucky with the somali boss being friends with the higher ups.

If I were you, I would have confronted them to nip the unpleasantness in the bud at once, but that might be the male approach, and definitely not a Yankee trait. Be more engaging, assertive, and less chatty.

It's hard to not be chatty. I'm just a naturally chatty person, it gives me relief. Not being chatty suffocates me . I just need to learn to keep my chattiness surface level.

Consider taking a class in conflict resolution at the workplace, and how to manoeuvre through the office maze. It works wonders, esp. when dealing with entitled, least educated members of society lacking melanin, most of whom have got jobs by way of connections, and neither on merit nor qualifications.

My workplace don't offer this

Never tell them about your qualifications, or good life at home, or that you are content, debt free, and

Too late

avoid Happy hours, or weekend dos with the female species.

I don't do work outings unless is something that's happening while I'm on the clock

 

[techsamatar]

alxamdullah. Yep That's Minnesota for you

I thought you was from Uk?

 

[Yaraye]

I thought you was from Uk?

what gave you that idea?