Nomad2054
There is nothing permanent except change.
after years of playing in the mud i had finally made a conscious choice to get my act together, get serious about life and find a wife whom to share a xalaal life with.
short time after i found a woman who fit my ideals, she was educated, hard working, cultured and modern. After months of talking the girl fell head over heals for me and caught feeling for her. we talked about our future life together and since she had a job she insisted she would help me out with the costs and i agreed.
my new life could only be described as a dream until her parents came into the picture, our parents knew each other from the kacaan era and we are related but unknown to me our fathers hated each other, so we decided to go with our mothers for our affairs.
the girls mother welcomed me with open arms and stated several times that she would help us with anything, she treated me like her son and i saw her as my own mother.
when time for the meher came the girls mothers asked me to pay10k dollars meher on the spot plus another 10k on gold since her daughter was educated. i respectfully decline and instead said i could only afford to pay 5k for the meher and buy gold worth 5k.
after going forth and back my offer was accepted and me and the girl got our meher, i was so happy because i had fulfilled 50% of my diin, and me and my new wife agreed we wouldnt do anything before the wedding night.
the girl and i had several discussion about our wedding and what it would cost we agreed 10k would be enough, until the girl had a talk with her mother who said nothing less than 20k would do.
all hell broke lose my mother and the girls mother broke relations still we continued our relationship, short time after the girls parents started pushing to call off our meher and choose one of several men they had wanted her to marry instead.
i got so pissed and decided to call the girls mother up and talk to her myself, she said eedo i can give you 6 month to a gather the 20k, to which i replied i couldnt possible save up that much in such a short time.
while the girl was seated next to her she said eedo i need you to let my daughter go, by then i was done with this family but i had never divorced anyone before so i didnt know the words to say, the mother said the words out loud and i repeated after her and the meher was over.
short time after i found a woman who fit my ideals, she was educated, hard working, cultured and modern. After months of talking the girl fell head over heals for me and caught feeling for her. we talked about our future life together and since she had a job she insisted she would help me out with the costs and i agreed.
my new life could only be described as a dream until her parents came into the picture, our parents knew each other from the kacaan era and we are related but unknown to me our fathers hated each other, so we decided to go with our mothers for our affairs.
the girls mother welcomed me with open arms and stated several times that she would help us with anything, she treated me like her son and i saw her as my own mother.
when time for the meher came the girls mothers asked me to pay10k dollars meher on the spot plus another 10k on gold since her daughter was educated. i respectfully decline and instead said i could only afford to pay 5k for the meher and buy gold worth 5k.
after going forth and back my offer was accepted and me and the girl got our meher, i was so happy because i had fulfilled 50% of my diin, and me and my new wife agreed we wouldnt do anything before the wedding night.
the girl and i had several discussion about our wedding and what it would cost we agreed 10k would be enough, until the girl had a talk with her mother who said nothing less than 20k would do.
all hell broke lose my mother and the girls mother broke relations still we continued our relationship, short time after the girls parents started pushing to call off our meher and choose one of several men they had wanted her to marry instead.
i got so pissed and decided to call the girls mother up and talk to her myself, she said eedo i can give you 6 month to a gather the 20k, to which i replied i couldnt possible save up that much in such a short time.
while the girl was seated next to her she said eedo i need you to let my daughter go, by then i was done with this family but i had never divorced anyone before so i didnt know the words to say, the mother said the words out loud and i repeated after her and the meher was over.
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you will see be patient!!
habaryars are a brutal bunch..... they are shayateen in human form.
