My Cinderella dreams has hope!!! Somali men born after 2000s are filling up Uni

[Yaraye]

I was going through reddit, and ran into this

Most people in the comments agreed that the men born after 2000 are filling up university, these are the men around my age! Alas! my Cinderella dream might be come true soon somali women will be able to marry well !!!! Alhamdullah! I can finally have hopes on not living a frugal life forever

 

[Somali Saayid]

 

[Abdisamad]

Have you seen how much a truck driver makes? And half of the time his out on the roads, this means more time for yourself and Cinderella self spending his money

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Gen Z Somalis are the luckiest ones. They are usually the youngest in their family, have older siblings and parents with more income to spare. Their parents learned through trial and error with the first batch (Millenials). Allahuma Baarik.

Somalis need to move out of the ghettos and climb up the ladder.

 

[Yaraye]

Have you seen how much a truck driver makes? And half of the time his out on the roads, this means more time for yourself and Cinderella self spending his money

nah, truck driving makes me too worried. How about if he crashes and dies? I'll be a widow with kids!!! That means i'll have to struggle again! my aim to to work only 1-2 days a week and focus on my kids. I have no plans on raising ciyalsuuq children i need to be at home and involved in every aspect of their lives. I can't do that I if become a widow!

 

[OhMan]

Right?
Like how bad were the previous gen

 

[Yaraye]

Gen Z Somalis are the luckiest ones. They are usually the youngest in their family, have older siblings and parents with more income to spare. Their parents learned through trial and error with the first batch (Millenials). Allahuma Baarik.

Somalis need to move out of the ghettos and climb up the ladder.

Somalis do need to move up the social ladder. I've never lived in the ghettos, but I lived majority of my life in the neighborhoods next to them. wallahi, I have a serious desire to move up and make sure my kids don't even know what ghetto is

 

[Somali Saayid]

Right?
Like how bad were the previous gen

I'm wondering how a Somali plans to have Cinderella dreams? They all start out nice but once you both hit the 40 mark, he's going back home to look for another wife maybe 2.......

 

[A Mean Guy]

Gen Z Somalis are the luckiest ones. They are usually the youngest in their family, have older siblings and parents with more income to spare. Their parents learned through trial and error with the first batch (Millenials). Allahuma Baarik.

Somalis need to move out of the ghettos and climb up the ladder.

I see so many successful somalis bless my Linkedin feed. I'm actually proud of where we are heading.
I feel for Millenials tho, they had no one to guide them and ruined their lives with drugs and crime.

 

[Yaraye]

I'm wondering how a Somali plans to have Cinderella dreams? They all start out nice but once you both hit the 40 mark, he's going back home to look for another wife maybe 2.......

there are men who don't do that. I have 3 aunts. 2 are in their late 40s, 1 early 50s. None of their husbands don't have a 2nd wife. Aunt 1 have been married for 18 years, aunt 2 for 23 years, aunt 3 for more than 30 years. They are my aspiration they are all housewives that don't work, their husbands pay all the bills. I look to them for future advice!
Mashallah!

 

[Yaraye]

Right?
Like how bad were the previous gen

pretty bad had me wondering at 15/16 years old if I'm gonna have to marry outside of somali. Thank god tho! It looks like I will not have to

 

[Basra]

I was going through reddit, and ran into this View attachment 252123
Most people in the comments agreed that the men born after 2000 are filling up university, these are the men around my age! Alas! my Cinderella dream might be come true soon somali women will be able to marry well !!!! Alhamdullah! I can finally have hopes on not living a frugal life forever

living frugal life forever is baraka--u will be praying to Allaah swt and remembering your lord. How lucky can u be?

If u have money and busy with fun and life. U r a loser if you do not remember your God

 

[Bundasliga]

nah, truck driving makes me too worried. How about if he crashes and dies? I'll be a widow with kids!!! That means i'll have to struggle again! my aim to to work only 1-2 days a week and focus on my kids. I have no plans on raising ciyalsuuq children i need to be at home and involved in every aspect of their lives. I can't do that I if become a widow!

Your man could work as anything & still die

 

[Yaraye]

I see so many successful somalis bless my Linkedin feed. I'm actually proud of where we are heading.
I feel for Millenials tho, they had no one to guide them and ruined their lives with drugs and crime.

me too, I get so happy when I see that

 

[Somali Saayid]

there are men who don't do that. I have 3 aunts. 2 are in their late 40s, 1 early 50s. None of their husbands don't have a 2nd wife. Aunt 1 have been married for 18 years, aunt 2 for 23 years, aunt 3 for more than 30 years. They are my aspiration they are all housewives that don't work, their husbands pay all the bills. I look to them for future advice!
Mashallah!

Let's hope Inshallah you get a husband like that.

 

[Yaraye]

Your man could work as anything & still die

subhanallahu cadeem! may Allah not take him until my children start their careers

 

[Keep it a boqol]

@Yaraye your too much online. Plenty of young successful Somalis graduating and a lot more going to university and it’s only going to increase

 

[Yaraye]

Let's hope Inshallah you get a husband like that.

Inshallah! I also need to make sure to pray for that

 

[Yaraye]

@Yaraye your too much online. Plenty of young successful Somalis graduating and a lot more going to university and it’s only going to increase

I am All I do is study and have fun online. I don't really go out unless its duty bound. Now that I think about it..... After this semester is over, I need to start going out a bit more. How else am I going to catch one of these successful somali brothers if I'm home all the time?!

 

[Yaraye]

living frugal life forever is baraka--u will be praying to Allaah swt and remembering your lord. How lucky can u be?

If u have money and busy with fun and life. U r a loser if you do not remember your God

I just want to be comfortable but alhamdullah I should be thankful for wear I am now...