My bestfriend got married and already has a child!

[Kool-Aid]

youd be suprised at wedding costs. the worst thing is, no offense to my soomaliyeen, but compared to other ethnicities our weddings look cheap and dont scream lavish or sophisticated. which is ironic cause some somalis spend an absurd amount just for it to look like any old faarax and xalimos wedding at the communtiy hall.

one girl was doing a Q&A on her wedding on somalibridal snapchat and she said her man spent 40k on the wedding i burst out laughing. for her sake hope she was lying cause wallah ive been to weddings that looked exactly lik hers, typical somali wedding, that ws done for much less.

the best way to do it is: mehr, small nikkah, if you INSIST a small wedding cause why pay for a glorified party for a bunch of bored somali women, then invest it all into your new life together, and travel with ur new mahram

whoever marries me is lucky cause wallah im not with that whole princess wedding once in a life stuff.

Ya don't understand why some women want a crazy expensive wedding that put her and her future husband in debt.

 

[KobeBryant]

youd be suprised at wedding costs. the worst thing is, no offense to my soomaliyeen, but compared to other ethnicities our weddings look cheap and dont scream lavish or sophisticated. which is ironic cause some somalis spend an absurd amount just for it to look like any old faarax and xalimos wedding at the communtiy hall.

one girl was doing a Q&A on her wedding on somalibridal snapchat and she said her man spent 40k on the wedding i burst out laughing. for her sake hope she was lying cause wallah ive been to weddings that looked exactly lik hers, typical somali wedding, that ws done for much less.

the best way to do it is: mehr, small nikkah, if you INSIST a small wedding cause why pay for a glorified party for a bunch of bored somali women, then invest it all into your new life together, and travel with ur new mahram

whoever marries me is lucky cause wallah im not with that whole princess wedding once in a life stuff.

Consider you’re wedding in Hargeisa

 

[pirater]

props to him for avoiding zina. But 23 is very young to have a kid. Did he even finish uni. Does he even have a job?

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Good on him
And 23 is not young

 

[Malikfiqi]

We were young Faradheer's back home. Minds on clouds, we were talking about we're gonna make it, and change our country's fate for the next hundred years!

Sadly, we've lost in touch for a little decade. Only, between two times we've seen each other back; in 2014 and 2015!
Still, young, wild, and free. Today, that i'm rejoicing the last year of Uni, and probably going back home (for pro reasons).
But somehow, I've got beaten by quaky news; my best friend, of Sudanese-Somali origins, got married and his wife has a child of him.

My first reaction was to take off my invisible headphone and listen carefully. Before even understanding what my mother just said,
I picture him as a father. Can't imagine my brother is already a dad! At only 23 years old!

Niggas are really horny at this point

My mother asked me if I'm going to have children.
If only she knew that I'm planning on being child-free.

Kids deserve a loving parent, I haven't even finished my school's

23??? Why did he wait so long

 

[4head]

23??? Why did he wait so long

 

[4head]

Good on him
And 23 is not young

Marrying young,
Divorcing young.

I don't believe in youth marriage. People should marry old, in their mid-30s and 40s.

 

[4head]

props to him for avoiding zina. But 23 is very young to have a kid. Did he even finish uni. Does he even have a job?

He's from a well-off family. I hope he won't have to divorce early

 

[4head]

Consider you’re wedding in Hargeisa

Better dead than getting married in Somaliland

 

[4head]

youd be suprised at wedding costs. the worst thing is, no offense to my soomaliyeen, but compared to other ethnicities our weddings look cheap and dont scream lavish or sophisticated. which is ironic cause some somalis spend an absurd amount just for it to look like any old faarax and xalimos wedding at the communtiy hall.

one girl was doing a Q&A on her wedding on somalibridal snapchat and she said her man spent 40k on the wedding i burst out laughing. for her sake hope she was lying cause wallah ive been to weddings that looked exactly lik hers, typical somali wedding, that ws done for much less.

the best way to do it is: mehr, small nikkah, if you INSIST a small wedding cause why pay for a glorified party for a bunch of bored somali women, then invest it all into your new life together, and travel with ur new mahram

whoever marries me is lucky cause wallah im not with that whole princess wedding once in a life stuff.

I agree sxb. I went to many weddings back home. It's all noisy, nothing uniquely Somali.

Afar and Arab weddings are lit tbh. Everyone here should go to an Afar wedding. They have great taste in food and entertainment,
whereas Somalis weddings are

 

[@shininglight]

props to him for avoiding zina. But 23 is very young to have a kid. Did he even finish uni. Does he even have a job?

Isn't zina in marriages only?

 

[pirater]

Isn't zina in marriages only?

zina = unmarried sex (sex before marriage) and is haram. so he avoided it by just getting married

 

[@shininglight]

zina = unmarried sex (sex before marriage) and is haram. so he avoided it by just getting married

So we're not allowed 2 experiment b4 marriage? Damn that's tough

 

[pirater]

So we're not allowed 2 experiment b4 marriage? Damn that's tough

damn you didn't know that. depressing not going to lie.

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[4head]

So we're not allowed 2 experiment b4 marriage? Damn that's tough

damn you didn't know that. depressing not going to lie.

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Zina is a cute girl's name to mark on a booty

 

[@shininglight]

Zina is a cute girl's name to mark on a booty