Men prey on useful women

[Yaraye]

Ladies when you're getting to know a man for marriage, never lead with how useful you are. Always tell them that you got a great deen and great personality. That's it. Even better if you can portray yourself as useless lol

 

[AbdiFreedom]

Ladies when you're getting to know a man for marriage, never lead with how useful you are. Always tell them that you got a great deen and great personality. That's it. Even better if you can portray yourself as useless lol

People will come to their own conclusion as to whether you are religious and have a good personality.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Men like to feel useful and needed. You have to pretend to be helpless and ask a man to fix something for you and he will fall in love

 

[layliee]

even though they try to hide it men are very emotional creatures they don’t like the idea of their missus being more successful than them or better it makes them feel emasculated.

which confuses me why they seek out these types of women. they decide after marriage that they only want women who can cook, clean, and care after children.

 

[empressjamila]

Ladies when you're getting to know a man for marriage, never lead with how useful you are. Always tell them that you got a great deen and great personality. That's it. Even better if you can portray yourself as useless lol

I agree. You don’t want to marry a guy who is only thinking of how he can benefit from you.

I enjoy cooking and I’m good at it but I don’t tell guys I’m talking to that anymore. They get so weird when you tell them too, they’re all like “cook something for me” “You’re wifey fr I can’t wait for you to make me a good meal every day when we get married”. Yea no.

Now I say, I don’t know how to boil water.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

even though they try to hide it men are very emotional creatures they don’t like the idea of their missus being more successful than them or better it makes them feel emasculated.

which confuses me why they seek out these types of women. they decide after marriage that they only want women who can cook, clean, and care after children.

men go after ambitious women for their spirit and joie de vivre and then aspire to change them into a subservient wife. I don’t understand why they don’t go for the type of women they want from the jump

 

[Yaraye]

Men like to feel useful and needed. You have to pretend to be helpless and ask a man to fix something for you and he will fall in love

I don't care enough about their feelings to think that route. It was more along the line of men will expect you to clean and cook after advertising your usefulness

 

[Yaraye]

even though they try to hide it men are very emotional creatures they don’t like the idea of their missus being more successful than them or better it makes them feel emasculated.

which confuses me why they seek out these types of women. they decide after marriage that they only want women who can cook, clean, and care after children.

The men today have the audacity to expect to get someone who is all of these traits put together.

 

[Basra]

Ladies when you're getting to know a man for marriage, never lead with how useful you are. Always tell them that you got a great deen and great personality. That's it. Even better if you can portray yourself as useless lol

Men like a maid and a nurse as a wife. The recent Golden Bachelor reality is proof of my point. Gerry-72 yo chose 70 yo fit- very thin- and very nurturing contestant -Theresa. Not to mention- she is the smallest, petite of them all. Like i always said- a Man is a very, very simple creature.

 

[Yaraye]

I agree. You don’t want to marry a guy who is only thinking of how he can benefit from you.

I enjoy cooking and I’m good at it but I don’t tell guys I’m talking to that anymore. They get so weird when you tell them too, they’re all like “cook something for me” “You’re wifey fr I can’t wait for you to make me a good meal every day when we get married”. Yea no.

Now I say, I don’t know how to boil water.

Exactly!! They will expect you to be useful. I enjoy cooking but hate cleaning. If I ever get to know a man for marriage, I will never advertise my skills it to him. I got no intentions of doing housework. I'm useless blob with good deen sir!

 

[Yaraye]

Men like a maid and a nurse as a wife. The recent Golden Bachelor reality is proof of my point. Gerry-72 yo chose 70 yo fit- very thin- and very nurturing contestant -Theresa. Not to mention- she is the smallest, petite of them all. Like i always said- a Man is a very, very simple creature.

You truly are a jin! Golden Bachelor inspired this thread

 

[Yaraye]

People will come to their own conclusion as to whether you are religious and have a good personality.

How would they know?

 

[Basra]

How would they know?

Abdifreedom is right. U can't fake religiosity and good personality. But it is not impossible. Lot of people divorced quickly after real personality emerged right after the marriage and a baby produced

 

[JustSomeGuy]

I agree. You don’t want to marry a guy who is only thinking of how he can benefit from you.

I enjoy cooking and I’m good at it but I don’t tell guys I’m talking to that anymore. They get so weird when you tell them too, they’re all like “cook something for me” “You’re wifey fr I can’t wait for you to make me a good meal every day when we get married”. Yea no.

Now I say, I don’t know how to boil water.

Isn't it better to tell them you only know the basics? I doubt 95% of men are gonna marry a woman who can't cook at all

 

[JustSomeGuy]

How would they know?

Networking would be me guess.

 

[Internet Nomad]

Your right men prey on useful women and so you should self sabotage yourself and say you cant cook and clean you have a bad personality and a problem with basic hygiene. You cant walk and partially deaf and blind in one eye.

To make sure he is not using you at tell him that you have severe ptsd and night tremors.

 

[Kalsoon]

Ladies when you're getting to know a man for marriage, never lead with how useful you are. Always tell them that you got a great deen and great personality. That's it. Even better if you can portray yourself as useless lol

Where did you hear this from

 

[Nin123]

even though they try to hide it men are very emotional creatures they don’t like the idea of their missus being more successful than them or better it makes them feel emasculated.

which confuses me why they seek out these types of women. they decide after marriage that they only want women who can cook, clean, and care after children.

Women supposed to know how to cook, clean and take care of the children that’s her job.

 

[Wervelwind]

which confuses me why they seek out these types of women. they decide after marriage that they only want women who can cook, clean, and care after children.

What do you mean by 'only'. That's a blessed woman

 

[SaMale]

What do you mean by 'only'. That's a blessed woman

Beyond blessed, a one in a hundred million trillion