Marriage isn't that great as they talk about it

[Hailu]

Many of the men who tell you to get married are looking for someone to share the pain with. There is no benefit to it. First what a man has to decide is if he needs kids or not and then can he satisfy his sexual needs without a wife.


1, What are the benefits of a kid, absolutely nothing. The number one thing Somalis say is they will take care of me when I get older but have you seen old people. They are mostly alone. The second thing is passing your genes but what is the use to spend all that money. In 2 generations after you die your kid will only share 25% percent of your DNA but guess what, my sister's kid and I share 25% percent of DNA. It's better to be single and without children because technology is growing and soon we will have robots taking care of us and self driving cars. No need to waste money on useless kids.

2. Sexual needs: There is a reason we have , prostitutes and escorts. Use protection and you won't likely get anything and if you are afraid of escorts or prostitutes then there is for you. Technology is once again growing and we might see an android sex doll in the future near, Married people with kids have zero amount of sex so, getting married is another waste.

3. Save money and spend it on yourself. It might seem selfish but what is so, selfish about wanting to keep everything you earn and spend it on yourself only. Women like to boss you around and when you are single then you have nobody to boss you around. Nobody can steal from you nor can she take 50% percent of your stuff when you get divorced.


The last reason

Over 50% percent of marriages end in divorce within 1 year.........

 

[The Cushitic One]

Use prostitutes?

When you're old, who's going to be
There, for you? No one straight too
The old peoples home you go!

 

[Transparent]

I want to get married for these reasons,a wife to love,sex,companion in which I could always rely on and kids.
Now the reason why I want to have kids is to leave behind a legacy and impart the knowledge I gained in this life to the younger generation.Furthermore having kids gives you a sense of responsibility and accelerates the transition from being a boy to becoming a man.

 

[Transparent]

And I forgot to mention that I want to complete half my deen and prostitutes will certainly not do that.

 

[Hailu]

I want to get married for these reasons,a wife to love,sex,companion in which I could always rely on and kids.
Now the reason why I want to have kids is to leave behind a legacy and impart the knowledge I gained in this life to the younger generation.Furthermore having kids gives you a sense of responsibility and accelerates the transition from being a boy to becoming a man.

Bro a girl isn't just going to merry you out of nowhere but I advice you to first practice on foreign girls. It's much easier. I lost my virginity to this cute mixed girl when I was 16. Who the hell do you think is going to merry you a girl? This is the west not Somalia so, your parents can't do anything for you.

 

[Transparent]

Bro a girl isn't just going to merry you out of nowhere but I advice you to first practice on foreign girls. It's much easier. I lost my virginity to this cute mixed girl when I was 16. Who the hell do you think is going to merry you a girl? This is the west not Somalia so, your parents can't do anything for you.

Lol you clearly don't know much do you.Even though we live in a western society my parents can easily find me a potential spouse and I can decide whether we are compatible or not lol.At the end of the day your parents know what's best for you,it took me a while to figure that out and it was indeed a tough pill to swallow,but at the end of the day it is was it is.

 

[Transparent]

And marriage is more than just busting a nut,I want to have a long term, deep, emtional and physical connection with someone and that can only be achieved through marriage in a lawful manner.

 

[Hailu]

And I forgot to mention that I want to complete half my deen and prostitutes will certainly not do that.

My fellow yo

And marriage is more than just busting a nut,I want to have a long term, deep, emtional and physical connection with someone and that can only be achieved through marriage in a lawful manner.

If you can't talk to a girl then you aren't a man. You need your parents for everything so, when mommy or daddy die then what is coming for you? Be a man and approach any cute black or white girl and ask them whether they have time and insist it has to be as soon as possible to get to know each other. Make sure you know this person before you ask them. You need to control the environment and make it as relaxing as possible.

 

[Transparent]

My fellow yo

If you can't talk to a girl then you aren't a man. You need your parents for everything so, when mommy or daddy die then what is coming for you? Be a man and approach any cute black or white girl and ask them whether they have time and insist it has to be as soon as possible to get to know each other. Make sure you know this person before you ask them. You need to control the environment and make it as relaxing as possible.

Bro I have no problem with approaching girls,that's a pretty ridiculous assumption.I actually speak to girls but none are marriage material.The thing is when I find a girl that is marriage material and suss her out through talking I will not hesitate to involve my parents in the process.I want to go through a system that preserves the honour of myself and my wife without conflicting with the rights of each respective family.All in all I will do the approaching and scouting and when shit gets real I won't hesitate to notify my parents.

 

[Axmed Xaji]

Marriage is a way to normalize what every male relative of a woman fears the most: them being seen naked and penetrated. It's a weird mental trick where that thing they were terrified of is not as bad anymore because it's ONE man doing it. This is slightly better than leaving them to have sex with randos and potentially be harmed.

 

[Dhay Geel]

Getting married is the best thing that has happened to me, those who are married can agree with me.

 

[Hailu]

Bro I have no problem with approaching girls,that's a pretty ridiculous assumption.I actually speak to girls but none are marriage material.The thing is when I find a girl that is marriage material and suss her out through talking I will not hesitate to involve my parents in the process.I want to go through a system that preserves the honour of myself and my wife without conflicting with the rights of each respective family.All in all I will do the approaching and scouting and when shit gets real I won't hesitate to notify my parents.

Who cares about marriage material, you need enough one night stands to build your confidence. Believe me it took years before I approached a Somali girl because they terrified me. Foreign women are just better and much easier to talk to. I have a rule and that is give a girl 3 days before we have sex and if she doesn't then I cut all attention from her. Time is important to me and I don't waste any.

 

[Transparent]

Who cares about marriage material, you need enough one night stands to build your confidence. Believe me it took years before I approached a Somali girl because they terrified me. Foreign women are just better and much easier to talk to. I have a rule to give a girl 3 days before we have sex and if she doesn't then I cut all attention from her. Time is important to me and I don't waste any.

im not like you mate I have a pretty good sense of humour and if I see a hot xalimo I would not hesitate to hit her up.Furthermore I'm not promiscuous in fact I'm a virgin and I'd like to keep it that way.We are on 2 completely separate paths,the things that apply to you do not necessarily apply to me.

 

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Djibouti sent a neef to this forum.

 

[Transparent]

Djibouti sent a neef to this forum.

Look at these niggas trying to normalise zina

 

[John Michael]

You get out of marriage what you put in.


If you don't put in effort it'll be a nightmare but if you do dedicate some time and effort it's the best. Ditto for children.

It's an enigma because bin Adam will never fully be happy and I don't think we can be in this life. If you stay single for the rest of your life you'll have fomo gnawing away at you, responsibility and obstacles bring out the best in humanity BUT we are also deeply lazy and enjoy taking the easy way out.

It's your choice in the end. Who knows tomorrow could be your last day on earth, why waste time agonizing over this? Robots kulaha.kkkkkk

 

[AbdiJew]

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[Transparent]

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Finally a post where I actually agree with you ya cabdi.

 

[John Michael]

And marriage is more than just busting a nut,I want to have a long term, deep, emtional and physical connection with someone and that can only be achieved through marriage in a lawful manner.

When a 17 year old is teaching you @Hailu, it's time to reflect on life. Loooooooooooool

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[Hailu]

When a 17 year old is teaching you @Hailu, it's time to reflect on life. Loooooooooooool

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What kind of a man needs emotional support from a woman and where did this guy get advice from? You never tell a woman your secrets because when you two have problems then she will use it against you. There is a reason we have therapists. I'm leading a new kind of life in the 21st century but I seem weird in Somali society but I'm perfection in Japan or South Korea. Focus on the money and your ambitions.