Man gets dumped after opening up to his girlfriend.

[BlackManActivist]

https://www.reddit.com/r/self/s/nmntGn7Lxj

 

[Do]

A classic tale.

 

[Keep it a boqol]

Alhamdulilah he dodged a bullet imagine marrying a person like that and there comes a time when you have to depended on them, they’ll leave in a heartbeat

 

[Kizaru]

Damn
It's a warning folks, keep your shit to you and yourself and your mind

 

[The Oponian Guild]

Talk to your parents or siblings if there’s something bothering you, that’s what family is there for.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

There are plenty of people who are not meant to be in a relationship, because they are toxic and hold archaic views. The reason why men thrive in marriage, is BECAUSE they can confide in their wives, and studies have shown, that married men tend to be healthier and live longer.

Don't bottle your feelings, but then again, you need to learn to recognise who is worthy of confiding in.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Talk to your parents or siblings if there’s something bothering you, that’s what family is there for.

Your wife / husband is also your family, and the Qur'aan tells us,

“They (women) are garments for you (men) and you are garments for them” [2:187]

Remember how the Prophet SAW, had Khadija (AS), as his FIRST and biggest supporter?

This is what a healthy relationship is supposed to be.

 

[Zob]

Soo many feminist females complain about men 'not being vulnerable enough' and often berate them about it. Then when they do, you get this *shrugs*.

 

[Omar del Sur]

 

[Shakespeare_aabihiis]

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[NidarNidar]

He dodged a bullet, I would see this as a blessing, I knew a guy who killed himself because his GF dumped him, and another who got psychosis.

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[empressjamila]

I had a similar thing happen to me (not dumped, but it was thrown back in my face to hurt me during an argument). Now I keep my traumas to myself and illahi

Never again will I confide in another person who is not a therapist. Most people are very insensitive and will throw trauma back in your face, or view you, and treat you differently because of it

 

[Rayaale]

Damn
It's a warning folks, keep your shit to you and yourself and your mind

Somehow women say they like an emotional man or one who opens up

 

[Kane]

There are plenty of people who are not meant to be in a relationship, because they are toxic and hold archaic views. The reason why men thrive in marriage, is BECAUSE they can confide in their wives, and studies have shown, that married men tend to be healthier and live longer.

Don't bottle your feelings, but then again, you need to learn to recognise who is worthy of confiding in.

if I remember correctly, you have repeatedly complained, about men dumping their emotions on women.

And now you are judging a woman for leaving just such a man?

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

if I remember correctly, you have repeatedly complained, about men dumping their emotions on women.

And now you are judging a woman for leaving just such a man?

I was talking about men using women as therapists during the dating stage, not leaving room for the woman to express herself. I am referring to the type to go on a monologue about themselves.

This is not to be confused with a man, that has the ability to also allow a woman a safe space for communication.

 

[Keep it a boqol]

if I remember correctly, you have repeatedly complained, about men dumping their emotions on women.

And now you are judging a woman for leaving just such a man?

I was talking about men using women as therapists during the dating stage, not leaving room for the woman to express herself. I am referring to the type to go on a monologue about themselves.

This is not to be confused with a man, that has the ability to also allow a woman a safe space for communication.

Some women claim they want an emotional intelligent man but arnt ready to handle one because it requires them to have accountability, to listen and be receptive and not be petty and immature

If a potential ever disrespects your feelings or what your going thru or issues in a relationship when you try to talk to them, kick them to the curb. You’ve successfully filtered out who actually cares for you and who doesn’t

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Some women claim they want an emotional intelligent man but arnt ready to handle one because it requires them to have accountability, to listen and be receptive and not be petty and immature

If a potential ever disrespects your feelings or what your going thru or issues in a relationship when you try to talk to you kick them to the curb. You’ve successfully filtered out who actually cares for you and who doesn’t

They're probably also the type that uses that information as a weapon during an argument. That's grounds for divorce in my opinion. That's why there are people who are afraid to open up, because of these sick people.

 

[HuunoHunter]

Your wife / husband is also your family, and the Qur'aan tells us,




Remember how the Prophet SAW, had Khadija (AS), as his FIRST and biggest supporter?

This is what a healthy relationship is supposed to be.

Exactly the Prophet SAW was very vulnerable with the Khadija RA especially when he first had his revelations, when he cried out to her to cover him and embrace him due to being in distress and in shock of what happened.

 

[Geeljire lotus]

He sounds like a

 

[Kalsoon]

Soo many feminist females complain about men 'not being vulnerable enough' and often berate them about it. Then when they do, you get this *shrugs*.

Only way to get this reaction is if she isn’t emotionally mature or isn’t genuinely into that man more than surface level. A women will do her best for who she deems worthy (to her) so she doesn’t lose him in any way.

This is why men should be more selective on women. Just as some women dress for the male gaze, they would fix up in this regard if they knew men valued women more for being emotionally mature.