Lying to get a girl

[Mercury]

There is a somali saying that says naag been baa lagu xera galiyaa...runa waalagu dhaqaa

Basically lie as much as possible its when she marries you that she Will see the truth

Do you agree with that saying?

 

[Factz]

The Somali woman is stupid then. She must check him out before she marries him. So if he makes a claim he works at this place, she must check it out or see his details. If he claims he's rich, she must check out his bank details. If he claims he has this car, she must see that car. If he claims he's tall and muscular, she must go see him and whatever else he claims, she needs to see the receipts, etc.

You can't be this brain dead if you don't know anything about the person you're marrying to.

 

[Kodeen]

Depends on the lie and the intentions imo

 

[Mercury]

The Somali woman is stupid then. She must check him out before she marries him. So if he makes a claim he works at this place, she must check it out or see his details. If he claims he's rich, she must check out his bank details. If he claims he has this car, she must see that car. If he claims he's tall and muscular, she must go see him and whatever else he claims, she needs to see the receipts, etc.

You can't be this brain dead if you don't know anything about the person you're marrying to.

Well here it’s easier to find out but I was thinking back home someone can make a claim he owns the store he works in or some shit

 

[Cumar]

There is a somali saying that says naag been baa lagu xera galiyaa...runa waalagu dhaqaa

Basically lie as much as possible its when she marries you that she Will see the truth

Do you agree with that saying?

If she chooses to believe the lie and not do her due diligence that's on her.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

If this qumayo asked me can i cook, i would lie through my teeth order some take away and pull it out the oven as soon as she came in

We in this till the day that we die survival of the fittest only the strong survive.

 

[Mckenzie]

If this qumayo asked me can i cook, i would lie through my teeth order some take away and pull it out the oven as soon as she came in View attachment 55675
We in this till the day that we die survival of the fittest only the strong survive.

I'd tell her i'm strapped with a million, call my boy to bang AC and transfer the funds to show her

 

[Western4Life]

You don't need to lie. Just be yourself. Someone will end up wanting to be with you if you are not avoiding interactions and dont fear rejection. Besides, people who lie then tend to be liars and will lie about anything to their spouse. It can end badly.

 

[TheChauvinist]

The Somali woman is stupid then. She must check him out before she marries him. So if he makes a claim he works at this place, she must check it out or see his details. If he claims he's rich, she must check out his bank details. If he claims he has this car, she must see that car. If he claims he's tall and muscular, she must go see him and whatever else he claims, she needs to see the receipts, etc.

You can't be this brain dead if you don't know anything about the person you're marrying to.

It's basic common sense. But don't expect a mangina like @Mercury to understand this. He is here to paint an image of Somali girls being faultless angels and Somali men being evil devils.

In the other thread he tried to equate Somali boys with Somali girls like we are the same gender. I asked him ''If Somali girls don't recieve attention and protection will they become drug dealers?''

And he didnt even reply one bit to that. I've noticed in other threads whenever Somali girls get criticized he comes in running with his fanny pack filled with deflections ''When is the last time Somali guy cooked Baariis?''

 

[esmailxxx]

This is universal not only somali,wtf?!!!! Every man lies to get the girl,especially if the guy is a player/f*ck boy,dont the OP know this already???
In islam you are allowed to lie in 2 situation to your enemy in war,to your spouse so you dont hurt their feeling like baby you are not fat and also when you are trying to marry a girl
The british “all is fair in love and war”
Sun tzu “ war is deception,you have to lie to win”

 

[Muji]

@Cumar
It’s not so much that they lie about their wealth. It’s more that they put up an act of being honest, , kind, trustworthy, different from other guys...

When in reality they are usually extremely sexist and controlling. I always say to xalimos don’t go off what he tells you. Watch the way he behaves around his sisters and how treated his exes.

I know a xalimo who married a guy. He was keen to get married ASAP (already a red flag) and he started to beat her up once they got married despite acting like an angel during the courting stage.

But whilst saying that, sometimes all the red flags might be there but a woman will ignore it thinking she can change him

 

[Mercury]

This is universal not only somali,wtf?!!!! Every man lies to get the girl,especially if the guy is a player/f*ck boy,dont the OP know this already???
In islam you are allowed to lie in 2 situation to your enemy in war,to your spouse so you dont hurt their feeling like baby you are not fat and also when you are trying to marry a girl
The british “all is fair in love and war”
Sun tzu “ war is deception,you have to lie to win”

I don’t agree that you have to lie to get the girl imo being honest is a trait that’s rare these days and no lies keep the relationship smooth

 

[esmailxxx]

I don’t agree that you have to lie to get the girl imo being honest is a trait that’s rare these days and no lies keep the relationship smooth

then you never meet a girl that you would do anything to get before

 

[Mercury]

then you never meet a girl that you would anything to get before

I never been that desperate

 

[esmailxxx]

I never been that desperate

its not about being desperate,anyway ok you are different

 

[Mercury]

It's basic common sense. But don't expect a mangina like @Mercury to understand this. He is here to paint an image of Somali girls being faultless angels and Somali men being evil devils.

In the other thread he tried to equate Somali boys with Somali girls like we are the same gender. I asked him ''If Somali girls don't recieve attention and protection will they become drug dealers?''

And he didnt even reply one bit to that. I've noticed in other threads whenever Somali girls get criticized he comes in running with his fanny pack filled with deflections ''When is the last time Somali guy cooked Baariis?''

So you’re acting all emotional cause I didn’t reply back ?

 

[TheChauvinist]

So you’re acting all emotional cause I didn’t reply back ?

Are you going to answer my question or? If Somali girls don't recieve attention and protection will they become drug dealers?

 

[Neslihan]

Any relationship built on lie is like to build on shaky foundation

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Are you going to answer my question or? If Somali girls don't recieve attention and protection will they become drug dealers?

How you reply back 2 months later

 

[TheChauvinist]

How you reply back 2 months later

I replied to the posts in my notification. I have been gone from this site for 2 months.

Mercury is a self loathing male thats why he is dodging the question because it exposes him.