Living in Somalia vs Living in America

[Somalia Ha Noolato]

Life in America is great in many ways (if you are not lazy) however, from my perspective as a Somali, there's a two-fer negative you face:

--Feeling the same alienation everyone else feels in a modern society.
--Being alien (though I adore my Somalinimo.)

I CANNOT bare the thought of more decades of this lifestyle. Yes, many Somalis back home would envy what I have (it isn't much but it's a lot to the perspective of someone back home) however all that shines is not gold friends.

On the other hand, I'm fearful of Somalia, and not because of the material scarcity, but because of the dysfunction. Reading about men like Bixi, Deni, Madobe etc fills me with such rage. I can't believe these low IQ doqons are the leaders of anybody. The dysfunction of a society that has these types as leaders is beyond imagination.

What to do, what to do...

 

[ReerVanCadde]

Don't be lazy and stay in America
Solved

 

[Octavian]

safe some money get a degree move back home simple

 

[Somalia Ha Noolato]

Don't be lazy and stay in America
Solved

I put that there to be realistic about the workaholic lifestyle here (and it does happen that I live in a major coastal region that's a job hub), not implying anything about my habits.

 

[Ras]

Why not have the best of both worlds. Just visit Somalia every odd year and stay there for 6 months.

 

[Somalia Ha Noolato]

safe some money get a degree move back home simple

Yes but then I'd have to be ruled by those moroyaans. I'd seriously get in trouble and would get drawn into insurrectionist violence.

 

[Somali Napolean]

You also need to realize that there are vast cultural differences between USA and America within the somali community. But that might change as people become more educated and western influences find their way inside.

As it currently stands USA has far more avenues for personal growth than Somali does but that might change if the FGS can get itself together and accelerate security and development.

 

[Somalia Ha Noolato]

Why not have the best of both worlds. Just visit Somalia every odd year and stay there for 6 months.

Yea I'm in the "talking stages" now with the girl I might marry who is back home, I might just raise my family there and just rotate between there and here.

 

[ReerVanCadde]

Yea I'm in the "talking stages" now with the girl I might marry who is back home, I might just raise my family there and just rotate between there and here.

How often do you talk?

 

[Somalia Ha Noolato]

How often do you talk?

Every night.

Inshallah I will marry her.

Quick question, you guys: How can I delicately bring up the matter of a "virginity test"?

No intact hymen, no ring.

 

[Dooyo]

Every night.

Inshallah I will marry her.

Quick question, you guys: How can I delicately bring up the matter of a "virginity test"?

No intact hymen, no ring.

Did you know that some women break their hymen without intercourse? Or that some women aren't even BORN with a hymen?

The more you know...

 

[Benzo]

Did you know that some women break their hymen without intercourse? Or that some women aren't even BORN with a hymen?

The more you know...

Who’s dumb enough to believe that

 

[repo]

Who’s dumb enough to believe that

A woman can break her hymen by riding a bike.

 

[Dooyo]

Who’s dumb enough to believe that

Does It Hurt When Your Hymen Breaks?

A lot of people assume the hymen "breaks" when you have penetrative sex for the first time — but this isn't true. Your hymen develops openings that allow for penetration long before your first sexual experience. Here's what you need to know.

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The more you learn...

 

[Asaana]

Have you ever been to Kenya before? It's quite developed (for African standards) and is growing nicely. Not to mention it has a very large Somali community.

 

[Marshall D Abdi]

A woman can break her hymen by riding a bike.

Hymen nikka what

 

[Benzo]

Does It Hurt When Your Hymen Breaks?

A lot of people assume the hymen "breaks" when you have penetrative sex for the first time — but this isn't true. Your hymen develops openings that allow for penetration long before your first sexual experience. Here's what you need to know.

www.healthline.com

The more you learn...

A woman can break her hymen by riding a bike.

How many Somali women are out here riding bikes, horses and doing vigorous exercise to be breaking their hymen like that? I don’t think I’ve ever seen a Somali girl on a bike.

Girls use this argument because they want xalimos who sleep around to get wifed up.
@Somalia Ha Noolato don’t fall for this trick bro.

 

[karkaar]

Dont go to somali permanently unless you have shit set up there.Use your American dollars to build houses, start a business like a cafe or something.In the meantime whilst you're saving your dollars marry the girl you're talking to, spend a couple months with her every year and spend the rest of the year grinding,Once you have enough property or income coming in you can stay in somalia,travel around other African countries and raise your kids.

 

[Somalia Ha Noolato]

Dont go to somali permanently unless you have shit set up there.Use your American dollars to build houses, start a business like a cafe or something.In the meantime whilst you're saving your dollars marry the girl you're talking to, spend a couple months with her every year and spend the rest of the year grinding,Once you have enough property or income coming in you can stay in somalia,travel around other African countries and raise your kids.

Thanks! I will sincerely do this!

I also have interests of becoming a teacher.

(my educational background is IT)

 

[Whatq]

Yea I'm in the "talking stages" now with the girl I might marry who is back home, I might just raise my family there and just rotate between there and here.

Me and my fiance are planning to move there in 5 years inshallah