Nomad2054
There is nothing permanent except change.
too many threads to count have been made about somali women , in reality the issue is not about somali women but rather some somali men themselves. before getting serious about life us men have a need to taste all the flavour of the rainbow, for a man this period lasts between the ages of 17 to 35, or in extreme cases until one loses their mojo, i personally know a few adeers 50+ who are stilling hitting up 25 year olds
. i have had them consult me at one time or another, i mean even Ronaldo Needed Zizu to get those 3 Champions league cups right!!
hooking up is one of the easiest thing a man can do in 2018, and for some its even an ego boost to soften the blows of life, but for others this is mission impossible, i will try to give reasons as to why that is.
1) being a tattletale:
(60%) of somali men fall into this category, at15 thats cool because even talking to a girl is an accomplishment, but there is nothing more pathetic than a grown man vividly describe his encounter with asho next door, just to score some points with the guys. if the girl was nice enough to let you feast be grateful and leave it at that.
2) 0 Game:
i cant name the number of times i have witnessed a brother approach a girl with a (abaayo/walaal/Huuno) i mean what the hell, are you trying to play her substitute brother when her blood brother aint around.
we have all heard of friend zone this is worst than that.
lack of situational awareness is something most men have a problem with, one cannot approach a girl at a xaflad, like the one at the bus stop, one style alone will not always work.
your suppose to have some understand of her type before you even mouth a word, and if you cant, go with the flow by switching up styles as you read her body language for a reaction. being funny always works, and most somali guys are ridiculous funny around the homeys and ajinabi women, but for some reason lose their wit around halimos.
if the last point is an issue for you fix it by befriend a lot of halimos, practise on them even allow them to help you out, cause there is nothing better then inside information you know what i am saying.
3) appearance: Shape/ Dress code:
a lot of the brothers are either skinny, fat or even worst skinny fat, if you cant invest just 90 minutes out of 10,080 minutes a week to hit the weights and improve your self confidence and your manliness, how do you expect a woman to give you the time of day??.
one can spend money on everything useless from drugs, fast food to unnecessary subscriptions, but when it comes to a good diet well thats too expensive, again you dont invest in yourself cause you dont see any worth, yet you expect others to see in you what you dont.
i know some brother who find fashion to be something that should only concern women, i mean who are you trying to attract other men lool dress up for every occasion like your shooting a movie.
we were warned that a time would come when a man would be judged by the way he dresses over the content of his character, we are in that time now, so get with it.
4) Rolling within a herd:
nothing makes you look weaker than rolling within a herd of people of the same sex, unless you got business to settle with another group, you and a wing is best but i would say being lone wolf is even better.
if you are rolling deep say goodbye to women and hello to the attention of other men, mission fail lool.
5) lack of material wealth- Money/ Car/ your own place:
if you got money problems then what can you really accomplish nothing, if you dont have your own place where are you going to invite people to. car is actually not that important but its a plus specially if youre a night rider.
i could have written a lot more but this is the basic, now hypothetically lets say you check all the 5 points above how on earth can you complain about anything, you would be so busy eating that you would have no time for hate.
its easier to blame others for your shortcomings but at the end of the day its all in your hands.
so either you level up or complain from the sidelines there is no third option.
. i have had them consult me at one time or another, i mean even Ronaldo Needed Zizu to get those 3 Champions league cups right!!hooking up is one of the easiest thing a man can do in 2018, and for some its even an ego boost to soften the blows of life, but for others this is mission impossible, i will try to give reasons as to why that is.
1) being a tattletale:
(60%) of somali men fall into this category, at15 thats cool because even talking to a girl is an accomplishment, but there is nothing more pathetic than a grown man vividly describe his encounter with asho next door, just to score some points with the guys. if the girl was nice enough to let you feast be grateful and leave it at that.
2) 0 Game:
i cant name the number of times i have witnessed a brother approach a girl with a (abaayo/walaal/Huuno) i mean what the hell, are you trying to play her substitute brother when her blood brother aint around
.we have all heard of friend zone this is worst than that.
lack of situational awareness is something most men have a problem with, one cannot approach a girl at a xaflad, like the one at the bus stop, one style alone will not always work.
your suppose to have some understand of her type before you even mouth a word, and if you cant, go with the flow by switching up styles as you read her body language for a reaction. being funny always works, and most somali guys are ridiculous funny around the homeys and ajinabi women, but for some reason lose their wit around halimos.
if the last point is an issue for you fix it by befriend a lot of halimos, practise on them even allow them to help you out, cause there is nothing better then inside information you know what i am saying.
3) appearance: Shape/ Dress code:
a lot of the brothers are either skinny, fat or even worst skinny fat, if you cant invest just 90 minutes out of 10,080 minutes a week to hit the weights and improve your self confidence and your manliness, how do you expect a woman to give you the time of day??.
one can spend money on everything useless from drugs, fast food to unnecessary subscriptions, but when it comes to a good diet well thats too expensive, again you dont invest in yourself cause you dont see any worth, yet you expect others to see in you what you dont.
i know some brother who find fashion to be something that should only concern women, i mean who are you trying to attract other men lool dress up for every occasion like your shooting a movie.
we were warned that a time would come when a man would be judged by the way he dresses over the content of his character, we are in that time now, so get with it.
4) Rolling within a herd:
nothing makes you look weaker than rolling within a herd of people of the same sex, unless you got business to settle with another group, you and a wing is best but i would say being lone wolf is even better.
if you are rolling deep say goodbye to women and hello to the attention of other men, mission fail lool.
5) lack of material wealth- Money/ Car/ your own place:
if you got money problems then what can you really accomplish nothing, if you dont have your own place where are you going to invite people to. car is actually not that important but its a plus specially if youre a night rider.
i could have written a lot more but this is the basic, now hypothetically lets say you check all the 5 points above how on earth can you complain about anything, you would be so busy eating that you would have no time for hate.
its easier to blame others for your shortcomings but at the end of the day its all in your hands.
so either you level up or complain from the sidelines there is no third option.
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