Let me tell you a story of a 40 year old arab woman who never got married and her reason

When she was born her father use to take her away from her mother by force and leave her in alleys in-hopes of strangers taking her, because he didn't want a daughter because of the image he had of women.

Sadly for him though, nobody saw her or took her so he use to bring her back after each failed attempt he eventually gave up while thinking of burring her alive.
Fortunately he never acted on it he had 3 other sons, 2 before his daughter and 1 after her.

Raising his kids he didn't show his daughter love or treatment compared to his sons.

While her brothers went to school and went on with their lives, she never went to school, or became anything in life.

She was just in the kitchen for her family because a woman is just something for sex and reproduction at the end of the day.😑

All he focused on was making sure she's locked away from the world in a house, and doesn't become a ho* because then men won't marry her for not being a virgin, or he won't get a high bidder.

Eventually her dad and mom divorced and a couple of years down the line her dad became sick and diagnosed with a serious illness, she moved in with him to take her of him not holding his actions against him.

The man had 3 sons remember that he use to put all his money and effort to, the 3 of them went on with their lives and never really use to come around him.

More than 12 years go by and she sacrificed her life for him for nothing.

Would you do the same as this woman?

Hell no, I believe in giving people the same treatment they give you in life just because your my parent doesn't mean you own me and you can walk all over me.

Same as you I have boundaries and limits, and if you cross them then I'll cut you out of my life and I don't owe you shit in life!!!!

You can't treat someone like shit at your strength and expect them to show you love and mercy when your weak.

You don't plant potatoes and sit around expecting grapes, after all in life you get what you plant.
 
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When she was born her father use to take her away from her mother by force and leave her in alleys in-hopes of strangers taking her, because he didn't want a daughter because of the image he had of women.

Sadly for him though, nobody saw her or took her so he use to bring her back after each failed attempt he eventually gave up while thinking of burring her alive.
Fortunately he never acted on it he had 3 other sons, 2 before his daughter and 1 after her.

Raising his kids he didn't show his daughter love or treatment compared to his sons.

While her brothers went to school and went on with their lives, she never went to school, or became anything in life.

She was just in the kitchen for her family because a woman is just something for sex and reproduction at the end of the day.😑

All he focused on was making sure she's locked away from the world in a house, and doesn't become a ho* because then men won't marry her for not being a virgin, or he won't get a high bidder.

Eventually her dad and mom divorced and a couple of years down the line her dad became sick and diagnosed with a serious illness, she moved in with him to take her of him not holding his actions against him.

The man had 3 sons remember that he use to put all his money and effort to, the 3 of them went on with their lives and never really use to come around him.

More than 12 years go by and she sacrificed her life for him for nothing.

Would you do the same as this woman?

Hell no, I believe in giving people the same treatment they give you in life just because your my parent doesn't mean you own me and you can walk all over me.

Same as you I have boundaries and limits, and if you cross them then I'll cut you out of my life and I don't owe you shit in life!!!!

You can't treat someone like shit at your strength and expect them to show you love and mercy when your weak.

You don't plant potatoes and sit around expecting grapes, after all in life you get what you plant.
It was a test for both from Allah and she passed it with flying colors. Life isn’t guaranteed but alhairo is. If she dies like this she may have golden pass to Jannah. That being said I do believe treating others how they treat you although it’s incredibly hard to do that to a parent.
 
Her reward with Allaah will be great inshaaAllaah. Imagine, if Allaah wills, he allows her into Jannah because of taking care of her father? Wow.
 

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